Consent Resources

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Getting GREAT at consent and having high sexual integrity is a LIFELONG JOURNEY. Striving to continually learn and upgrade your approaches and understandings is part of what makes the world a better place. As culture progresses in heathleir, more just ways, it means that we will learn better ways to navigate consent–which also means, as we learn and grow, we realize that we probably fucked things up, made mistakes, and could have done things better!

I am living proof of this and invite you to check out the restorative justice-based accountability process I inititated in 2018 after some very brave people came forward during the #Metoo movement.

Got questions? Looking to geek out an understand the nuances of consent even more? You came to the right place, Sex Geek!

Congratulations on being the kind of person who’s smart enough and courageously curious enough to fortify themselves with resources and tackle the challenging questions surrounding consent culture!

Let the brain-sex begin… And, if these resources helped, please share this with others! If you think something awesome is missing, please leave your suggestions in the comments sections, ping me via social media (@ReidAboutSex nearly everywhere) or email me at Reid@ReidAboutSex.com!

Yours in sex geekery,
REiD

Recommended Books

Some of these books are about more than just consent per se, but I’ve found these amazingly powerful in my own journey.

What You Really Really Want: The Smart Girl’s Shame-Free Guide to Sex and Safety by Jaclyn Friedman

Ask: Building Consent Culture by Kitty Stryker

Girl Sex 101 by Allison Moon

The Consent Guidebook: A Practical Approach to Consensual, Respectful, and Enthusiastic Interactionsby Erin Tillman

The Ultimate Guide to Kink: BDSM, Role Play and the Erotic Edge by Tristan Taormino

Recommended Videos

Rather than overwhelm you with video after video, here are a few of my favorites…


Dan Harmon/Apology article in GQ

Recommended Podcasts

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Recommended Websites and Organizations

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Reid-Created Courses and Programs…

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