Cathy Vartuli

How Can I Slow Down And Tune Into My Partner?

Finding out where your venn diagram overlaps with your partner so you might be able to find your yes in an area that’s really juicy for them too. If you have a hard time tuning into that, and always feel rushed and in a hurry, then join relationship expert Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com […]

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Flirting Without The Other Person Becoming Pepe La Pew

When you flirt does the other person crank up the heat to an 11 as a consequence? Problem sometimes occurs when you tell the other person that you’re flirting with, that you’re a shy, slow, tentative person, but it seems to come across: “I hereby encourage you to channel Pepe Le Pew and ignore all boundaries, starting now.” What can […]

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Want To Leave The Friend Zone? Afraid Of Being Shot Down?

Are you always the cool girl friend and never the cool girlfriend? Do you hate the idea of being shut down? Join relationship expert Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com as they talk about how you can deal with that fear of being shut down. Cathy: We shot a video a while ago about […]

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Want To Amp Up Your Personal Power Without Trampling People?

There’s an assumption that, if you’re powerful, then somehow you’re not going to notice people. We tend to think that power is automatically reckless or the worry there is that it’s going to be reckless. If you want to be a more powerful person, how can you do it without trampling other people, still being aware of other […]

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Poly? Partner Not? What Do You Do?

You’re polyamorous, but your partner is not, and he doesn’t have the same sex drive as you do. Basicaly you’re dating people that are not your species? Can Poly/Mono relationship work or is it time to pull the plug? Here relationship expert Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com will give advice on what to do in […]

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Inviting Your Partner Into Connection

If you’re in the mood to be really intimate, connected with your partner, not necessarily sexual, but just connected, present, and your partner’s not in the mood, how can you start a conversation maybe to invite them to step into it with you? Hear what relationship expert Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com have […]

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Does The Withdrawal Method Work?

If you’re having a condomless sex, you are exposing yourself, or increasing the risk because of exposure to catching certain STDs or STIs whichever way you want to use the lingo. Withdrawal does not increase … it increases your chances of being exposed to everything basically. That’s not good for any kind of safer sex. […]

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What Can You Do If You’d Like Your Partner To Be More Physical?

Would you like your partner to be a little rougher, aggressive, more physical during  sex? Is your partner afraid of hurting you, and treating you like you’re glass? Hear what relationship expert Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com have to say about how to communicate with your partner, so he understands that it would be pleasurable for you, and he’s […]

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Horrible Fighting? Sneaky and Not So Sneaky Ways To Make Things Better!

Is your partner horrible at reframing fighting? Do you get to the point where you just give up because you don’t care? Join relationship expert Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com as they share ways to learn how to reframe fighting and fight better. Cathy: In our video about reframing fighting, which […]

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Is Anal Sex Bad For You?

Some say that the anus is not meant for receiving penetration and that having anal sex would lead to incontinence were you wouldn’t be able to refrain from pulling yourself. Is that true? Hear what relationship expert Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com have to say about anal sex. Cathy: One of our viewers wrote in […]

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