Safer Sex

Safer Sex Tips, Tricks, & Tools

Safer Sex Tips, Tricks & Tools: Bedroom Moves and Confidence You Can Use Tonight! Want to know Reid’s favorite safer sex tips, tricks, and tools that make for outrageous (and safer!) mindblowing sex? Let Reid share his 20+ years of creativity and experience so YOU can take your bedroom confidence and safer sex savvy to […]

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Wait… Brushing Your Teeth Before Sex Makes It Less Safe? 🤯

Safer Sex Tips, Tricks & Tools You May Not Know… Safer Sex Tip #1 👉 Brushing your teeth right before (or after) sex is actually less safe than using mouthwash. Why? Because brushing (or flossing) creates tiny micro-tears in your gums, making it easier for viruses or bacteria to enter your bloodstream. Mouthwash, on the […]

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Reid visits the Nope! We’re Not Monogamous Podcast to talk about The Art of Ethical Hookups: Elevating Casual Encounters

Reid visits the Nope! We’re Not Monogamous Podcast to talk about The Art of Ethical Hookups: Elevating Casual Encounters Ever wondered how sex educators navigate their own intimate encounters? In this candid and eye-opening episode, I sit down with renowned sex and relationship educator Reid Mihalko for an intimate conversation about the intricacies of communication, […]

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When and How To Use The Safer Sex Elevator Speech?

When and How To Use The Safer Sex Elevator Speech? Cathy: I’m curious about when to initiate the safer sex elevator speech. It sounds like it comes before kissing especially for including oral herpes in this discussion. But I don’t usually talk about sex until I know someone’s interested which I frequently find out by […]

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A Few Resources on Power Dynamics…

An area that often gets overlooked in relationship and sex education is the area of individual/institutional power dynamics and how they impact relationships. This is an area that I was sorely lacking understanding in, but as I continue to journey further down the rabbit hole, slowly developing more awareness and understanding, I would be remiss if I didn’t shout from the rooftops, “Learning how power dynamics are impacting your relationships changes everything!”

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Reid’s Safer Sex Elevator Speech – UPGRADED for Your P.L.E.A.S.U.R.E.

Many people find it difficult to have a safer sex conversation because no one ever taught us how! I use the P.L.E.A.S.U.R.E. acronym to help me recall each of the Safer Sex Elevator Speech’s 8 steps…

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Safer Sex: E is for Essentials About Me

Use your safer sex/STI status conversation as building blocks towards creating a sexy, satisfying win-win by including an Essentials About Me segment! In my Safer Sex Elevator Speech post, I share my favorite way to have a safer sex , STD/STI status conversation. I use the P.L.E.A.S.U.R.E. acronym to help remind me of each step. […]

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Can You Be Allergic To Lube? – Good Clean Love supports sex educators and Sex Geek Summer Camp 2016

Thank you, Good Clean Love for being proud sponsors of Sex Geek Summer Camp 2016.   Check out http://GoodCleanLove.com, http://MakingLoveSustainable.com, and http://SexGeekSummerCamp.com. Reid: Hello everybody! It is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com/ creator of http://www.SexGeekSummercamp.com/ and I am so proud and honored to have Wendy Strgar from http://www.GoodCleanLove.com/ which is one of my favorite lubes. I […]

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What Do You Do When The Condom Breaks?!

First take a deep breath! It can seem like the worst thing ever… but there are specific steps you can take. With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: What do you do when the condom breaks? Coming up now. I’m Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: I’m Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: […]

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Safer Sex Elevator Speech On The Third Date? When To Bring This Up

Ever wonder how to have “The Talk” with your date? Reid and Cathy discuss when to share the safer sex elevator speech. Discussing safer sex issues and concerns can bring a lot of ease to a new or an established connection, and sets the groundwork for talking about challenging things. Join relationship expert Reid Mihalko […]

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