Communication

How Do You Get Multiple Partners So You Don’t Build Premature Connection?

How Do You Get Multiple Partners So You Don’t Build Premature Connection?     How to find play partners so you can have multiple lovers and avoid connecting too deeply too soon? Cathy: Someone wrote in and said “Hi Reid! I’m working my way through the why are people into that podcast and came across […]

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If You’re Poly And You’re Dating, How Do You Let People Know You’re Not “Out?”

If You’re Poly And You’re Dating, How Do You Let People Know You’re Not “Out?”       Cathy: If you’re poly and you’re dating, are there good ways to make sure that people you’re dating are aware that you’re not coming out because of work or kids? Reid: I really thought you’d say “If […]

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How To Deal With Metamours Or Your Partner’s Partners?

How To Deal With Metamours Or Your Partner’s Partners?       Cathy: Reid, how do you deal with metamours or your partner’s partner? This is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com Reid: This is Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Cathy is not wearing tux today because the Airlines did not lose her luggage and she has […]

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Mono/Poly Relationship, The Poly Person Enamored With A New Relationship… What Do You Do?

Mono/Poly Relationship, The Poly Person Enamored With A New Relationship… What Do You Do?     How do you deal with a mono/poly relationship where the poly person is in New Relationship Energy and is paying lots of attention to the new lover? With Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: So […]

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Cathy Vartuli On Status, Standards and How Society Has To Say About What Should Be Like

Cathy Vartuli On Status, Standards and How Society Has To Say About What Should Be Like   Reid: In the last video were talking about status and standards and how society can fuck with us around like who we’re attracted to and I’m curious about what Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com has to say about how […]

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I Put My Dick In And She Screamed, What Do I Do When She Says Stop?

I Put My Dick In And She Screamed, What Do I Do When She Says Stop?             Cathy: So this might be somewhat trigerring question but I think it’s really important to answer. Someone wrote in and said I put my dick in a pussy and she screamed, what do […]

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Reid Mihalko Has Been Nominated for 2 XBIZ awards!

Reid Mihalko Has Been Nominated for 2 XBIZ awards!       Cathy: So Reid you’re here all dressed up from XBIZ, can you tell us about XBIZ?   Reid: So first everyone needs to know I’m Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com   Cathy: I’m Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com   Reid: And the Airlines lost my […]

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How To Tell If Someone’s Telling You The Truth About Being In An Open Relationship Or Not?

How To Tell If Someone’s Telling You The Truth About Being In An Open Relationship Or Not?     Cathy: Have you ever wondered how to tell if someone is telling you the truth about being in an open relationship or not? One of our amazing viewers wrote in and said that they get this […]

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After My Failed Poly Relationship, How Do I Make Sure I Have Control And Get Respect?

After My Failed Poly Relationship, How Do I Make Sure I Have Control And Get Respect?     Cathy: Someone wrote in and said that my first poly relationship was a flap. We connected, we had a really nice time and suddenly the couple decided they weren’t Poly and dumped me and then the boyfriend […]

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What Is Couple Privilege And How It Can Interfere With Relationships?

What Is Couple Privilege And How It Can Interfere With Relationships?     Cathy: What is couple privilege and how it can interfere with relationships? This is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com Reid: Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com what is it, Cathy? What do you think of this? Cathy: Well how I’m seeing it I’m right now […]

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