Communication & Repair

Does your family need a “Holiday Safeword”?

Do you and your family need a Holiday Safeword? Do you know what your “Chill Down Styles” are? As my holiday gift to you, here are some fun tips that might just help you get through the “holidaze” of friends and family with more grace and ease… First, I want to invite you, if you […]

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Sex Geek Summer Camp’s 2014 Sex Toy Review Video Contest!

The 1st Annual Sex Geek Summer Camp Sex Toy Review Video Contest is Underway! Which lucky camper will win?! We have all the videos submitted, and I’m eagerly watching every moment I get to choose a winner! (I’m traveling and teaching almost non-stop right now, so I have to watch in between lectures!) Contest Is […]

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Difficult Conversations [Video and Transcript]

Make Difficult Conversations Easier! Join Reid Mihalko of ReidAboutSex.com as he discusses Difficult Conversations with TheIntimacyDojo.com’s Cathy Vartuli! (Scroll down below the video for access to FREE Downloadable Worksheets, and the Video Transcript, too!) You can find the Difficult Conversations article here: reidaboutsex.com/difficult-conversation-formula/ (not safe for all work places, with lots of other juicy content) […]

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No Mind Reading Required… Conscious Romance 101

In my last article, I talked about Kissing in the rain isn’t romance! – What is Romance and Why Does It Matter? In case you haven’t read the article, I shared that despite what media and culture tell us, if you cut through the BS and the music swelling/tear-jerking movie hype, romance just means leaving people feeling appreciated, significant, […]

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Sex Positive Professional 3.0: Upgrading Your Business and Community Pre-Conference Talk at AASECT’s 46th Annual Conference, June 4th

What if strengthening your peer community improved all of our businesses? I’m excited and honored to be asked to give a pre-conference talk at AASECT’s 46th Annual Conference this year in beautiful Monterey, California. Please join me for what is going to be some amazing brain-sex and sex geekery! From the AASECT’s website: Come renew and revitalize […]

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A Warm Connection, Part II: Training Your Hamsters

In the last article, we talked about one way to create warm connection quickly: Presence. Have you been practicing being present with people? Noticing when your brain goes off on it’s own, and bringing it back to the conversation? Noticing your toes, and the color of their eyes? Even a little bit of practice can […]

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How to Have A Better Con [Video and Transcript]

That’s Con, not Kahn! Conferences, workshops and events can be a blast! And they can be overwhelming and leave you exhausted and worn out. Here’s a video (and transcript) I did with The Intimacy Dojo’s Cathy Vartuli on how to have a better conference experience! Cathy: Do you want to have a better conference? Reid: Yeah.  I […]

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The Language Dilemma… [Article and Video]

When Language Helps Rather Than Hurts Your Relationship… As you read the following, please notice what thoughts and feelings you experience… I’ll explain my dilemma below: Women today are the most autonomous, educated & powerful generation in recorded history… Yet, do you feel like you’ve embraced your full Feminine power? What do you need to […]

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Community vs. Competition

Community Not Competition: Why do I share some of my best tips for Sex Geeks and business owners? Why do I care -even if you’re not a professional Sex Geek like me- if you’re successful creating a business and living a life you love? I think it makes for a better planet when people are […]

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Mindful Touch and Presence For More Intimacy

Reid: Touching with mindfulness and what was it? Cathy: I don’t remember what I said. Reid: It was good though. Cathy: Yes. Reid: So touching mindfully is the topic for this video and Cathy Vartuli, why is it important to touch people mindfully? Cathy: A lot of us when we’re first dating someone and touching […]

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