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Afraid of Attraction or Arousal? We’re Not In 7th Grade Anymore!

Are you afraid of other people’s attraction? Or your own arousal? Most of us can actually control ourselves. You can upgrade your beliefs and feel more confident with yourself and others. Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com share tips and approaches to help you appreciate your pre-frontal cortex! Cathy: Are you still […]

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Trust in Relationships

Join Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com as she asks Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com to discuss how lack of trust can affect relationships. Cathy: Hi everyone, this is Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com here with Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: Yay. Cathy: Can you talk to us about trust and how it’s really important in a relationship for […]

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Unhooking II – Delaying Attachment

Join Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com as Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com discusses delaying attachment and giving yourself time to got to know your partner (before renting the UHaul on the second date). Reid: So this is the Unhooking II, or what we will say Delaying Attachment. Cathy: It’s good if you can delay that. I’ve seen […]

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How Do You Unhook and Stay UnHooked

Join Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com as she asks Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com about Emotional Bonding, Attachment and keeping clean boundaries. Cathy: Hey everyone, this is Cathy Vartuli from TheintimacyDojo.com. I’m here with Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: Yay! Cathy: Reid, if you’re intimate with people sometimes it’s easy to get hooked. To get attached. How […]

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Ever Wondered What Was In Reid Mihalko’s Toy Bag?

Join Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com as Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com shows her what he has in his toy bag. Cathy: Hey everyone, this is Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com here with Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com. Reid is a sex geek. He has a toy bag and we were wondering what was in your toy bag. Reid: […]

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Jealousy – Feeling Special Example

Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com as she asks Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com how to balance feeling special in a group. Cathy: Hey everyone, this is Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. I’m here with Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com, and this is Feeling Special Video Two. Reid: Video two. Cathy just shared with me that we had … do […]

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How Can I Hold Space For My Partner?

How Can I Hold Space For My Partner? Join Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com as she asks Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com about Hold Space For Your Partner. Cathy: Hi Everyone, this is Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. I’m here with Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: I’m being really weird in these videos this round. Cathy: You are. […]

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Energetic Sex: What Is Pragmatic Tantra?

Curious about Energetic Sex? Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com discuss energetic connection. Cathy: Hey everyone, this is Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. I’m here with Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com. Reid, can you tell us a little bit about energetic sex? You give a great workshop on it. Reid: Yes. Thank you for […]

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How Can Shy People Create More Play?

Want to play more? Feel shy? How do you make life more playful and engage other people more? Join Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com as she asks Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com how to create more play. Reid: Just so you know, I don’t think I’ve ever talked about this topic with Cathy, so she’s actually springing […]

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Bottom Lines

How do you know what you’re bottom lines are? And what do you do when someone crosses one? Join Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com as she asks Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com these questions. Cathy: Hi everyone, this is Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. And we’re here with Reid Mihalko from RediAboutSex.com. Reid: I was just wondering if […]

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