Sexual Shame

Are You Clean or Clear When Your STI Test Comes Back Negative?

Some people us the word “clean” when their STI or STD test results come back negative… Is there an upgrade? With Reid Mihalko from and Cathy Vartuli from Reid: Hey Cathy, I just got tested and I’m clean. How about you?  Cathy: Reid, I love that you got tested, and you’re clean whether […]

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Is It Normal To Have Pain In Certain Sexual Positions?

Does everyone have pain in some sexual positions? With Reid Mihalko from and Cathy Vartuli from Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, “I’m wondering if it’s normal to have pain during certain sexual positions. I noticed that when riding my boyfriend or being in the doggy position, my lower back really hurts or […]

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Healing Sexual Shame By Asking For What You Want AND Flirting 201, San Diego, July 26th!

Have you ever been too ashamed to ask for something you wanted? Have you ever… Liked someone and wanted to flirt, but didn’t know how to break the ice? Can you remember a time in your life when you felt embarrassed or shameful for something that felt good? Ever had someone start flirting with you […]

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