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How Can I Slow Down And Tune Into My Partner?

Finding out where your venn diagram overlaps with your partner so you might be able to find your yes in an area that’s really juicy for them too. If you have a hard time tuning into that, and always feel rushed and in a hurry, then join relationship expert Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com […]

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Flirting Without The Other Person Becoming Pepe La Pew

When you flirt does the other person crank up the heat to an 11 as a consequence? Problem sometimes occurs when you tell the other person that you’re flirting with, that you’re a shy, slow, tentative person, but it seems to come across: “I hereby encourage you to channel Pepe Le Pew and ignore all boundaries, starting now.” What can […]

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Reid and Monique Are Bringing Fearless Relating & Energetic Play Back to Oakland March 12th

Reid & Monique are back in Oakland for a day of fearless relating and a night of playing in the energetic field Saturday March 12th! Join us for both events! FEARLESS RELATING ONE DAY INTENSIVE 10:30-5:30PM Are you ready to take an intensive based on FEARLESS RELATING with two of the most dynamic relationship geeks on […]

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Want To Leave The Friend Zone? Afraid Of Being Shot Down?

Are you always the cool girl friend and never the cool girlfriend? Do you hate the idea of being shut down? Join relationship expert Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com as they talk about how you can deal with that fear of being shut down. Cathy: We shot a video a while ago about […]

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Reid teaches Rough Sex Techniques at Good Vibrations in Brookline, MA March 22nd

Martial Arts Techniques for the bedroom so YOU can be a blackbelt at sex… If you’re a lover, not a fighter, but you or your lover like it a little rough, let America’s favorite sex geek (and double black belt), Reid Mihalko of ReidAboutSex.com, show you how you can safely be a bad ass in bed. From wresting to […]

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Speed Flirting and an Official Cuddle Party with Reid and Monique Apr 6 in Seattle

Come Flirt and Cuddle with Reid and Monique April 6 in Seattle! Cuddle Party is a 3 hour workshop experience where participants engage in communication exercises, explore touch in a non-sexual space, experience personal exploration and intimacy, and have fun with like-minded friends from the community. Nurturing and consensual loving touch is good for maintaining […]

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Come Flirt, Cuddle, and Play with Reid and Monique in Portland April 7-10

Join Reid and Monique for a weekend full of Speed Flirting, a Cuddle Party, and an Energetic Sex Play Party in Portland April 7th-10th! Official Cuddle Party Thurs April 7th Cuddle Party is a 3 hour workshop experience where participants engage in communication exercises, explore touch in a non-sexual space, experience personal exploration and intimacy, and have fun with […]

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Want To Amp Up Your Personal Power Without Trampling People?

There’s an assumption that, if you’re powerful, then somehow you’re not going to notice people. We tend to think that power is automatically reckless or the worry there is that it’s going to be reckless. If you want to be a more powerful person, how can you do it without trampling other people, still being aware of other […]

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Poly? Partner Not? What Do You Do?

You’re polyamorous, but your partner is not, and he doesn’t have the same sex drive as you do. Basicaly you’re dating people that are not your species? Can Poly/Mono relationship work or is it time to pull the plug? Here relationship expert Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com will give advice on what to do in […]

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Inviting Your Partner Into Connection

If you’re in the mood to be really intimate, connected with your partner, not necessarily sexual, but just connected, present, and your partner’s not in the mood, how can you start a conversation maybe to invite them to step into it with you? Hear what relationship expert Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com have […]

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