Cathy Vartuli

What Can You Do If Someone Always Follows You Around And Gets Really Close?

What do you do if someone won’t leave you alone? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: We’re eating chewable vitamins, and we’re going to do this video while we make these faces.  Cathy: I’ve finished mine, hopefully.  Reid: What’s the question?  Cathy: This came from … We had a video […]

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Not Having A Lot Of Sex And Feeling Strange Because You’re A Sex Educator?

Shouldn’t all sex educators being getting laid? Not necessarily. Learn more with Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: I can’t take him anywhere.  Reid: That’s why we sit right here, in front of this camera. Cathy: Someone wrote in and said they’re a sex educator. Good job. They’re also going through […]

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How Can You Emotionally Support Yourself As You Transitioning Your Sexuality?

When your sexual identity is shifting how do you emotionally support yourself? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: How do you support yourself when you’re transforming your sexuality?  Reid: Into what?  Cathy: Into something new, whether you’re leaving kink or entering kink or exploring poly or might be gay or […]

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What’s The Alternative To Relationships For Life?

If relationships aren’t necessarily “for life” how do you treat them? What do you look for? Learn more with Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, “Should we stop seeing relationships as made for life? What’s the alternative in terms of the conditions of relationships? How do […]

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Want The Erotic Feeling Of Someone Reading Your Mind?

How can you balance someone knowing you so well you don’t have to use your words, with being in consent and asking for what you need? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: All right. So this is the second video to the mind reading question video, because I had an […]

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When To Use Intuition and Mind Reading In Bed

Is mind reading sexy in bed? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: So someone wrote in and said:  “Hey Reid, sexy question here.”  Reid: Ooh, sexy question time.  Cathy: “So I’ve just read one of your articles on communicating and not assuming that your partner can read your mind. What […]

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How Do You Deal With Major Fears Around Abandonment?

Fears of abandonment can be overwhelming and they can hurt your relationships. How can you calm the fears and be more relaxed? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: How do you deal with major fears of abandonment? He left. The thing is this can bother and be part of a […]

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Taking People At Their Word And Measuring The Worth Of Their Words By Their Actions

Can you take people at their word? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: Reid, you talk about taking people at their word and measuring their words by …  Reid: Let’s read the testimonial first. We love it when you guys send in cool things about our videos.  Cathy: We do.  […]

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How Do You Handle Disappointment In The Bedroom?

Disappointment can challenging, when its around a sexual issue, that can be really hard. How can you make it easier? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: Disappointment and ponies. Video number four. This one’s about disappointment in bed. I’m Reid Milhako from ReidAboutSex.com.  Cathy: Cathy Vartulli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. We are […]

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How Do You Deal With The Grief of Disappointment?

When your expectations aren’t met, you may have a lot of grief because of the disappointment. How can you release that grief and move on? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: Dealing with the grief of disappointment. How do you do it? This is Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com.  Reid: This […]

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