Communication

A Warm Connection, Part II: Training Your Hamsters

In the last article, we talked about one way to create warm connection quickly: Presence. Have you been practicing being present with people? Noticing when your brain goes off on it’s own, and bringing it back to the conversation? Noticing your toes, and the color of their eyes? Even a little bit of practice can […]

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How to Have A Better Con [Video and Transcript]

That’s Con, not Kahn! Conferences, workshops and events can be a blast! And they can be overwhelming and leave you exhausted and worn out. Here’s a video (and transcript) I did with The Intimacy Dojo’s Cathy Vartuli on how to have a better conference experience! Cathy: Do you want to have a better conference? Reid: Yeah.  I […]

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The Language Dilemma… [Article and Video]

When Language Helps Rather Than Hurts Your Relationship… As you read the following, please notice what thoughts and feelings you experience… I’ll explain my dilemma below: Women today are the most autonomous, educated & powerful generation in recorded history… Yet, do you feel like you’ve embraced your full Feminine power? What do you need to […]

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Community vs. Competition

Community Not Competition: Why do I share some of my best tips for Sex Geeks and business owners? Why do I care -even if you’re not a professional Sex Geek like me- if you’re successful creating a business and living a life you love? I think it makes for a better planet when people are […]

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Mindful Touch and Presence For More Intimacy

Reid: Touching with mindfulness and what was it? Cathy: I don’t remember what I said. Reid: It was good though. Cathy: Yes. Reid: So touching mindfully is the topic for this video and Cathy Vartuli, why is it important to touch people mindfully? Cathy: A lot of us when we’re first dating someone and touching […]

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Relationships Failing More Than Ever…Can This Save Yours?

Today, I’m going to teach you why relationships are failing faster than ever before, why people are so upset or unsatisfied in their relationships and what you can do to start transforming that. If you read my last article, we talked about the Difficult Conversation Formula and how you can start speaking up about the […]

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Navigating Emotional Distress And Also Being A Better Communicator

Awesome Relationships 101 Today I am going to teach you how to navigate emotional distress and also be a better communicator so you can have new ease and connection in your relationships. In the last article we talked about: – How you can create more romance for your partner, – How you can transform their […]

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Wineglasses can make you a better lover… Really?

This is really cool and can take your physical intimacy to a whole new level! And you’ll never look at a wineglass the same way again! Play along and then try it out… I’d love to hear how it works for you! The Wine Glass Analogy: Imagine that you have a wineglass in front of you. Have you ever tried […]

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A Simple Technique To Lessening Conflict…

It might not seem super romantic, but if you can add ease and reduce struggle in your relationship every time you argue, that’s pretty special. Especially when you can do it so easily. And this can be applied even when things are going great! So what is this technique? It’s a really, really small thing that […]

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Making Breakups & Relationships Easier In 3 Simple Steps

Breaking up can be hard and messy, but it doesn’t have to be that way. We’re taught growing up that a relationship is more successful the longer it lasts. And breakups can be so painful, complicated and destructive that staying in a bad relationship can seem more sensible than having to face a catastrophic ending. […]

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