Dating

Does He Love Me

Does he love me? With Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: Does he love me? How can I tell? Someone wrote in and asked us that question the other day. It’s a great question. And this is Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and I’m Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com and apparently, we’ve killed […]

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Doing Things In Bed That You Don’t Want to Do

With Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: We had someone write in to us and say that their partner is wanting them to try things in bed that they don’t really know they want to try. They’re not really sure and … Reid: Like eating cookies in bed? Cathy: Yeah. I’m sure that […]

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How Do I Know When She’s Come

How Do I Know When She’s Come? With Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com Cathy: How do you know when she has an orgasm, so you know when to stop? Someone wrote in asking about that and I love that the person wants to know more. There is a lot of pressure I […]

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Cathy On Tuning

Join Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: Hi this is Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com Reid: You use this phrase “tuning” to somebody. Please explain for our viewers. Your esoteric languaging. Cathy: Yes, OK. Well, there’s two levels you can do that at: 1) you can communicate with your partner […]

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Did You Know YOU Have a Romance Groove?

Last week I shared my pragmatic definition of romance (leaving people seen and heard with warmth sprinkled over the top) and how jettisoning culture’s idea of romance can improve your love life. I also talked about the myth of mind reading around romance, and how sharing the process of identifying romantic gestures with your partner or those you’re […]

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No Mind Reading Required… Conscious Romance 101

In my last article, I talked about Kissing in the rain isn’t romance! – What is Romance and Why Does It Matter? In case you haven’t read the article, I shared that despite what media and culture tell us, if you cut through the BS and the music swelling/tear-jerking movie hype, romance just means leaving people feeling appreciated, significant, […]

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Kissing In The Rain Isn’t Romance! – What is Romance and Why Does It Matter?

Why kissing in the rain isn’t necessarily romance! Isn’t romance some story about a helpless damsel and a strong handsome man riding up on a white horse to rescue her? Or is romance Hallmark cards and flowers? Maybe you’re thinking romance is standing in the rain declaring your undying love… Ummmm… I think romance is none of these things. […]

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What Do Icebergs and Chocolate Have In Common? The Secret, Missing Ingredient…

A gift to make all of your special times more powerful, more memorable, and sweeter… A lot of people go for the big splashy moments when it comes to Valentines and love. We’re taught that the more important something is, the more sparkle and glitter it should have. While pizzaz and flare can make experiences […]

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Confidence and Instinct In The Bedroom [Article]

Am I Good In Bed… Yes, I am! Or Am I? It’s an ironic truth that being confident often makes people appear much sexier… And yet, in most people’s minds there is the question, “Am I good in bed?” Confidence in bed can be very attractive… it can spark interest, ignite passion, and explode into […]

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Dating Your Species Workshop [Video and Transcript]

Why do we fall in love with good people who are HORRIBLE fits for us? Are you confused about dating, mating, and relating in the 21st Century? Unsure how to make a relationship last past a season of Project Runway or Monday Night Football? Can’t tell Mr/Ms. Right from Mr/Ms. Trainwreck? Dating, marriage and the […]

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