Cathy Vartuli

Can Mindfulness Increase Connection and Enjoyment?

Can mindfulness increase connection and enjoyment in relationships? If you want more zest in your romantic life, listen in while Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com share tips and ideas about being present during connecting. Reid: Why are you pushing me? Quit hogging the camera. Cathy: Your big shoulder is on the […]

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Commitment: The Good, The Bad and The Ugly

Wondering when commitment works and when it doesn’t? Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com discuss the ins and outs of commitment, and why we may have different needs for commitment now. Reid: We’re back. It’s Cathy Vartuli from TheInitimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com. And we’re talking about commitment. Cathy: Commitment can […]

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Asking for Reassurance without Blaming

Do you need reassurance and comfort from your partner? Want to ask in a way that gets you more of what you want and builds connection? Join Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com as they give tips and new perspectives. Reid: Hello, welcome, it’s… Cathy: Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com, and Reid Mihalko […]

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Getting Your Partner to Grow Up

Getting Your Partner to Grow Up Join Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: We’ve a bunch of people writing in and sharing things with us at the bottom of our videos, and one of the questions lately was how do I get my partner to grow up and stop being childish, and I can […]

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How Do I Know When She’s Come

How Do I Know When She’s Come? With Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com Cathy: How do you know when she has an orgasm, so you know when to stop? Someone wrote in asking about that and I love that the person wants to know more. There is a lot of pressure I […]

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Privacy and Snooping

Your Partner Is Going Through Your Stuff? Join Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: Someone else wrote in to us and said my boyfriend is going through my email and my phone.  He’s snooping.  What can I do, it makes me really uncomfortable? Reid: Shhh, he may be listening in right now. Cathy: That’s really […]

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Reframing Fighting

How Can You Reframe Fighting For A Better Outcome? Join Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com Reid: Hi, I’m Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: I’m Cathy Vartuli from the TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: Yeah, and today we’re going to talk about reframing fighting. Cathy: It’s really powerful because in our society, we do have a tendency … […]

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Stuck in the Friend Zone

Stuck in the Friend Zone? Join Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com Cathy: Some people end up being friends with everyone they’re interested with romantically. It doesn’t ever quite transition to romantic. They end up being buddies. That can be really frustrating. Reid: The friend zone. Cathy: Yes. It can be very frustrating.  What […]

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Trouble Orgasming

Trouble Orgasming? Join Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: A lot of women have trouble orgasming. Reid: What? That explains everything. Cathy: They may not be able to orgasm with a partner or by themselves or they may just be, it may take them a long time or it might be a struggle […]

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Cathy On Tuning

Join Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com.   Reid: Hi this is Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com Reid: You use this phrase “tuning” to somebody. Please explain for our viewers. Your esoteric languaging. Cathy: Yes, OK. Well, there’s two levels you can do that at: 1) you can communicate with your partner […]

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