Communication

How Does Shame Effect Your Ability To Share and Open Up?

Want your partner to change and think shame might help? Will it improve your relationship? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: So Reid and I were just listening to Brene Brown talking about shame and I thought there was really interesting too bit that I wanted to share and talk […]

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What Do You Do If Your Date Bores You?

How do you tell your date that you don’t want to continue with your date? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: What do you if your date bores you? Reid: Go on a second date! No! Cathy: This is Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com.  Cathy: And […]

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Should You Learn How To Make Your Partner “Completely Monogamous”?

Lots of programs promise to teach you how to make your partner completely loyal and monogamous, should you take them? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: We have a lot of solicitation on our sight sometimes. Reid: Oh really? Cathy: And someone… Reid: Oooh… Cathy: Various different things. But this […]

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Want To Tell Someone You’re Not That Into Them, But Feel Sorry For Them?

How do you break bad news to someone you don’t want to hurt? Or you feel badly for? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: So we just did a video about how to tell someone your dating that you’re just not into them. Now how do you do that when […]

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Just Want To Be Friends? What Do You Say?

If someone’s dropping the “L” word too soon, or you realize you just want to be friends… What do you do? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: Someone wrote and said, “I recently parted with a female over the New Year’s holidays but now she’s obviously more into me that […]

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What Do You Do If You Have A Passive Aggressive Friend?

Are they being mean? Or joking? When someone is passive aggressive it can be confusing. What do you do? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: What if you have a friend that you really care about who sometimes gets a little passive-aggressive-  Reid: Pfft. Whatever.  Cathy: … And subtly or […]

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How Do You Handle Risk More Easily

How can you walk toward the gun and handle risk better? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: Today, we’re talking about risk. How do you handle it and how can it be easier for you?  Reid: You mean the board game?  Cathy: Yes, of course.  Reid: I’m Reid Mihalko from […]

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How Do You Deal With Being A Sex Educator and Someone Who Has Their Own Questions About Sex?

It can be tough to balance being an educator and being on your own journey. How can you deal with that? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: How do you deal with being both a sex educator and a human being? Being the resource for information on dealing with personal […]

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How Do You Handle It When Your Friends And Family Don’t Support Your Sex Ed Career?

It can be confusing and frustrating when your family and friends don’t get what you do, and feel ashamed of the Sex Ed you do. How can you support yourself emotionally? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: How do you handle it when your family and friends don’t support the […]

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Want To Date But Are Scared Of Holding Hands?

Nervous about holding hands and finding that holding you back from dating or getting close? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: What do you do if you want to get close to people, you want to go dating, but you’re scared of holding hands?  Reid: This is Cathy Vartuli from […]

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