Cathy Vartuli

Changing Your Focus and Your Energy So You Can Be Present

You’re on your way home from work and you’re really frustrated. It’s a really special night. You really want to be there for your partner and yet, you have road rage. What do you do? How do you change your focus and your state? Join relationship expert Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from […]

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What If You Tried Something, Didn’t Like It, And Your Partner Won’t Let It Go?

What do you do if you tried something with your partner, and you didn’t enjoy it at all. You also don’t have the desire to do it again, and your partner won’t let it go.  Something like this might happen in the bedroom or in the relationship in general. Hear what relationship expert Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy […]

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In Too Deep? Cut And Run… Or De-Escalate Your Relationship

If you’re hanging out with someone and you’re both using skill sets that create warmth and connection, it’s really easy to get deeper than you first planned. In these kind of moments it’s better not to just dump the relationship and run if you can help it. It is good to know where the breaks are at all times. Join […]

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Told A Lie… Not Sure How To Take It Back Or Fix It?

What do you do if you lied? You blurted out a lie without meaning to and then you’re afraid to take it back and you’re not really sure there’s safe space to do so. What can you do? Join relationship expert Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com as they share thoughts about how […]

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Taking Care Of Yourself Vs Selfishness or Hedonism

Hedonism has gotten a bad slant, like people use the word to mean something negative. But looking for pleasure or happiness is not necessarily a bad thing. You need to be selfish in life – you actually need to take care of yourself first. Hear relationship expert Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com talk about when […]

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Handling Mean People

It’s easy to be rattled when someone is mean to us. Want to learn cool ways to reframe this and “turn the tables”? Join Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com as she talks to sex and relationship expert Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com about creating more intimacy in your life. Cathy:  Hey, everyone. This is Cathy Vartuli from […]

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Jealousy As A Signal That Needs Aren’t Being Met

Most of us avoid the topic of Jealousy, but when we face the feelings and learn new skills, we can transform our relationships and create new intimacy. Being jealous doesn’t mean you’re bad- it may just mean you have some needs that aren’t being met. Join Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com as she talks to sex […]

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My Partner Isn’t Interested In Sex Anymore

When your partner loses interest in sex, it can be frustrating and heart wrenching. Here are some tips to clearing the air and opening up discussions to allow more connection and more physical intimacy. Join Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com as she talks to sex and relationship expert Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com about creating more intimacy […]

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Dealing With Different Financial Expression: Saver vs Spender

What to do, if one person wants to save and budget and the other person, someone who is a lot more free thinking about money, doesn’t want to budget or plan? That can cause a lot of conflict in a relationship, because one is a saver, and other is a spender. Join relationship expert Reid Mihalko from […]

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Reid Mihalko on Cuddle Party on the 10th Anniversary

10 years ago, Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com was Reid Mihalko from CuddleParty.com and it was Cuddle Party’s 10th Anniversary on February 28th 2014. Join relationship expert Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com as they share memories. Reid: Hi, I’m Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: I’m Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: And 10 years […]

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