Cathy Vartuli

Flirting When You’re Shy

Flirting can be fun and playful…but if you’re shy, it can feel impossible! Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com share how to flirt when you’re shy! Cathy: We’ve done a video on flirting before but I’ve noticed that … Reid: No we didn’t. Cathy: Yes we did. Reid: No we didn’t. Oh I touched your […]

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Listening To The Room

“Listening To The Room”, hearing what the group or audience wants, how they’re responding and how connected they are, can make an event go smoothly and easily, leaving enthusiastic and educated attendees! Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com share how to Listen To A Room! Cathy:  Have you ever wanted to listen to […]

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Turning Insecurity and Worry Upside Down

Do you find yourself getting insecure? Worrying if you’re being obnoxious or annoying? Turn your brain on it’s head… with this tip from Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: Are you ever afraid that you’re being annoying or does your insecurity come up and bite you in the butt? It can get […]

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Resolving Disagreements With Your Partner

What do you do when your partner, friend, co-worker or family member feels strongly about a topic, and disagrees with you? This can cause fights and tension. Join relationship expert Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com as they give you tips and suggestions. Cathy: Hi, this is Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: I’m Reid […]

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Dealing With People Who Cut You Off, Or Won’t Stop Talking

Join relationship expert Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com as they share what to do, whether your lead workshops or in your personal life, when people cut you off or won’t stop talking. Cathy: Are you ever in a situation where all of a sudden someone will … Reid: Cut you off, and […]

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Vulnerability Sharing without Being a Victim

You want to be more open and transparent, but how much do you share, with whom, and what do you share so you feel good about the interaction, and don’t come across as a victim? Join relationship expert Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com as they share simple, practical steps you can […]

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Afraid of Attraction or Arousal? We’re Not In 7th Grade Anymore!

Are you afraid of other people’s attraction? Or your own arousal? Most of us can actually control ourselves. You can upgrade your beliefs and feel more confident with yourself and others. Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com share tips and approaches to help you appreciate your pre-frontal cortex! Cathy: Are you still […]

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Trust in Relationships

Join Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com as she asks Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com to discuss how lack of trust can affect relationships. Cathy: Hi everyone, this is Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com here with Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: Yay. Cathy: Can you talk to us about trust and how it’s really important in a relationship for […]

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Unhooking II – Delaying Attachment

Join Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com as Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com discusses delaying attachment and giving yourself time to got to know your partner (before renting the UHaul on the second date). Reid: So this is the Unhooking II, or what we will say Delaying Attachment. Cathy: It’s good if you can delay that. I’ve seen […]

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How Do You Unhook and Stay UnHooked

Join Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com as she asks Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com about Emotional Bonding, Attachment and keeping clean boundaries. Cathy: Hey everyone, this is Cathy Vartuli from TheintimacyDojo.com. I’m here with Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: Yay! Cathy: Reid, if you’re intimate with people sometimes it’s easy to get hooked. To get attached. How […]

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