Why is Vulnerability Vital to Intimacy? [Video and Transcript]

Why is Vulnerability Vital to Intimacy? Get the deep, meaningful relationships by being authentic and transparent. Learn why and how you can share more of the REAL you! Join TheIntimacyDojo.com’s Cathy Vartuli and moi as we share simple, practical steps you can take to bring the passion back into your life, and create warmth and […]

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Reid Gets Punched In The A-hole [Video and Transcript]

Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com makes an appearance at Dixie De La Tour’s true-life, dirty storytelling event, Bawdy Storytelling, and shares his personal tale about sleeping with one’s heroes for Bawdy’s “Star F*cker” theme. Recorded live in San Fran, June 2013. Dixie: He is a relationship coach, a sex educator and a role model and a beloved […]

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Stories to Reduce Shame: Bawdy Storytelling [Video and Transcript]

How can telling Dirty Stories reduce shame and bring you self-expression and a sense of freedom? Join TheIntimacyDojo.com’s Cathy Vartuli as she interviews Dixie De La Tour from BawdyStorytelling.com/ and some of the amazing story tellers, including Allison Moon from TalesOfThePack.com, Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com, and others. Cathy: Hi, this is Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com, […]

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Delayed Ejaculation: Suggestions with Humor [Video and Transcript]

If you have trouble ejaculating, or have a partner who does, this video will give you insights and ideas to help. In this video (transcript below), TheIntimacyDojo.com’s Cathy Vartuli and I share ways to talk about delayed ejaculation and increase pleasure. Cathy: Hi, I’m Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: I’m Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: We have a video on […]

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What To Do If Your Partner Isn’t Hard [Video and Transcript]

Not to sure what to do in bed if your partner’s penis isn’t hard? Do you feel ashamed or embarrassed? In this video (transcript below), TheIntimacyDojo.com’s Cathy Vartuli and I discuss playing with flaccid penises (a.k.a when they aren’t hard). Cathy: Hey everyone. Have you ever been in bed with someone and you weren’t quite […]

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Reid Appearing at Poly Palooza 2013, Desert Hotsprings CA, Oct 10-14th!

Top 10 Reasons to go to a 4-day festival for free lovers: POLY PALOOZA! Want to experiment in community, connection and compersion? Poly Palooza is an advanced 4-day community building and educational festival focusing on non-monogamy happening in Desert Hotsprings, California, with Kamala Devi and nearly all her lovers on Oct. 10-14th 2013. From Kamala […]

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Scare the Crap Out of Yourself This Weekend!!

TGIF! Embarking on a fun, adventure filled weekend? Or has life gotten full of burdensome tasks and depressing ruts? When my life gets burdensome and weighed-down, it’s usually because I haven’t scared myself of late! Or I haven’t recently inspired myself with new perspectives (meaning I haven’t had any good “Brain Sex”)! Elenaor Roosevelt said […]

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Afraid of Touch? Tips for Creating Safety Around Touch. [Video and Transcript]

Fear of touch can create a conflict- you long for connection and you freeze up at the thought. People need touch to really thrive. Avoid skin hunger and learn how to start feeling safer receiving concentual touch and getting the warmth and connection you long for. In this video (transcript below) The Intimacy Dojo’s Cathy Vartuli […]

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Community vs. Competition

Community Not Competition: Why do I share some of my best tips for Sex Geeks and business owners? Why do I care -even if you’re not a professional Sex Geek like me- if you’re successful creating a business and living a life you love? I think it makes for a better planet when people are […]

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Where Is Your Sweet Spot?

I love it when I’m in my sweet spot – in relationships, in work, in play, with my friends and family. When I’m in my sweet spot, everything seems more interesting and fun! AND EASIER. Not that being in your sweet spot isn’t work sometimes, or that you don’t hit a speed bump or get […]

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