Cathy Vartuli

What’s Your Cool Down Style When You Fight

When things get intense, how do you cool down? How does your partner chill out? Find out with Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: How do you cool down when you fight? There’s actually something called cool down styles and … Reid: Fuck this. Cathy: That’s Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and […]

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What If You Tell A Huge Lie

Told a huge lie and don’t know what to do? Suggestions from Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com.   Cathy: We have a video about what to do if you tell a lie and get caught in it. Why did you do that? Reid: I do that when I lie. Cathy: This […]

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What If You Keep Cutting People Off?

Ever get excited and cut people off? What can you do to make things better? Find out with Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: We did a video on what to do if someone’s always cutting you off, but what if you cut other people off? This is Reid Mihalko from […]

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Feel Strange To See Someone You Broke Up With….

No longer friends, but still seeing each other? Just because its going well, that doesn’t mean the other person wants to be friends. What can you do? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and SexGeekSummerCamp.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: All right. Someone wrote in and said that they watched our video about talking about […]

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What Do You Do After You Ditch The Rules Around Dating and Sex

If you dump the old paradigms around sex and dating, what do you do? Find out with Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: We have a video on playing games around sex and releasing old paradigms in our relationships, where a woman’s not supposed to initiate sex, not supposed to have […]

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Talking About Touch You Dont Like During Sex

How can you talk to your partner about what you don’t like in bed? Find out with Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com.   Cathy: What do you if your partner’s touching you in ways that you don’t particularly like? Reid: I’m Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: This is Cathy Vartuli from […]

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Sharing With Your partner That You Dont Want To Have Sex

Example of telling your partner that you don’t want to have sex tonight in a loving way… with Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: Welcome back. Or if this is the first video that you are watching. Welcome for the first time. Cathy: We are talking about how you can talk […]

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Role Modeling… Asking For What You Want In Bed

It can be hard to ask for what you want in bed. Tips, and role modeling with Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com Reid: This is awesome. We’re going to get so meta. We’re talking about how you can give your partners upgrades about certain things… Cathy: In bed. Reid: In bed. […]

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Not In The Mood? What Can You Do?

How can you tell your partner you’re not in the mood. How can you do that gently? Find out.. with Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy:   How do you tell your partner in a way that’s loving and caring that you’re just not in the mood? Reid:     This is Cathy Vartuli […]

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Is Polyamory Only For The Affluent And Privilege?

Does poly belong only to the wealthy and well educated? Find out… with Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy:   In regards to the interview you did with Diane Adams, which was really good- Reid:     Thank you. Cathy:   About polyamory, someone said, “Would these academic people think differently if they lost their […]

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