Delayed Ejaculation: Suggestions with Humor [Video and Transcript]

If you have trouble ejaculating, or have a partner who does, this video will give you insights and ideas to help. In this video (transcript below), TheIntimacyDojo.com’s Cathy Vartuli and I share ways to talk about delayed ejaculation and increase pleasure. Cathy: Hi, I’m Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: I’m Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: We have a video on […]

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What To Do If Your Partner Isn’t Hard [Video and Transcript]

Not to sure what to do in bed if your partner’s penis isn’t hard? Do you feel ashamed or embarrassed? In this video (transcript below), TheIntimacyDojo.com’s Cathy Vartuli and I discuss playing with flaccid penises (a.k.a when they aren’t hard). Cathy: Hey everyone. Have you ever been in bed with someone and you weren’t quite […]

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Reid Appearing at Poly Palooza 2013, Desert Hotsprings CA, Oct 10-14th!

Top 10 Reasons to go to a 4-day festival for free lovers: POLY PALOOZA! Want to experiment in community, connection and compersion? Poly Palooza is an advanced 4-day community building and educational festival focusing on non-monogamy happening in Desert Hotsprings, California, with Kamala Devi and nearly all her lovers on Oct. 10-14th 2013. From Kamala […]

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Scare the Crap Out of Yourself This Weekend!!

TGIF! Embarking on a fun, adventure filled weekend? Or has life gotten full of burdensome tasks and depressing ruts? When my life gets burdensome and weighed-down, it’s usually because I haven’t scared myself of late! Or I haven’t recently inspired myself with new perspectives (meaning I haven’t had any good “Brain Sex”)! Elenaor Roosevelt said […]

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Afraid of Touch? Tips for Creating Safety Around Touch. [Video and Transcript]

Fear of touch can create a conflict- you long for connection and you freeze up at the thought. People need touch to really thrive. Avoid skin hunger and learn how to start feeling safer receiving concentual touch and getting the warmth and connection you long for. In this video (transcript below) The Intimacy Dojo’s Cathy Vartuli […]

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Community vs. Competition

Community Not Competition: Why do I share some of my best tips for Sex Geeks and business owners? Why do I care -even if you’re not a professional Sex Geek like me- if you’re successful creating a business and living a life you love? I think it makes for a better planet when people are […]

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Where Is Your Sweet Spot?

I love it when I’m in my sweet spot – in relationships, in work, in play, with my friends and family. When I’m in my sweet spot, everything seems more interesting and fun! AND EASIER. Not that being in your sweet spot isn’t work sometimes, or that you don’t hit a speed bump or get […]

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Learning From Each Other’s A-ha Moments

Our culture doesn’t talk about sex and relationships much. Yes, there’s tons of gossip! But trash-talking about So-and-So’s celebrity sexcapades isn’t the same as authentic sharing of questions, concerns, personal challenges and creative solutions and ideas… If you had car problems, you’d have no problem asking your co-workers or your family for their thoughts. You […]

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Bonuses for Attracting Your Soulmate Now!

Attract Your Soulmate WHILE Reid Answers Your Questions… Want a Special Bonus Where We Get To Geek Out On Relationships Together? 1) Sign Up Now!  http://www.1shoppingcart.com/app/?af=1541017 2) THEN forward your confirmation email from Arielle to me at this email – reid5-779256@autocontactor.com – so I can email YOU information about YOUR bonus teleclass! 3) If you upgrade […]

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Mindful Touch and Presence For More Intimacy

Reid: Touching with mindfulness and what was it? Cathy: I don’t remember what I said. Reid: It was good though. Cathy: Yes. Reid: So touching mindfully is the topic for this video and Cathy Vartuli, why is it important to touch people mindfully? Cathy: A lot of us when we’re first dating someone and touching […]

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