Flirting

What Are Some Cunnilingus Tips?

How do you do cunnilingus well? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and SexGeekSummerCamp.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: Cunnilingus tips?  Cathy: Yes.  Reid: All right.  Cathy: This is Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com.  Reid: This is Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com.  Cathy: Reid travels all around the country teaching a workshop at sex-toy stores and colleges […]

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Want To Date But Are Scared Of Holding Hands?

Nervous about holding hands and finding that holding you back from dating or getting close? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: What do you do if you want to get close to people, you want to go dating, but you’re scared of holding hands?  Reid: This is Cathy Vartuli from […]

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When To Use Intuition and Mind Reading In Bed

Is mind reading sexy in bed? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: So someone wrote in and said:  “Hey Reid, sexy question here.”  Reid: Ooh, sexy question time.  Cathy: “So I’ve just read one of your articles on communicating and not assuming that your partner can read your mind. What […]

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Playing Games Around Sex? Using Old Paradigms Around Relationships?

How can you step out of the old games about withholding sex or not contacting the other person “too soon”? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: One of our viewers wrote in and said, “I recently had sexual encounter with a new man. I know we really like each other […]

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In An Open Relationship And Want To Let Someone Know Flirtatiously and Playfully?

How can you let someone know that you’re in a non-traditional relationship… in a playful and flirtatious way? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: How do you let someone know graciously and flirtatiously that you might be … that you are in an open relationship and that you might be […]

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What If Someone Hits On Your Partner In Front Of You?

How do you deal with people flirting with your partner right in front of you? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: What do you do when somebody hits on your boyfriend, girlfriend, your husband, or your wife? This is Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: This is Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com. […]

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Poly? Crush On Someone But Not Sure If They’re Poly?

Should you flirt with someone if you don’t know if they’re poly? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid:This just in. A writer or commenter writes in. It’s very detailed and I’ll just summarize it but I just want to thank all of you who leave comments and leave questions or […]

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How Do You Deal With Energetic Attention That Is… or Is NOT Comfortable

What do you do when someone’s giving you a lot of energetic attention in ways that may or may not be comfortable? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: What do you do when someone’s giving you a lot of energetic attention in ways that may or may not be comfortable? […]

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What Do You Do When You’re Straight, and Gay People Hit On You?

How do you handle it when someone hits on you and you’re not interested? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: What do you do when you’re straight and gay people hit on you? I’m Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: I’m Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: This is a great question, […]

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If Someone Hesitates, Should You Try To Persuade Them?

Where does consent meet with encouragement? Should you push your friends to agree? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: Is hesitation an invitation for further persuasion? This is Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: And this is Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: I’m so glad you remember who I am. Reid: […]

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