Booking Reid to Lead Workshops

Sex and relationship expert, Reid Mihalko of ReidAboutSex.com teaching a classroom full of adults at a Pheonix's Fascinations store

Reid gave two of the best workshops that I have every organized or attended at The Smitten Kitten. The content of both was detailed and nuanced without being overly dry or clinical and he easily integrated floor-stomping humor with serious information. The audience was engaged and eager to participate–they even enjoyed communicating with one another. The general feeling throughout the entire workshop was that of safety and respect; Reid had a clear awareness of how to create and maintain an inclusive space.


Clare Jacky, General Manager, The Smitten Kitten

Reid had an entire room of 40+ people, who arrived with hesitation and self-doubt, feeling seen, empowered, and validated. He armed our guests with the knowledge and necessary respect required for any kind of success at sex parties and in the sex positive community. I wholeheartedly appreciate Reid for sharing such important knowledge with the Hacienda Community. The entire room was glowing! 


Beth Sparksfire, Director of Events, Hacienda (WeAreHacienda.com)

Here’s a list of Reid’s most requested sex & relationship workshops…

Please click on the workshop title to jump to its description, or scroll down the page. Don’t see what you’re looking for? Email me at Reid (at) ReidAboutSex.com and let me know what you’re looking for. Chances are, I have it and it’s just not on this list. 🙂 And, if I can’t teach it, I’ll do my best to point you at someone who does.

Also, nearly all of the Sexual Self-Confidence Classes can be offered PG-13/Fully Clothed or can be adjusted to include Show-N-Tell, explicit demonstrations. If you’re looking for a Show-N-Tell-Then-Practice-On-Your-Partner workshop, just ask Reid and we can discuss how that would work for your community.

Sexual Self-Confidence & Relationship Workshops

Business Workshops for Educators

 
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 BLOWJOB GRAD SCHOOL

You’ve learned the basics… Now it’s time to get your masters in the advanced tricks, and leave with your PhD in Fellatio!

  • Would you like to take your current skills and craft to Jedi levels?
  • Want to ask those nagging questions and get advanced-level tips and tricks?
  • Wish you could leave your loved ones stammering, “h-h-How did you do THAT?!”

Let sex and relationship educator Reid Mihalko of ReidAboutSex.com be your Head Dean (see what he did there?!) and give you your PhD in oral sex so YOU can give and/or receive mind-blowing blowjobs that leave YOU and your lovers feeling satisfied, confident, and glowing with appreciation!

Regardless of your gender, sexual orientation, level of experience, relationship status, or what you’re packing beneath your clothes, this class will cover how to show yourself and your lovers how to give and receive more pleasure.

In this advanced tips and tricks class with plenty of room for Q&A, you will learn:

  • How to leverage the pleasure anatomy of the penis and pelvis from tip to taint!
  • Reid’s best tips and tricks for helping your penis owner not cum too quickly from your amazing skills…
  • How to “stack the deck in your favor” so the penis you’re playing with cums when you would like it to…
  • Advanced skills to combine with Reid’s easy-to-learn deep throating technique…
  • Reid’s famous “Flying Squirrel” technique, PLUS how to do a Double Blowjob…
  • Plus a few other graduate level, sexy secrets that will leave you feeling inspired and confident!

If you’ve been waiting to go back to school, look no further than this humorous and informative workshop that you’re guaranteed never to fail out of! If you would like an ASL interpreter, please reach out to Reid or the venue organizers so we can try to arrange it!


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DATE YOUR SPECIES

Why Do We Fall In Love With Good People Who End Up Being Horrible Fits For Us? 

Are you confused about dating, mating, and relating in the 21st Century? Unsure how to make a relationship last past the latest NETFLIX show? Can’t tell Mr/Ms. Right from Mr/Ms. Trainwreck?

Dating, marriage, and the reasons we stay in relationships have changed a lot since the days of our great grandparents, and sex and relationship educator Reid Mihalko of ReidAboutSex.com knows what you need to make the current dating and mating scene less screwed-up. His advice: Date your species!

Join us for this humorous, frank and interactive workshop where Reid boils down more than 150,000 conversations he’s had about sex and relationships and walks us through his best thinking and advice on making sex, dating, relationships and mating work!

In this humorous and edutaining workshop, participants will learn:

  • How to figure out what species YOU are!
  • Why duration is no longer the best way to measure success in a relationship… And what metric we should be using instead!
  • Tools to determine if someone is a good or horrible fit for you…
  • 4 areas to consider before you fall in love with someone
  • Communication Skills to ask for what they want and how to avoid past relationship mistakes…
  • A few of Reid’s “black belt” relationship tips and tricks!

Whatever your level of dating experience and curiosity, whatever your gender or orientation, no matter how many times you’ve been burned in love and life, Reid promises an informative evening chocked full of great communication and relationship skills!

If you would like an ASL interpreter, please reach out to Reid or the venue organizers so we can try to arrange it!

 

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BATTLING THE 8-ARMED OCTOPUS OF JEALOUSY

Do you or a loved one struggle with jealousy?

Did you know that jealousy and envy aren’t the same thing?

Would your life feel more expansive & free if you knew you could kick jealousy’s butt? (or at the very least tame it!)

When the Green-Eyed Monster rises from our emotional depths, most people find themselves powerless to stop its many arms from tearing our relationship-world apart. Join sex and relationship educator Reid Mihalko of ReidAboutSex.com for this humorous & insightful workshop on how YOU can kick jealousy in the ass before it kicks you!

In this unique workshop, you will learn…

  • Where your jealousy (or another’s) comes from your unique set of Jealousy “Triggers” like Envy, Possessiveness, Anger, Depression, and the four other arms of the “octopus” of Jealousy
  • Valuable tools for dealing and mitigating your triggers so jealousy doesn’t take over
  • How to dramatically decrease your feelings of dread and anxiety around jealousy, and lessen Jealousy’s grip on those you care about 
  • Ways to communicate to your loved ones how they can make your world a less jealous one   
  • Boundary and negotiation skills for improving your relationships no matter what emotions you’re experiencing!

If you’d given up on dealing with jealousy or resigned yourself to a life of powerlessness and never ending drama… If you love someone who battles with jealousy and is always on the losing end… Please join us for what is sure to be an insightful and extremely useful journey into the uncharted seas of being empowered around Jealousy!

Do you attend play parties or are thinking about attending one? Ever wonder how complete strangers go from finding that spark to fanning the flames of flirtation and then stoking (and stroking!) hawt, blazing encounters?

If you want to feel more confident in how you flirt and more relaxed in how you negotiate pick-up play at play parties, come join professional sx and relationship geek and play party facilitator, Reid Mihalko for an informative and humorous evening of learning how to go from flirting to much more…

In this workshop with time get your questions answered and practice your flirtation skills after, we will cover:

  • How to flirt and get things going without being creepy!
  • The three biggest mistakes to make when trying to make a connection and take it further…
  • Ways to make consent conversations sexy – CREATE THE MOOD rather than break it!
  • How to tell when you shouldn’t play with someone(s)
  • Icebreaking games you can use at parties (even when you’re the most shyest person in the room!)
  • Ways to create safer space for others and build a reputation for being someone folks WANT to play with…

Whether you’ve been to a 1000 play parties like Reid, or are considering going to your first… This evening is designed to help you feel more comfortable and confident at your next play party!


If you would like an ASL interpreter, please reach out to Reid or the venue organizers so we can try to arrange it.

 

ROUGH SEX FOR NICE FOLKS

When you or a lover likes it… Rough.

If you’re a lover, not a fighter, but you or your lover like it a little rough, let sex and relationship educator (and double black belt, former fight choreographer for indie films), Reid Mihalko of ReidAboutSex.com, show you how you can safely be a badass in bed.

From wrestling to rough sex to advanced ergonomic techniques, join us for this humorous and informative workshop (with live demos!) on how to unleash your inner Bruce Lee of the bedroom.

In this edutaining class for all genders, we’ll cover:

  • Rough sex for nice guys, gals, and folks of all genders and orientations!
  • The difference between “thuddy” and “stingy,” and why you should care…
  • The best sex positions, proper body positioning, and ergonomics for harder, stronger, longer sex
  • Why and how wrestling can be a turn-on
  • Hair-pulling 101
  • Spanking basics made easy
  • How to bite (and how not to!)
  • How to move your partner’s body around the bed with more ease
  • And much more!

No matter your experience level, orientation, or relationship status, this class is going to be educational, fun, and give you some delicious bedroom kung-fu.  Sit and watch as Reid demonstrates how easy it is to be a black belt at sex! We’ll even have plenty of room for your questions! Join us! Bring friends! Bring a notebook!

If you’ve been waiting to go back to school, look no further than this humorous and informative workshop that you’re guaranteed never to fail out of! If you would like an ASL interpreter, please reach out to Reid or the venue organizers so we can try to arrange it.

 

ENERGETIC SEX FOR PRAGMATISTS

Explore Kundalini, the “Tantric Twitchies” and Vibrational Luvin’ Without the Woo-Woo! (with live Demos, too)

Remember that Cosmo magazine article that talked about how Tantra and breathing could give you explosive orgasms? How about the urban legend where Sting has sex for eight-hour stints?

If you or a lover have ever experienced post-orgasmic spasms or “twitches” after lovemaking, or feelings of heat and tension in your lower back, hands, neck or throat… You might be more energetic in your sex life than you think! And if you’ve never experienced those things but would like to, you might be pleasantly surprised how easily energetic sex is to grasp and play with.

Regardless of your tolerance for words like “chakras” and “yoni”… Or if phrases like sacred masculine and sacred feminine seem too restrictive… There is a non-New Agey way to understand and incorporate ecstatic experiences into your bedroom routine regardless of who you sleep with or how you identify. And guess what? It’s surprisingly fun, easy, and explosive!

Join sex and relationship educator Reid Mihalko of ReidAboutSex.com for an evening of frank, fun, and electrifying learning targeted for folks who aren’t New Agey. Reid promises to drop the woo-woo and leave his Sanskrit-to-English dictionary at home. And, for those of you who enjoy saying “Namasté” instead of “thank you,” Reid’s got you covered, too!

Reid demonstrating energetic orgasms and what he calls “Tantric Twitchies” (Kriyas)

You will be introduced to:

  • Resonance Play — Reid’s particular views on how sexual energy “behaves” and how it “works,”as well as ways you can begin accessing more energetic awareness in the bedroom
  • A way to engage with sexual energy that isn’t about gender or polarity.
  • What Kriyas (“the twitchys”) can look like and what to do when you or a lover experiences them
  • Three possible approaches for engaging sexual energy and expanding it when exploring energetic sex with a partner or solo with yourself
  • How a wine glass and singing saw can expand your lovemaking and sexual prowess
  • Simple breathing and “presence” techniques to build up energetic awareness
  • How to use “pressure play” and where so you can help unlock and activate points on your lover’s body to augment energetic experiences during lovemaking
  • A few advanced tips and tricks that will make you smile and your partner moan regardless of whether “the twitchys” happen or not!

Whatever your level of experience with sex that seems to be “more than just sex,” Reid’s humorous and informative instruction, sex education, and live demonstrations on this esoteric (and yet more common than you think) realm of energetic sex is not to be missed!

If you would like an ASL interpreter, please reach out to Reid or the venue organizers so we can try to arrange it!

 

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NEGOTIATING SUCCESSFUL THREESOMES

Double your pleasure without destroying your relationships…

The ménage à trois is a popular fantasy with twice the pleasure potential, but navigating a three-way romance (if only for one night) can be tricky. Join world-renowned sex and relationship educator Reid Mihalko of ReidAboutSex.com for this humorous, R-rated, fun-filled workshop (with live demonstrations!)…

Not only will you get a chance to ask questions in this workshop, but we’ll cover:

  • What are the best techniques to satisfy two lovers at once?
  • Ways to overcome fears and concerns – Yours AND your partner’s!
  • The most common threesome mistakes (and how to avoid them!)
  • How to negotiate boundaries and safer sex protocols to make your next ménage à trois tré bien!

Interested in M-F-M threesomes, F-M-F threesomes, F-F-F threesomes or M-M-M threesomes?… Whether you’ve had more threesomes than the artist formerly known as Prince or are just beginning to consider three-in-a-bed might be something you’d like to explore, this workshop will give you plenty of tools, tricks, perspectives and laughs to enhance your love life and strengthen your relationships! Bring your loved ones, bring your friends, and enjoy an educational and entertaining evening on how to successfully navigate one of the most common sexual fantasies: the threesome!

Even if you would NEVER be interested in a 3-way, this fun-filled class will give you lots of ways to talk to your loved ones about the things you DO WANT in the bedroom – no matter how tame or outrageous!

If you would like an ASL interpreter, please reach out to Reid or the venue organizers so we can try to arrange it!

 

FROM FLIRTING TO F@CKING:
HOW TO BE SUCCESSFUL AT SXX PARTIES

Do you attend play parties or are thinking about attending one? Ever wonder how complete strangers go from finding that spark to fanning the flames of flirtation and then stoking (and stroking!) hawt, blazing encounters?

If you want to feel more confident in how you flirt and more relaxed in how you negotiate pick-up play at play parties, come join professional sx and relationship geek and play party facilitator, Reid Mihalko for an informative and humorous evening of learning how to go from flirting to much more…

In this workshop with time get your questions answered and practice your flirtation skills after, we will cover:

  • How to flirt and get things going without being creepy!
  • The three biggest mistakes to make when trying to make a connection and take it further…
  • Ways to make consent conversations sexy – CREATE THE MOOD rather than break it!
  • How to tell when you shouldn’t play with someone(s)
  • Icebreaking games you can use at parties (even when you’re the most shyest person in the room!)
  • Ways to create safer space for others and build a reputation for being someone folks WANT to play with…

Whether you’ve been to a 1000 play parties like Reid, or are considering going to your first… This evening is designed to help you feel more comfortable and confident at your next play party!


If you would like an ASL interpreter, please reach out to Reid or the venue organizers so we can try to arrange it.

 

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SLUT SECURE: GROWING OUT OF PREMATURE ATTACHMENT

Do you fall in love too fast? Do others get attached to you too quickly? Do you push others away or feel anxious that they’ll push you away?

Develop all your sexual friendships with grace, love, respect, and lots of pleasure.

  • Are you finding yourself in over your head trying to balance this world of relationship, sluttiness, sexy possibility, love chemicals, and secure attachment?
  • Want to reap all the benefits of sexual community and mitigate drama (while also getting your needs met in healthy ways)?
  • Feeling overwhelmed by everything you don’t know yet on how to navigate open relationships?
  • Finding a sex-positive community where you’re encouraged to ask for what you want only to have your renaissance of frolicking & exploration explode in your face… It’s not fair! But you’re in luck because it’s possible to become a “secure slut.”

Misha and Reid want you to have all the amazing & yummy things you’re wishing for and more. Have all the sex, have all the friendships, and have all the love with all the ease. Mitigate the hard feelings, the presumptions, the premature attachment woes as you hone and celebrate your sex & intimacy superpowers!

This is about creating secure connections in all your relationships no matter how short or long.

 

CREATING YOUR SAFER SEX ELEVATOR SPEECH WITH REID MIHALKO

If someone asked you what your safer sex protocols are, could you answer in 4-minutes or less?

World-renowned sex and relationship educator Reid Mihalko of ReidAboutSex.com can, and thinks you should be able to as well!

Join Reid as he guides you through an empowering, informative and humorous talk aimed at getting your “Safer Sex Elevator Speech”down pat! This workshop is designed to give you the tools to discern what your health and emotional safety needs are and how to communicate them clearly, concisely, and without shame.

Topics In This Edutaining Workshop Include:

  • What “safer sex” actually means (and what it doesn’t!).
  • What “Harm Reduction” and “Risk Reduction” models of safer sex look like.
  • Reid’s P.L.E.A.S.U.R.E. acronym so you can have “the talk” with confidence!
  • The difference between emotional safety factors and health safety factors…
  • How treating safety factors separately makes for a healthier and less stressful world for you and your partners.
  • Reid’s recommended safer sex paraphernalia…
  • Not-so-scary ways to inform yourself regarding STIs and gauge your needs around them.
  • How to take your needs and communicate them clearly.
  • How to choose lovers and play partners who meet your standards…
  • Ways to support one another when someone tests positive for an STI.
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Help strengthen our communities and keep ourselves, our lovers and lovers’ lovers healthier by talking about safer sex and communicating personal needs and boundaries clearly.

If you would like an ASL interpreter, please reach out to Reid or the venue organizers so we can try to arrange it!

 

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PLAYS WELL WITH OTHERS

Knowing where to draw the line together and how to talk about it can save you both a ton of headache the next day!

With the dizzying array of options available to people who’ve decided to explore open relationships…

  • How do you and your loved ones figure out what options and actions will leave everyone involved feeling honored and respected?
  • What does one do to help reduce the risk of catastrophe and increase the odds that exploring group sex is filled with fun and pleasure?
  • What do you do when the inevitable challenges arise or when someone makes a bad call?

Navigating group sexual dynamics in any relationship takes skill, patience and a little bit of luck. If “luck” is where opportunity and preparation meet, then learning how to negotiate sound relationship boundaries and agreements is a sure-fire way to make the two or three, or four of you the luckiest people on Earth!

Join sex and relationship educator Reid Mihalko of ReidAboutSex.com for a workshop devoted to single people, couples, and multiple partners who want to learn how to explore healthy open relationships and create workable boundaries and agreements for playing sexually with others simultaneously.

In this humorous, interactive evening, you will learn:

  • The most common pitfalls of relationship agreements for group sex and how to avoid them
  • How to figure out what a boundary is and where your boundaries exist, so all involved can negotiate a win-win!
  • How and when to renegotiate an existing rule or agreement
  • Negotiating techniques for when you’re the single person joining in with a couple or moresome
  • How to merge different styles of “sexploration” in monogamy and nonmonogamy so that everyone has a decent chance of ending up happy “the day after”
  • Five essential things that will help you survive any group sexploration
  • How to work through upsets in ways that will make your relationships stronger

This workshop is open to couples and singles and moresomes of all sexual orientations and relationship statuses.

Whatever your level of experience and curiosity, whatever your relationship status, gender, or orientation, Reid promises an informative evening chocked-full of great communication and relationship skills!

If you would like an ASL interpreter, please reach out to Reid or the venue organizers so we can try to arrange it!

 

THE BEGINNERS GUIDE TO HOSTING PLAY PARTIES

Imagine you have a special birthday or holiday coming up, and you want to throw a play party for your friends but you’re worried it won’t go well… Maybe you’ve already been to or hosted play parties and all you see is that they cause MORE drama and upset than fun and orgasms… 

It’s true that a successful play party has lots of moving parts and things to consider, especially if you want to reduce potential harm and increase the odds that your friends (and YOU!) have a wonderful & debaucherously sexy, non-pressured, and consensual time!

The good news is throwing a kick-ass play party is easier than you think, especially if you know how to:

  • Avoid the most common mistakes even smart play party hosts make when first starting out.
  • Pick a play party format that is intentionally designed to help you and your friends start the party out in an informed, empowering, risk-aware and consent-savvy way.*
    (*Sometimes the drama is coming from the design of the play party itself.)
  • Set up the play party space so it’s sexy AND conducive to an amazing (and easier-to-run) play party experience — This includes the music playlist, what safer sex supplies to have at the ready, and which snacks to have on hand (and what NOT to serve)!
  • Invite the friends who are already a good fit for a play party (rather than trying to recruit or make exceptions for the friends who are the WRONG fit!)
  • Support your friends before, during, and after your play party so your community feels nourished, inspired, and excited to help you throw the next one!

While the world is full of sex negativity, shame, and trauma, you and your friends deserve the opportunity to create brave, safer spaces where you are free to frolic, explore, and celebrate your bodies, your pleasure, and your desires in ways that honor everyone’s nos as well as their yeses. Where everyone is encouraged to change their minds (especially in the middle of sex) and be thanked and respected for it. And so much more that can help us grow and support each other as the amazingly complex and flawed humans that we all are.  

Friends don’t let friends “just wing it” when it comes to throwing play parties. True friends do what they can to stack the deck in everyone’s favor of having a GREAT time AND “leaving the campsite better than they found it.” 

Is that you? Are you that kind of friend?

If what you just read has you excited (or nervous with excitement), come join professional sex geek and play party facilitator, Reid Mihalko, for his best advice and approaches on the ins and out of throwing a kick-ass play party!

 

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POLY-CURIOUS & OPEN RELATIONSHIPS 101

Learn about Open Relating and Non-Monogamy from Reid!

Curious about this new “lovestyle” you’re hearing a lot about called polyamory and conscious non-monogamy? Maybe you’ve read all the books but want to talk to folks actually living and loving the poly lifestyle…

Whatever your reason or level of experience, join sex and relationship educator Reid Mihalko of ReidAboutSex.com for an interactive workshop full of tips and tricks and Q&A!

In this fun, informative and easy-to-understand primer on Polyamory and open relationships, we’ll cover:

  • Definitions, vocabulary, and different ways to construct non-monogamous relationships
  • The elements that make Polyamory workable (and those that create frustration and regrets!)
  • Open relationships’ most common pitfalls and how YOU can avoid them
  • How to create safety by figuring out and negotiating your boundaries and agreements
  • How to find your Perfect Poly-Fit and merge different poly-styles to decrease upset and increase your odds that everyone is happier and MORE fulfilled
  • 3 tips and tools that will help you survive any poly exploration
  • The secret reframe that turns jealousy from a death knell into a beacon of hope and healthy relating!
  • Resources, books, and tools to proceed into the world of responsible non-monogamy, at whatever your preferred pace or interest level… Tools that help in monogamy, too!
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Opening up relationships can be tricky, but it’s not impossible! You can learn the skills and develop the patience and perseverance to win at non-monogamy. Yes, mistakes will be made, but why make any more than you have to? Join us for a workshop devoted to everyone already charting or just considering new territories in their relationships.

Whatever your experience level, whatever your sexual orientation or gender expression… Show up with your questions and leave with newfound confidence and self-esteem for your relationships and sex life! If you would like an ASL interpreter, please reach out to Reid or the venue organizers so we can try to arrange it.

 

TANTRA FOR PRAGMATISTS & BEGINNERS

Taking the woo-woo out of all those ancient (and juicy) lovemaking techniques…

Do you wish there was more than just the hump, grunt, and grind of conventional sex? Ever feel like your lover (or yourself) was cursed with only one color to paint your sexual landscape with?

Perhaps you’ve heard of Tantra and remember reading somewhere (last month’s Cosmo?) something about “expanded orgasms,” but think that kind of stuff is only for people like Sting, yoga instructors or porn stars.

Maybe you’ve had ecstatic experiences in the bedroom that border on spiritual, but they’re so far and few between that you can hardly recall (and maybe it was just the booze…).

Perhaps you’ve read a book on the Kama Sutra or talked to someone about sacred sexuality, but it was too “woo-woo” and new age-y for your sensibilities…

What if we told you mind-blowing, ecstatic sex was not only possible but learnable and didn’t have to set off your “new age” alarms?

Join sex and relationship educator Reid Mihalko of ReidAboutSex.com for a fun, light-hearted romp into the world of sacred sexuality. Explore enhanced lovemaking techniques, communication skills helpful for deepening intimacy, and breathing techniques to increase your arousal and sexual stamina in this workshop designed for anyone curious about Tantra, bettering their relationships, and having fun in the bedroom.

In this pragmatic, informative (and humorous) workshop, you will be introduced to:

  • Tantra and sacred sex basics
  • What the heck is energetic sex, how it “works” and why so many of us never figure it out
  • Breathing techniques that you can use to access new areas of sensation and body awareness
  • Kissing as the “gateway drug” to higher states of ecstatic sex!
  • Simple exercises and pressure points you can practice alone and with a partner that will kick off your energetic sexual journey
  • A few advanced tips and tricks that are sure to make you smile and your partner moan!

Don’t get us wrong, we know sex -even mediocre sex- can be lots of fun, but do you ever wish you had a wider palette of techniques and experiences to draw from? Well, you can! Regardless of your level of experience, your age, your sexual orientation or gender… You can improve your sexual prowess and skills, and have fun doing it! Join us. Bring a notebook. And bring your friends! If you would like an ASL interpreter, please reach out to Reid or the venue organizers so we can try to arrange it.

 

Event Banner for Threesome Grad School with Reid Mihalko. Get your PhD in the Art of Pleasing Two People at the Same Time! With lives demos.

THREESOME GRAD SCHOOL

You’ve learned the basics… It’s time to get your masters in pleasing not just TWO PEOPLE at the same time, but THREE (Because your pleasure counts, too!)… Come geek out, ask questions during the live demos, and leave with your PhD in ménage à trois!

IF YOU…

  • Would like to take your current 3way skills to Jedi levels…
  • Want to ask those black belt-level questions and get advanced-level tips and tricks…
  • Wish you could leave two people stammering, “h-h-How did you do THAT?!” so they invite you back for MORE threesomes…

THEN THIS IS THE CLASS FOR YOU!

YOU WILL LEARN…

  • Advanced hand techniques for pleasing two people at the same time
  • Ergonomic positions and body adjustments so you can keep pleasing two people for as long as it takes!
  • How to track the arousal of two people simultaneously and why that is important
  • Blackbelt applications for Reid’s “Embrace The Awkward Formula”
  • Oral techniques such as the “FLippity-Flop” & the “Flying Squirrel”
  • Advanced techniques for receiving tremendous amounts of pleasure from two people
  • Ways to help everyone not only feel included but aroused and so enthusiastic & safe that they ask for what they really want

Let sex and relationship educator Reid Mihalko of ReidAboutSex.com be your Head Dean (see what he did there?!) and give you your advanced degree in threeways so YOU can leave your lovers and yourself feeling satisfied, confident, and glowing with appreciation!

Whether you’ve had more threesomes than the artist formerly known as Prince or are just beginning to consider three-in-a-bed, this workshop will give you plenty of tools, tricks, perspectives, and laughs to double your pleasure without destroying your relationships!

This class will include LIVE demonstrations as well as time for folks to explore basic communication concepts with each other! Bring a buddy to practice with… Better yet, bring two or three!

 

PEGGING GRAD SCHOOL

Up your prowess and confidence when it comes to giving and receiving pleasure! Make tackling taboo subjects a breeze!

Pegging Grad School: Get Your PhD in Strap-On, Bend Over Your Boyfriend, Pleasure!

If you…

  • Are curious about strap-on play and pegging (anal penetration usually on a man via a strap-on harness and dildo) but have never tried it…
  • Already have your Masters Degree in dildos and prostate pleasure but are looking for a few advanced techniques…
  • Trying to help a loved one who’s not sure if pegging is for them, but could use some empowering, shame-free tips…
  • Want to leave your loved ones stammering, “h-h-How did you do THAT?!”

Then you’re in the right place

Let “America’s favorite sxx geek,” sxx & relationship educator (and veteran peg’ster) Reid Mihalko of ReidAboutSex.com be your Head Dean and help you get your PhD in pegging so YOU can create great strap-on experiences that leave YOU and your lovers feeling satisfied, confident, and glowing with appreciation!

The idea of strap-on play no longer exists as something solely for lesbians and dominatrixes, or for television (Remember the Broad City episode where Abbi is presented with Jeremy’s custom green dildo?!). Pegging (nods to sxx columnist Dan Savage for coining the term), and the play surrounding it, can be a sxxy, fun and adventurous way for men, women, and folks of all genders to explore new dynamics and sensations in the bedroom. Yet, without a game partner or a certain amount of experience and communication confidence, pegging can be a nerve-wracking adventure all but destined to end badly.

Butt- Reid and his friends are here to help!

In this informative and humorous workshop, where you get to watch, take notes, and ask any and all your questions, you will learn:

  • Strap-On approaches for All Genders
  • Simple yet advanced techniques for fun and easy bottoming/receiving
  • Communication and negotiation skills that will deepen your love life…
  • Safer Sxx protocols and hygiene tips
  • Group Strap-On Play tips and techniques for threesomes, foursomes, and Moresomes
  • And much, much more!

Regardless of your gender, sxxual orientation, level of experience, relationship status, or what you’re packing beneath your clothes (or in your sxx toy bag), this class will cover how to show yourself and your lovers how to give and receive more pleasure through pegging.

 

HAND SEX GRAD SCHOOL

Hand Sex Grad School: Get Your PhD in Letting Your Fingers Do the Talking!

You’ve learned the basics… Now it’s time for your hands to get their masters in the advanced tricks of giving pleasure!

  • Would you like to take your current hand-craft to Jedi levels?
  • Looking for an “excuse” to have your lover lay back while you deliver some serious hands on & hands in moves that will leave them stammering, “w-w-What are you doing with your HANDS?!”
  • Want to feel so confident AND competent with your hands that the idea of a threeway and pleasuring two people at once (one with each hand) makes you giggle with delight?
  • What about upping your breast and nipple game so that your lovers discover new realms of “Wow!” because of your skills?
  • Want to ask those nagging questions and get advanced-level tips and tricks for pleasing your play partners?

Let sex and relationship educator Reid Mihalko of ReidAboutSex.com be your Dean of Hand Sex and give you each of your fingers some grad school level lessons in hands-on lovin’ so YOU can give and/or receive mind-blowing experiences no matter what kinds of genitaila you’re into!

From handjobs to fingering to fisting to nipple-play… From hands-on with yourself, your partner, or in threesomes and moresomes… Leave YOU and your lovers feeling satisfied, confident, and glowing with appreciation without ever having to take your clothes off (unless you want to)! This class will include LIVE demonstrations as well as time for folks to explore basic concepts with eachother! Bring a friend to practice with!

 

ORAL SEX GRAD SCHOOL

You’ve learned the basics… Now it’s time to get your masters in the advanced tricks, and leave with your PhD in Oral Sex!

Would you like to take your current craft & skills to Jedi levels? Want to ask those nagging questions and get advanced-level tips and tricks? Looking for an “excuse” to give (or receive) oral that leaves your loved ones stammering, “h-h-How did you do THAT?!”

Let sex and relationship educator Reid Mihalko of ReidAboutSex.com be your Head Dean (see what he did there?!) and give you your PhD in oral so YOU can give and/or receive mind-blowing blowjobs, cunnilingus, analingus that leaves YOU and your lovers feeling satisfied, confident, and glowing with appreciation!

What Others Got From Attending: 
“Thank you so much for the class! I tried out my new knowledge out on my partner and WOW. Just wow. He loved it. Then it was my turn and OHMAIGAD WOW. Thaaaaank you!”
~MishPen, Oakland CA

 

Sex and Relationship Expert Reid Mihalko

THE FULL-BODY KISS 

Great Making Out is More Than Just Using Your Mouth…

Ever liked someone only to discover that they were severely lacking in the kissing department?

Are you worried that you might be one of those “bad kissers” the Cosmo articles talk about? Perhaps, your lover is “almost there” where it comes to kissing, but you’re at a loss for how to upgrade their technique or even talk about it…

Perhaps people tell you that you’re a good kisser, but you want to be a GREAT kisser…

Kissing. Macking. Smooooching. Necking. Snogging.
Lip-Locking. Tonsil Hockey…

Call it what you will, but making out is one of the best appetizers on the menu when it comes to turning a person on. And Full-Body Kissing (the art of using your mouth, lips, tongue, face, hands, arms, hair, shoulders, and legs) can be the main course all unto itself, but only if you know how!

Join world-renowned sex and relationship educator Reid Mihalko of ReidAboutSex.com for an entertaining evening of frank, humorous conversations and hot demonstrations on how to take your kissing to the next level!

In this workshop, complete with demonstrations where all you have to do is watch, take notes, and ask questions…  You will learn:

  • How to use your entire body to turn any kiss into a Full-Bodied Kiss
  • Ways to use pressure, body weight, and sound to enhance you and your partner’s making out
  • How NOT to give hickeys!
  • Reid’s favorite erogenous zones for surprise smooch attacks!
  • Why French Kissing isn’t the end-all-be-all and what lies beyond simple “tongue-macrame”…
  • Practical approaches to teaching a lover how to be a better kisser.
  • Fingers and forearms and why they’re JUST as important as your lips in making out…
  • PLUS…Tips on breaking the ice for that anxiety-ridden first kiss and how not to botch it!

Whether you’re focusing on making your date swoon the first tie your lips touch or getting your lover breathing heavy and writhing with pleasure on the couch, The Full-Body Kiss workshops going to upgrade what your mouth and body are capable of.  Take your kissing technique beyond 8th grade, and start getting your black belt in making out today!

Looking for something fun to do for “date night?”  Regardless of your level of experience, your gender, or sexual orientation… This workshop will definitely give the two of you something to discuss over dessert…Heck, maybe you’ll be the dessert!

If you would like an ASL interpreter, please reach out to Reid or the venue organizers so we can try to arrange it.

 

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SPEED-FLIRTING 

Creating Playful Connection Doesn’t Have To Be Hard or Creepy…

Speed-Flirting is a rambunctious, workshop/social event for men and women of all ages. The usual definition of flirting as just a sxxual thang limits our ability to engage with people playfully. What if flirting meant increasing the fun and play in any interaction?

Perfect for singles, couples, and entire communities, Speed-Flirting gives us the tools to go deeper than just a wink and a smile

Speed-Flirting will teach you to:

  • Break the ice with ease and confidence.
  • Make your dating and relationship life pressure-free.
  • Say No without feeling guilty.
  • Keep people from misunderstanding your intentions.
  • Relate with rejection gracefully and leave people feeling better for having met you.
  • Get anyone to make the first move.

Add more aliveness to your existing relationships. Make new friends in the most exciting way possible. Speed-Flirting features a series of structured games and exercises with lots of easy-to-apply tools for breaking the ice, overcoming awkward moments, and for deep-connection through play. Join us!

 

TICKLING THE TAINT AND BEYOND

It t’aint penis or pussy, and it t’aint ass… And the prostate is the new G-Spot!

It’s Anal August, we’re calling in one of our geekiest Sex Geeks, relationship educator Reid Mihalko of ReidAboutSex.com, to shed some light and slather some lube on two “untapped” pleasure resources: the not-spoken-enough-about Perineum and Prostate!

We know what you’re thinking: the Whatzit and the Whaddayacallit? Exactly!

Men and women and those who love ’em: You do not want to miss humorous and informative workshop with Reid because Ticking the ‘Taint and Beyond: Perineum and Prostate Play for Beginners and Black Belts will reveal tips and tricks you’ve probably NEVER heard of!

In this R-Rated workshop (with plenty of time for your Q&A on backdoor-basics), you will learn:

  • What a the Perineum is, where it is on men and women, and how it can increase sexual pleasure
  • How you can blow someone’s socks off by playing with the Perineum fully-clothed, fully-naked, or somewhere in between!
  • Where the Prostate is, why its referred to as the “male G-Spot,” and why you want to know all about it… Even if you don’t play with men!
  • 3-ways you can explore Prostate Play on your own, with a partner, and in groups!
  • Some great communication tools for introducing your partners to Ass-Play and beyond, including a few black belt level massage moves that are ass-play but you’d never know it!

Whatever your orientation, relationship status, level of experience or feelings about back-door action, join us for an entertaining evening of stimulating sex education covering the 101, the 411, and a few 69’s ta boot! And let Reid help you can put the “us” in anus!

If you would like an ASL interpreter, please reach out to Reid or the venue organizers so we can try to arrange it.

 

BUCKLE-UP: PEGGING AND STRAP-ON PLAY FOR THE ADVENTUROUS

If you…

  • Are curious about strap-on play and pegging (anal penetration on a man via a strap-on harness and dildo) but have never tried it…
  • Enjoy exploring the “taboos” in The Lifestyle…
  • Are looking for a few advanced techniques…
  • Think strap-on blowjobs and handjobs might be “your thang”…
  • Want to help a loved one who’s not sure if pegging or strap-on play is for them, but could use some empowering, shame-free tips… 
  • Want to leave your loved ones stammering, “h-h-How did you do THAT?!”

Let sex and relationship educator (and veteran pegg’ster) Reid Mihalko of ReidAboutSex.com guide you in getting your PhD in strap-on play so YOU can create great experiences that leave YOU and your lovers feeling satisfied, confident, and glowing with appreciation!

The idea of strap-on play no longer exists as something solely for lesbians and dominatrixes, or for television (Remember the Broad City episode where Abbi is presented with Jeremy’s custom green dildo?!). Pegging (nods to sex columnist Dan Savage for coining the term), and the play surrounding it, can be a sexy, fun and adventurous way for men, women, and folks of all genders to explore new dynamics and sensations in the bedroom. Yet, without a game partner or a certain amount of experience and communication confidence, pegging can be a nerve-wracking adventure all but destined to end badly.

Butt- Reid and his friends are here to help!

Broad City Season 2, Episode 4 snapshot of Abbi holding Jeremy's strapon harness and green dildo

In this informative and humorous workshop (with live demos), where you’ll get to watch, take notes and ask any and all your questions… You will learn:

  • Strap-On Basics for All Genders
  • Simple + Advanced techniques for fun and easy bottoming/receiving
  • Ways to bring up the idea of pegging and strap-on play without freaking out your partners!
  • Communication and negotiation skills that will deepen your love life…
  • Safer Sex protocols and hygiene tips
  • Special considerations when working with butts and prostates
  • Easy to… swallow… blowjob and deepthroating techniques for strap-ons!
  • Unique and fun positions perfect for all gendered strap-on sex
  • Some simple fem-dom techniques (nothing too scary, we promise!)
  • And much, much more!

Regardless of your gender, sexual orientation, level of experience, relationship status, or what you’re packing beneath your clothes (or in your sex toy bag), this class will cover how to show yourself and your lovers how to give and receive more pleasure through pegging.

Whether you’ve been dying to explore strap-on play, just heard about pegging today, or are looking for an outrageous workshop to bring your date or friends too, Buckle-Up: Pegging and Strap-On Play for the Adventurous with Reid and friends is sure to give you your money’s worth in shame-free, Show-N-Tell sex education. Show up with your questions and leave with new-found confidence and self-esteem for your relationships and sex life!

If you would like an ASL interpreter, please reach out to Reid or the venue organizers so we can try to arrange it.

 

THE INS & OUTS OF HAND-SEX

Do you wish you had more tricks and know-how when it comes to using your hands on your lovers? Feel confident when it comes to your usual “hand-jive” routine but want to add a few new surprises in your bag of tricks? Perhaps you get good grades from your sex partners when it comes to lovemaking but their genitalia and erogenous zones still mystify you?

In today’s “Insert Tab A into Slot B”-centric culture, Hand Sex is one of the most overlooked and untapped sources of pleasure. And unlike your standard “go-to” sex equipment, God gave most of us two hands with five digits each, which, when you do the math, equals way more than just doubling your pleasure!

Join world-renowned sex and relationship educator Reid Mihalko of ReidAboutSex.com for an entertaining, low-pressure and informative workshop on how to make love to men and women using your hands.

In this workshop, complete with live demonstrations (on produce!) where you get to watch and ask questions, Reid will cover:

  • How you can transform your hands into one of your best sexual assets!
  • Ways to utilize the zillions of nerves in your fingers and hands to “listen” to and track your partner’s sexual response so you can access better information and make him or her squeal
  • Several “best practices” for accessing and stimulating a woman’s erogenous zones
  • Reid’s best kept secret of Hand Sex: how to use pressure and your own body weight to drive your partner crazy!
  • How to take the sexual equipment you were born with (and are probably most familiar with) and map out what you already know onto someone else’s plumbing so you don’t have to think!
  • G-Spot, P-Spot, the Reach Around and the Finger Bang made easy!
  • Safer Sex hand hygiene so you can go mano a mano with confidence…
  • Ways to use verbal communication during love-making so that your partners can better relax and leave their pleasure, literally, “in your hands”

You don’t have to go to medical school to have the hands of a surgeon and you don’t have to be born a lesbian to know how to use your hands!

Whatever your gender identity, no matter what your age or sexual preference, masterfully making love to another with your hands can be a huge turn-on and self-esteem boost. Not to mention that Hand Sex is one of the best fall-back plans (or savvy, lead-with tactics) to have at the ready when the rest of you is worn out or incapacitated, or you’re just looking to roll up your sleeves and spice things up!

Let your fingers learn how to do the walking and join Reid for this Show-N-Tell Sex Ed workshop for adults. If you would like an ASL interpreter, please reach out to Reid or the venue organizers so we can try to arrange it!

 

HAND-SEX TECHNIQUES FOR THREESOMES & MORESOMES (WITH DEMOS)

If you want to get better at golf, you hire a golf-pro to watch your swing. But what do you do if you want to increase your sexual self-confidence or up your “handicap in the bedroom? — Against multiple partners at once?!

  • If you want to increase your ability to use your hands as instruments of pleasure in threesomes and moresomes!
  • If you wish you could get expert advice and coaching for you and your partner(s) while you’re actually trying to please multiple people in the moment?
  • If you’ve ever wondered how a sexpert would use their hands to create mind-blowing, orgasmic pleasure in a threesome!

Then Reid’s Hand-Sex Techniques for Threesomes and Moresomes (with Live Demos) is for you!

Because of the popularity of his The Ins and Outs of Hand-Sex workshops, world-renowned sex and relationship educator Reid Mihalko of ReidAboutSex.com invites you to let your fingers do the walking at this extraordinary evening of Over-The-Shoulder Sex Education in this special practicum lab. Yep, you not only get to see how it’s done with live demonstrations from Reid and his demo models, but you and your loved one(s) get to practice on one another while Reid coaches and guides the group along!

Designed specifically as a safe and respectful space for couples, threesomes, moresomes, and single folks who can bring a “lab partner” this workshop practicum consists of:

  • Humorous, respectful sex education and demonstrations on how to use one’s hands as instruments of mind-blowing pleasure on multiple people at once!
  • Time to practice giving and receiving erotic touch with your lab partner(s) while Reid offers tips, tricks, and adjustments…
  • Safer sex tips and advice for letting your fingers do the walking on more than one person with ease and aplomb!
  • Communication techniques to deepen intimacy and trust between those involved…
  • Practices and exercises you and your lover(s) can use to expand your group sex frolicking!

No one is obligated to do the hands-on practicum portion of the evening and you can leave at any time. But please show up on time. No late arrivals, please.

Whatever your experience level, sexual orientation, relationship status or politics, wrangle up your favorite lab partner for an evening of learning and hands-on practice with Reid Mihalko coaching the both of you while he reveals his best tips on the Ins and Outs of ecstatic Hand Sex!

Because of the mature, explicit content of this practicum, this evening is for adults 21 years old and older ONLY.

If you would like an ASL interpreter, please reach out to Reid or the venue organizers so we can try to arrange it.

 

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SARAN-WRAP YOUR SMARTPHONE: Avoiding Virtual Sex Date Disasters and Creating Hawt Intimacy So Everyone Wins!

If you thought getting laid in-person was tricky, wait until you ruin your laptop because you squirted all over the keyboard!

Virtual Sex Dates are the new normal and have taken phone sex to the next level with the added pressures and expectations of “giving good virtual date.” However, most of us have never had to negotiate safer virtual sex or tried to connect somatically over our devices, let alone think ahead far enough to figure out how to get the lighting and camera angles just right so we look sexy, can self-pleasure ourselves, AND see our lovers without spraining out necks or throwing out our backs!

Join sex and relationship geek, Reid Mihalko of ReidAboutSex.com, for this informative and humorous workshop devoted to solving the problems that ruin virtual sex dates and how to be kick-ass in bed when your lover is literally in another bed entirely!

In Saran-Wrap Your Phone: Avoiding Virtual Sex Date Disasters and Creating Hawt Intimacy So Everyone Wins!, we will cover:

– The three key areas everyone should consider before having a virtual sex date: What technology will work best, What conversations to have before the date, and the 3rd, most important area that Reid will reveal in the workshop… 
– How to create trust, connection, fun and intimacy before, during and after your virtual sex date!
– Reid’s take on what a Safer Virtual-Sex Conversation should contain…
– Three things to do BEFORE you get naked on camera to stack the deck in everyone’s favor of having a fun and sexy date!
– Four hilarious mistakes Reid made on his first few virtual sexy dates and how to AVOID them forever!
– How to create hot, intimate connection even when it’s a casual virtual hookup!
– Plus a few more blackbelt virtual sex date moves and time for your Q&A.
Virtual Sex Dates are the New Frontier!

Even if you would NEVER be interested in a virtual sex date, this fun-filled class–welcoming to all genders, sexual orientations, relationship self-expressions, and experience levels–will give you lots of ways to talk to your loved ones about the things you DO WANT in the bedroom or on your phones and laptops — no matter how tame or outrageous!

 

Iron Slut Sex Educator Showdown (with demos)

Watch and Learn as Real Sex Educators Go Head To Head and Reveal Their Best Bedroom Moves…

What better way to learn about practical sex education that you can actually use than to watch sex educators literally go head to head? 

See Show-N-Tell Sex Education at its best!

Tonight’s Iron Slut Sex Educators: Reid Mihalko VS.
____________!

Let’s face it, sex is one of the few things we’re not allowed to learn by watching others. You go to a fancy dinner. You don’t know which spoon to use. You watch to see what spoon everyone else uses — But don’t know what to do or how in the bedroom, or want to add a few tricks to your repertoire? No such luck! Until now…

Join world-renowned sex and relationship geek Reid Mihalko and celebrated _____________, and watch as they go hand-to-hand sharing their personal stories and bedroom secrets!

In this entertaining, informational, guaranteed-to-be-funny and friendly “competitive” throwdown, we’ll let the audience watch, take notes, ask questions, and, when the dust finally settles, meet these extraordinary educators and mingle with like-minded people.

Show up to this fun-filled, ___(Recommended length: 90mins at the shortest, 2hours in virtual, 2.5 if In-Person)___ hour workshop and learn:

  • What sex educators do under the covers and how
  • Their best tips and tricks (and probably not the kind you read about in Cosmo)
  • Their favorite, black belt sexy-sexy time moves!
  • And much, much more…

We can’t promise you badly dubbed voice-overs or high-jinx drama like television’s Iron Chef, but we can promise you some down-to-earth, applicable sex and relationship education. The only theme ingredient is education!

Iron Slut is a wealth of sex geekery and informative experience that you don’t want to miss.

If you were a big fan of “I’ll show you mine, if you show me yours” as a kid, or you always wished there was a reality show called “Shagging With the Stars,” then this workshop might be for you. Tell your friends. Bring a date. Bring a notebook, too, while you’re at it!

Because of Sex Educator Showdown’s sometimes explicit and frank nature and live demonstrations, no one under 18 admitted. Please try to arrive on time. And, as with all of Reid’s workshops, you can always leave early.

 

WORKSHOPS FOR
SEX EDUCATORS & PLEASURE PROFESSIONALS

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DATE YOUR BUSINESS MODEL: BUILDING A CAREER THAT THRILLS YOU AND PAYS THE RENT

  • Passionate about sex and relationship education?
  • Love helping and seeing people transform their personal lives?
  • Ever thought of becoming an Intimacy, Relationship, Sex, Dating, and/or Life Coach?
  • Interested in what you need to make a living teaching workshops, creating online products, writing and lecturing, bodywork sessions, coaching, or mentoring?
  • Wanted to go to Sex Geek Summer Camp but couldn’t?
  • Went to Sex Geek Summer Camp and are ready to dive deeper?
  • Blocked on how to create your brand, or what steps to take first?
  • Have a business, but not sure if your brand and business model is the right one for you?

Looking to launch an entirely new brand, branch, product or arm of what you’re already doing, and want a powerfully fresh approach that’ll spare you the frustration and exhaustion you went through the first time?

If you have dreams of quitting your day job and doing sex and relationship education as a career, or enhancing your current profession as a sex-positive professional, then please join “America’s favorite sex geek” and creator of ReidAboutSex.com and SexGeekSummerCamp.com, Reid Mihalko, for a humorous and informative work day where Reid will walk you through his personal “Date Your Business Model” system and teach you how to see (and seize) your own potential as an expert in our field. Why? Because the world needs amazing and successful sex and relationship educators now more than ever!

Lessen the anxiety of being a “broke sex educator” by revealing a clear vision of how your authentic self-expression and passion can be harnessed to grow a thriving career! Replace your sleepless nights worrying about “making it” with easy-to-understand business structures and marketing approaches that have allowed Reid to go from broke actor and bartender to paying all of his bills as a respected sex educator in less than 6 years.

In this 5-hour “learn while you implement” work day intensive (with a break for lunch), you will learn:

  • How the sex education business has changed in the last decade and the 3 mistakes that are keeping most sex educators from affording their own health insurance
  • The essential tools and strategies Reid is already using that will increase YOUR odds of being successful (and happy) in the sex-positive industry
  • The mistakes Reid made early in his career and how YOU can avoid them while making quantum leaps in your business in 1/2 the time it took Reid!
  • How to figure out what business model you should be “dating,”that’s not only a great fit for you, but will automatically attract amazing fans, customers, and clients…
  • How to soothe your “imposter syndrome” worries while earning the respect of your sex ed heroes and peers!
  • Ways YOU can lift the fog on those “spinning your wheels” days and replace them with kick-ass, productive protocols that will give you purpose, focus, and joy
  • How to build a career that thrills you while simultaneously making you thrilling!
  • And much more…

This workday intensive is about learning while you implement! So show up with a pen and notepad or laptop and be prepared to dive deep and make progress!

Reid’s Sex Geek Pro Intensive Work Days are the perfect investment for beginning sex educators as well as advanced sex-positive professionals.

If you already have a successful business, this class will help you scale your success and see opportunities that may currently be invisible. If you’re thinking about becoming a sex educator, or are one who’s not quite paying the bills yet, this class will show you where you might be “off course” and how to recalibrate so that YOU can build a career that pays your bills as you step more fully into your calling.

This day isn’t for you, if:

  • If you don’t want to feel confident and excited building your career, and are committed to staying frustrated and burning out!
  • If you hate empowering people, and like leaving your friends and family worried (and never want them to change their opinions about your career choice)!
  • If you’re appalled at the thought of geeking out with Reid and a room full of amazing, sex-positive entrepreneurs who’re committed to touching more lives with less effort and more happiness!

However, if all this sounds exciting! Then this work day is time well spent investing in yourself and your future. (And it’s a tax write-off, too!)

Why stay worried, frustrated, and burnt out when you can feel more confident, more revitalized and thrilled being a sex educator who built a business that actually works for YOU. How would it feel to have your career actually impress and inspire your family and loved ones? Why can’t your business excite AND nourish you? The great news is that it can!

It’s still going to take work, but you already have the passion bubbling up from within. Don’t let that well of awesome-sauce dry up because reinventing the wheel ran you into the ground. Let’s geek out together and shorten your learning curve by years so you can build a business and career that are congruent with who you are in the world, that energize you, attract your perfect clients, and leave your loved ones inspired.

It’s easier than you think, so let’s start now.

The key is to know what your business style is, learn your natural self-expressions and flow, and then build your business around the specifics. Once you understand these key principles, clarity and decision making become much easier and you can choose the actions that will let you move the needle for yourself, and your clients!

Comes with Reid’s personal “I won’t waste your time” Guarantee: If, after having attended the entire workshop, you feel that you’ve learned nothing, simply tell Reid at the end of the workshop, “Reid, you wasted my time,” and Reid will personally refund your workshop tuition fee. Not Dee Denis. But Reid. That’s how much Reid believes in what he’s teaching.

Bonus: Class fee also gets you lifetime, 24/7/365 access to the recording of the workshop once they’re ready, so you can revisit and review these useful exercises over and over again.

Reid’s Bio

ABOUT REID MIHALKO:

Sex and relationship geek Reid Mihalko of ReidAboutSex.com helps adults and college students create more self-esteem, self-confidence, and greater health and accountability in their relationships and sex lives using an inspiring mixture of humor, personal stories, keen insight, and comprehensive sexual health information.

In early 2018, some very brave people came forward sharing harms that Reid had caused them. Reid stepped down from teaching and initiated a restorative justice-based accountability process to address his misconduct and make amends if and where possible. The formal, year-long process along with Reid’s apology and resources were shared publicly and can be found at TinyURL.com/reidaccountability. Going forward, Reid’s projects and appearances will include pointing people towards resources and experts on restorative and transformative justice-based accountability processes.

Reid teaches internationally, running workshops and speaking on communication skills, alternative relationship styles, and shame-free sexuality. Whether online, on stage or at a college or university, Reid shares skills and concepts designed to help everyone be the change they want to see in the bedroom.

Reid’s workshops and college lectures have been attended by over 50,000 men and women. He has appeared in media such as Oprah’s Our America With Lisa Ling on OWN, the Emmy award-winning talk show Montel, Dr. Phil’s The Doctors on CBS, Bravo’s Miss Advised, Fox News, in Newsweek, Seventeen, GQ, The Washington Post, and in thirteen countries and at least seven languages.

Reid is also founder of Sex Geek Summer Camp and Sex Geek School for Gifted Sex Geeks which help sex educators learn valuable business skills that allow them to reach more people, transform move lives, and make a better living as sexperts.

Follow Reid on Twitter and Facebook and YouTube.


If you would like to bring Reid in for your event, organization or community contact Reid at Reid (at) ReidAboutSex.com with the courses you’d like him to lead, the dates you’d like to book him for, your budget, and whatever questions you have so Reid can confirm dates and discuss rates.

Don’t see something that you need for your group? Have an idea for a workshop that you would like to provide for your community, event, or organization? Reid loves creating new offerings! Reach out and see if he can’t create something to meet your specific needs!