Happy Hans Gruber Falls from Nakitomi Tower Eve!
Before we get to the year-end relationship advice in this post… Regardless of how you celebrate or don’t celebrate the year-end holidays, you might need to defend your movie fandom while around friends and family this season… So here are three takes that might help win a family argument as we close out the year…
Is Die Hard Really a Christmas Movie?
If you need to backup your argument with FACTS that Die Hard is a Christmas movie, I’m here to help!
If the person you’re arguing with happens to be a Simpsons fan (and they’re still using Facebook)… Might I suggest sharing this post to them so they can click HERE.
Using Home Alone To Prove Your Die Hard Argument…
If the Simpson’s memes weren’t enough to sway your opponent, might I suggest using Home Alone to prove your point…
If you’re debating with folks who’ll conceed that Home Alone is definitely a Christmas movie, then, switch to the Home Alone-Die Hard defense…
Compare Die Hard to Home Alone and watch them squirm by sending them HERE. #YouWin
And, for my Jewish friends out there, don’t fret! I got’cha…
Do Home Alone & Die Hard Count As Hanukkah Movies?
In case you’re looking to give the holiday Christmas movie argument a fresh twist for you and your loved ones, here is an argument for why Home Alone and Die Hard should also be considered Hanukkah movies! It’s a fun, rambly listen on YouTube, but might be a nice addition to your “lets argue movies” arsenal… HERE. Also HERE if you need a visual argument via Reddit. 🕎 Hanukkah Sameach!
Let’s Celebrate Moving Toward The Light
No matter what your struggles or celebrations this year, I hope you’re able to acknowledge and appreciate yourself for getting through 2025.
Maybe it wasn’t filled with laughs, but we made it to Winter Solstice, where the nights become shorter and the days longer!
And I hope you can see where and how you persisted through the darkness and challenges 2025 hurled at you… And even if you feel like you failed, I hope you can see how you’re still going! You can lose a battle (even multiple battles!) and still not have lost the war.
And look how much you’ve grown this year. Can you see it? Do you feel stronger than last year?
Don’t think you’ve grown? Don’t feel stronger? Well, at least you’re keeping good company ’cause I’m not sure most days if I’ve grown or learned anything this year. And, tell you what, I definitely feel more exhausted this year than ever. But somehow I keep digging.
I’m digging deep down trying to sort out what is “me stuck in a pattern” vs “me being methodical and thoughtful” — and you know what? I’m not sure which is which half the time.
But, deep down, I know I must have grown somewhere, somehow. Why? Because I didn’t give up. Even with as tired as I feel sometimes, I’m here writing this post. You’re here reading it. We both made it this far. Thus, I think we both grew. And, if 2025 was the heaviest year so far, we must have gotten stronger in order to carry such a load.
And THAT is something. Right? Right.
So let’s make a pact to keep at it in 2026, shall we? Let’s acknowledge what we got done/got through this year and celebrate the Winter Solstice by moving step by step towards the light that’s coming as the days grow longer and push the darkness away.
So, if you feel called to, Sex Geek, please do me a favor, Leave a Comment, or shot me an email, and share something you’d like to be acknowledged for and I’ll do my best to reply back and acknowledge YOU!
Do it! I dare you. Let me see your name pop up in my inbox!
And the only thing better than seeing your name pop up is seeing your face pop up, in person, in front of me at one of the workshops or festivals that I’ll be teaching at, so after you read my relationship advice for this email, scroll down to see what and where I’m going to be in 2026…
Relationship Advice for the New Year… Do You Need To Hibernate ‘Til Spring Or Meet People This Winter?
As much as I love debating movies and winning arguments with my family, this time of year can make anyone want to bundle up, crawl into a blanket fort and hibernate from the rest of the world.
If that’s what your nervous system needs right now and you can give it to yourself, wonderful. My friends with kids and other obligations can’t always scurry away and hide, but if you can —and it’s what you need— May your blanket fort be cozy and your sleep restful. Take a nap for me, and thank you for taking care of yourself. 💛
But before you make like a bear and hibernate, ask you if you need to hibernate or just slow down? Maybe full-on-hibernation isn’t what you really need. Kind of like thinking you’re hungry when really what your body is telling you is, “I’m thirsty.”
So rather than crawl into a cave and disappear until spring… Maybe what you need is some restful activity and connection. If so, here are three suggestions that might help…
1. Move your body with other humans
Want to stretch and move your body rather than crawl into a cave? Want to surround yourself with happy, amazing humans who also want to stretch and move their bodies… I’ll be teaching at Interfusion Festival in a few weeks and you’re invited. You don’t need a five-day festival to remember that movement wakes us up. Go dance, stretch, sway, wiggle, or do yoga with a friend. Bonus points if it’s imperfect, giggly, or ends with snacks. You’re not trying to be impressive – you’re just reminding your body that it exists and likes company. Movement plus connection is one of the fastest ways to shift your mood. And it doesn’t have to be intense to be effective.
2. Ask for what you want (practice-sized, not scary-sized)
Asking is a muscle. You don’t have to start with big, vulnerable requests. Practice with the small stuff:
“Want to hang out?”
“Can I sit closer?”
“Want to try something different tonight?”
Clear, kind asks create more connection than confidence ever will. And the more you practice, the easier it gets.
3. Stay bundled up… but don’t do it alone
So you still wanna stay bundled up? I’m all for it. But you don’t have to do it alone. Invite someone over for a low-pressure cozy hang—tea, a movie, a couch, and a “we can just be humans near each other” vibe. No big agenda, no performance required.
And if in-person is too much? Make it a Zoom cocoon: soft clothes, warm drink, and a sweet check-in with someone you trust. Sometimes the most regulating thing isn’t “going out”… it’s letting connection come to you. 💛
Again, it might be a cave you need to crawl into, but before you disappear until spring… Consider slowing down and maybe sharing some cozy time with others! It’s worth investigating (so check out the events and places below where I’ll be coming to soon!).
Thanks again for letting me nerd out with you, Sex Geek. I hope these words bring some light into your world and help you invite more love, laugher, and learning into your life!
Yours this holidaze season,
REiD
🎁🎁🎁
Where I’ll Be Teaching First in 2026…
January 14th, NEW HAVEN, CT – TANTRIC FOR PRAGMATISTS DOUBLE FEATURE
Two workshops. One magical night. Zero woo-woo required.
First up: Tantra for Pragmatists & Beginners → followed by Energetic Sex for Pragmatists!
Ever wish your pleasure toolbox had more than the usual hump-and-hope routine? Want those “expanded bliss” moments… without feeling like you need to become a monk, a yoga teacher, or Sting? Come spend the evening with sex + relationship educator Reid Mihalko, and explore the fun, practical side of sacred sexuality — all taught in Reid’s down-to-earth, warm, giggle-friendly style.
Workshop 1: Tantra for Pragmatists & Beginners
• Easy breathwork that boosts arousal and stamina • Kissing upgrades that unlock whole-body wow • Simple touch + pressure points that wake up new sensations • Communication tricks that deepen connection (and melt awkwardness) • A “no woo-woo needed” intro to what energetic sex actually is
Perfect if you’re curious, nervous, excited, or all three. Bring a notebook and a sense of humor.
Workshop 2: Energetic Sex for Pragmatists
Explore “Tantric Twitchies,” post-pleasure shivers, and the whole energetic playground — without needing to believe in chakras, polarity, or anything floaty.
Reid breaks it all down with demos, laughs, and lots of practical, try-this-tonight tips.
You’ll learn:
• What energetic orgasms can look like (yes, even the twitchies!) • 3 easy ways to expand and ride energy solo or with partners • How “resonance play” works in normal-person language • Breathing + presence skills for deeper connection • How to unlock energetic zones with simple touch • Plus a few advanced goodies to make you and your lovers grin
Come curious. Leave buzzing.
No experience needed, all orientations + genders welcome. If you’ve ever wanted pleasure that feels bigger, deeper, sweeter, or just… more you — this double-feature night is your new favorite playground.
Date and time
Mon, Jan 14, 2026, 6:30 PM – 10:00 PM
ARLINGTON, VIRGINIA
January 9th-19th —
Festival + Play Party
January 15th-19th— INTERFUSION FESTIVAL
Ready to embark on a transformative journey like no other? Join me at Interfusion Festival, the ultimate indoor playground for growth, connection, and pure magic. Held over five electrifying days, this festival is where daytime exploration meets nighttime magic. By day, dive into workshops across multiple programs—no partner needed!—with offerings for everyone from beginners to advanced practitioners. It’s a chance to learn, grow, and connect in a space designed for individual and shared experiences. When the sun sets, the festival grounds become an enchanted playground. Eight unique social gathering spots open up, including the serenity of the Candlelight Conversations, the high-flying AcroYoga Jam, and the chill vibes of the Serenity Lounge, all running deep into the night. With nearly a hundred guides across ten programs, Interfusion is your ticket to rising to higher states of growth and well-being. Come alone or bring a partner—either way, you’ll leave with new connections, deeper bonds, and a heart full of unforgettable memories.
Workshops Reid will be teaching:
- Regret Vs Being Spontaneous
- Pressure Play: How To Push & Pull & Squish Your Lovers To Mind-Blowing Connection
- Asking For What You Want and Overcoming the Fear of Being Too Much
- Festival Cuddle Party
Date and time
January 15, 2026 · 2pm – January 19, 2026 · 2pm EST
January 19th— Post Interfusion, All Gender Temple Party w/ a Touch of Kink
This is an experiential party for the sensually adventurous. This special evening welcomes ALL and is very gender friendly. This is an invitation to dive deep into yourself and each other in ways you may have been afraid to do in the past. This is the party you want to come to even if you’ve never been to one before. We create an expansive, feeling-full environment charged with electricity, yet warmly grounded.
Date and time
Mon, Jan 19, 2026, 7:30 PM – 11:45 PM
Jan 23rd-24th
Durham, NC! — Not One, Not Two, But Three Chances to Meet and Learn!
Fri, Jan 23, 2026, 7:00-11:00 PM
DOUBLE FEATURE FRIDAY: SPEED-FLIRTING & HOW TO BE SUCCESSFUL AT PLAY PARTIES!
A Double-Feature Night of Playful Confidence, Consent Skills & Connection Games!
Ready to boost your confidence, sharpen your flirting skills, and feel more comfortable navigating play-party spaces? Join sex and relationship educator Reid Mihalko of ReidAboutSex.com in-person for a fun and informative two-workshop evening designed to help you create more ease, clarity, spark, and consent-savvy connection in your life.
PART 1 — SPEED-FLIRTING
Creating playful connection doesn’t have to be hard… or creepy!
Speed-Flirting is a lively, clothes-stay-on, game-filled workshop that helps you break the ice, shake off awkwardness, and feel more confident meeting new people. We take flirting beyond the narrow “sxxual” meaning and turn it into a joyful tool for connection, friendship, and fun. We’ll warm up, nerd out, and play simple partner & group games designed to help you feel more alive, grounded, and socially confident. Perfect for singles, couples, shy babes, bold babes, and everyone in between!
PART 2 — FROM FLIRTING TO FCKING
How To Be Successful at Play Parties (Even If You Never Get Naked!)
After we warm up your flirting muscles, we shift into a thoughtful, shame-free, clothes-stay-on workshop on navigating sxx-positive events with clarity, skill, and confidence.
Whether you’re curious about attending your first play party or you’ve been to dozens, this workshop gives you practical tools you can use right away to feel safer, more empowered, and more connected.You’ll leave feeling more confident, more grounded, and more prepared for whatever play-party adventures feel right for you.
Join us for this playful, shame-free, skill-building double-feature!
Sat, Jan 24, 2026, 1:00 PM – 5:00 PM
THE IN’S AND OUT’S OF ENERGY INTERPLAY W/REID & MONIQUE
Get ready to embark on a thrilling adventure into the realm of energy interplay with Reid Mihalko, Monique and Peter! If you’ve ever felt like life’s a wild ride, labeled as “too much,” or “high maintenance,” fear not, you’re among friends. Join us as we uncover the hidden tribe of energy-sensitive souls, eagerly awaiting to connect and revel in the magic of our innate abilities.
Throughout our journey, we’ve traversed the boundless landscapes of energetic intimacy, and now, dear friend, it’s your turn to join the dance. Discover the ecstasy of your being by embracing every emotion, letting life-force energy flow freely through your veins. This weekend promises an exhilarating voyage of self-discovery, where you’ll unlock your innate powers, deepen your connection to your energetic essence, and reclaim your divine right to pleasure and passion. So, buckle up and get ready to transform your life into a playground of cosmic delight, surrounded by our vibrant community of kindred spirits!
Sat, Jan 24, 2026, 7:00 PM – Midnight
ALL GENDER TEMPLE PARTY W/ A TOUCH OF KINK W/ REID & MONIQUE
A SATURDAY NIGHT PLAY PARTY? I’M IN!
This is an experiential party for the sensually adventurous . This special evening welcomes ALL and is very gender friendly. This is an invitation to dive deep into yourself and each other in ways you may have been afraid to do in the past. This is the party you want to come to even if you’ve never been to one before. We create an expansive, feeling-full environment charged with electricity, yet warmly grounded.
These events always sell out, so grab your spot now…
These events are just the beginning! Check out my calendar HERE and keep an eye out for more juicy announcements!
Wishing that all your, winter dreams come true (whether they’re naughty or nice 😉)…
REiD