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Stories About Jealousy In Polyamorous Relationships

What are some examples of jealousy in polyamorous relationships? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: Someone wrote in and asked about jealousy in a polyamorous relationship and was asking if we had some stories we could share that would help bring it down to a real level, like a more […]

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Is He A Good Fit For Me? Dating Advice

How do you know if someone is a good fit for you or not? Is it the circumstances you’re in right now or are they just not a good fit? The main thing is when you’re thinking about is this the tough time – has the relationship always been a tough time or are you just […]

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Someone Flirting With Your Boyfriend…. And Gossiping About You?

What do you do if someone flirts with your boyfriend, then says bad things about you behind your back? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: We had a writer write in. Cathy: Yes. Reid: We love it when you write in. Cathy: Yes. Reid: Because it gives us things to […]

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Getting Your Needs Met When Your Sex Drives Don’t Match

When we’re talking about issues of libido, we have to ask ourselves, if there’ve been any recent changes in ourselves, your lovers’ lives that could be the cause of the decreased libido. The second thing to start looking at, then, is there something that’s going on between you two relationship wise that you don’t have matching libidos? […]

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Private Abandonment Issues- Intensive

Do you have abandonment issues? Are you in a relationship with someone who does? What are some ways to cope and work through these issues? Alone? With a partner? Private Abandonment Issues Intensive with Cathy Vartuli from ReidAboutSex.com Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com   Cathy: I’m Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com and I’m here with someone that […]

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Finding Good People To Date

Do think you’re not meeting anyone you want to date, and that you are attracted to? Are you wondering if it’s you? Do you fear that you’re never going to meet anybody? Join relationship expert Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com as they share ways to start meeting new people that you maybe would want to date. Cathy: […]

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Is There A Way Back From The Brink In Your Relationship?

Is your relationship worth saving? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com.     Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, is there a way back from the brink? How can you assess a relationship and tell if it can be made to flourish again? Reid: The brink of destruction? Cathy: Or ending. […]

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What Do I Do If My Partner Keeps Lying To Me?

Is your partner keep lying to you but you don’t want to leave him/her? First, know that there’s a difference between that kind of lie which is not really a big deal, versus those really big lies that can affect your relationship and your partner is keeping them from you. Join relationship expert Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and […]

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How Do You Know Who To Share With?

Starting to share more and open up, and feeling judged by those close to you? What can you do? How do you know if someone has the bandwidth to listen? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com Cathy: We just answered a question about someone who’d shared vulnerably and been judged by […]

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Walking Towards The Gun: Reid Mihalko on Moving Relationships and Life Forward

Reid has a great talk that he gives about walking towards the gun. When he talks about relationships and he talks about how to move your relationships forward, and this also applies to moving your life forward. Join relationship expert Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com as they talk about walking into your fear in […]

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