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Join me at Intimacy Fest, Jun 4-7, in SoCal, for a 4-day LOVEFEST!

How deep do YOU dare to go? INTIMACY FEST 2015, created by two very good friends of mine, Dave Booda and Paula Padmakshi, is an invitation for you to fall in love and dive deeply into a wild love affair… With yourself. Your body and your breath. Friends. Lovers. Strangers. The wind, the Earth, the […]

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Bawdy Storytelling & Dixie De La Tour’s Birthday Extravaganza Wed May 13th

It’s Dixie’s Birthday! And she’s celebrating in true BAWDY style! Show’s theme: SURPRISE! *Come hear true dirty stories from ME and a bunch of other ah-mazing sex geeks! When: Wednesday, May 13th, 2015, Doors at 7 PM, Stories at 8 PM Where: The Verdi Club, 2424 Mariposa, San Francisco, CA Cost: $25 in Advance Tickets: Get ’em asap! […]

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How Can Shy People Create More Play?

Want to play more? Feel shy? How do you make life more playful and engage other people more? Join Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com as she asks Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com how to create more play. Reid: Just so you know, I don’t think I’ve ever talked about this topic with Cathy, so she’s actually springing […]

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Bottom Lines

How do you know what you’re bottom lines are? And what do you do when someone crosses one? Join Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com as she asks Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com these questions. Cathy: Hi everyone, this is Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. And we’re here with Reid Mihalko from RediAboutSex.com. Reid: I was just wondering if […]

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I Have An Idea! Initiating Intimacy

Want to Initiate a 3-some? Break the ice? Join Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com as they share ideas and suggestions. Cathy: So we’re back. Reid is going to explain, “I have an idea.” Reid: We’re back from what? What if this is this person’s first video they’re ever watching? They don’t really know […]

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How Can You Tell Who To Approach For A Three-Some?

Want to Initiate Intimacy? Break the ice? Join Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com as they share ideas and suggestions. Cathy: We had someone ask us- you’re such a goof-ball. We had someone ask us, “Who do I or who to approach for a threesome and how to talk to them about it?” […]

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Is It Safe To Be Sexually Intimate With Someone With Herpes?

A lot of people are nervous about connecting with people with herpes. Join Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com as they share. Cathy: Hi Reid. One of our listeners asked, is it safe to be involved with someone with herpes? Reid: I’m Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: I’m Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com Reid: Is it safe? […]

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What To Do When Your Partner Is Depressed

When your partner is going through a tough time, your relationship can be stressed and strained. Join Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com as they share ideas and suggestions. Cathy: We have another comment from someone asking for help. Reid: Okay. Cathy:  His wife is going through some family stuff, and she’s been really depressed. […]

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If I Need Lube For Sex, Does That Mean I’m Not Turned On?

Does needing lube mean there’s anything wrong? Join Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.comand Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com as they share.   Cathy: We had someone write to us about needing lube for sex. She had thought originally because she needed lube, her partner thought that that meant she wasn’t turned on. What do you think about that […]

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Talking About Masturbation

Most people don’t talk about masturbation, and that can leave people feeling ashamed or uncomfortable. Join Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com as they share. Cathy: Do you ever masturbate? Reid: No! Never. Cathy: You’re going to scare them. Reid: What are we talking about? Cathy: Masturbation. Reid: Oh, no! No, no! Cathy: A lot of us are brought … […]

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