The Intimacy Dojo

How to Create Retreats For Women Without Dramatic Attachment?

How to Create Retreats For Women Without Dramatic Attachment? Cathy: We had someone write in saying, “I’d like your advice in creating private one-on-one or group retreats for women where we can really wake them up to bliss and pleasure and inspire them to get them to leave all their shit behind and I want […]

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I Want To Have Sex With Both Men and Women, How Do I Do It Ethically?

I Want To Have Sex With Both Men and Women, How Do I Do It Ethically?       Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, “I’m a guy who has had sex with women for my entire life but I think I’m gay or bi. How do I ethically have sex with both men and […]

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How Can A Senior Find A Partner To Have A Great Life With?

If you want to find someone to have fun with, who is passionate for life, how do you go about it? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com Cathy: What advice can you give someone who is a senior person wanting to meet a person to enjoy life with? Reid:    This is […]

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Vaginal Shame And What You Can Do

Dealing with Vaginal Shame, or care about someone who is? A frank discussion about sexual shame and how to reconnect with your vagina and how to help others feel more self-love. Join relationship expert Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com as Reid shares his Safer Sex Elevator Speech. Cathy: Hi I’m Cathy Vartuli […]

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Safer Sex Elevator Speech On The Third Date? When To Bring This Up

Ever wonder how to have “The Talk” with your date? Reid and Cathy discuss when to share the safer sex elevator speech. Discussing safer sex issues and concerns can bring a lot of ease to a new or an established connection, and sets the groundwork for talking about challenging things. Join relationship expert Reid Mihalko […]

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What If Someone Apologizes, But Keeps Repeating The Action

Join relationship expert Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com as they discuss what to do if some repeats an out of integrity action over and over. Cathy: In an earlier video, we talked about the Five Languages of Apology, by Gary Chapman which is a great book. It’s really powerful. It talks about […]

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What To Do When Someone Is Really Clingy

Dealing with clingy people can be overwhelming and unsettling. Learn how to create boundaries, talk to people and upgrade your relationships. Join relationship expert Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com as they discuss dealing with clingy people in an empowered way. (Please note, we decided not to chop the beginning, and let […]

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Clitorial Legs and How They Can Rock Her World

Most people haven’t heard of clitorial legs. But changing the way you approach the clit can dramatically increase pleasure, whether you’re playing solo or with someone else. Join Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacydojo.com and learn more! Cathy: Have you ever wondered about a woman’s clit? Did you know that the clit […]

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How To Deal With Premature Ejaculation

Premature Ejaculation is a problem most people face at some point. If you want practical suggestions, join Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: Hi, everyone. Have you ever wondered… I’m sorry I’m messing this up, I don’t know how to start this. Reid: You messed up prematurely? Cathy: I prematurely messed […]

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Having A Safer Sex Elevator Speech In An Existing Relationship

It can be hard to discuss safer sex issues with your partner if you’ve been in a relationship and may already be physically intimate. How do you bring the subject up without hurting feelings, and is it even worth it? Join Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com as they discuss how you […]

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