Video & Audio

How Do You Handle Dissapointment?

Disappointment happens…what do you do and how can you turn things around? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: We often get disappointed in life, and knowing how to handle that disappointment can make the difference between moving forward much more easily and feeling devastated. This is- Reid: (Blows nose loudly) […]

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Body Image and Status…Is Body Image Important?

In our society, having a conventionally beautiful body can give status according to some people…what role should body image play in social status? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: Where are we Cathy? Cathy: We are in New Mexico. Reid: Why are we in New Mexico? Cathy: We’re driving to […]

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Why Won’t My Boyfriend Commit? What Can I Do?

What can you do if you want commitment and your partner doesn’t? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: Road ballads, ladies and gentlemen, that take us into relationship advice. This is Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: This is Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: I’m driving. Cathy: We had someone write […]

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If Someone Hesitates, Should You Try To Persuade Them?

Where does consent meet with encouragement? Should you push your friends to agree? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: Is hesitation an invitation for further persuasion? This is Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: And this is Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: I’m so glad you remember who I am. Reid: […]

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When Is Someone Else’s Attraction Or Arousal Your Problem?

When is it your problem when someone was attracted to you? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: Oh, this is going to be a good one. You’ve picked the right video. Cathy: When is someone else’s attraction or arousal your problem? Or is it ever? I’m Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. […]

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Self Soothing

Taking care of you can make a huge difference on how life feels to you…whether you had a stressful day or want to be ready for a powerful presentation. With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: Do you self s- What? Cathy: Self soothe. Reid: Self soothe. What are your practices […]

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Having Good Boundaries When You’re Being Playful

People like being playful and goofy, but they are not necessarily being as careful about boundaries. State your boundaries so that you can be even more playful. It’s not the other way around. With boundaries you can make people feel safer, and they will play back with you. Hear what relationship expert Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and […]

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Are My Fantasies Okay?

Ever wonder, if your fantasies are okay, and if you don’t have really good fantasies, how could you develop your skill at creating fantasies? How do you know which fantasies are okay and which ones aren’t? Listen to relationship expert Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com as they are talking about fantasies. Cathy: Are […]

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How Do You Know If Your Partner Is Faking It?

How do you know if your partner had orgasm? We all have faked orgasm before, it’s true, we do sometimes. What you want to start doing is start talking to each other about the kind of sex that you like. What gets you off, what doesn’t get you off, when you’re not having the sex. Join […]

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Isn’t Dependency In A Relationship Bad…And How Do You Avoid It?

We’re all taught that we should avoid dependency in a relationship, that codependency is bad. What can you do to avoid that? Join relationship expert Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com as they share more about this topic. Cathy: We’re all taught that we should avoid dependency in a relationship, that it’s […]

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