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		<title>Healing the Wounded Feminine: Advanced, 3-Day Workshop for Sacred Sexuality Practitioners</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[As sacred sexual practitioners, “healing the Wounded Feminine” is not just the grand calling of bringing the Divine Feminine and Divine Masculine into full integration on Earth. It is also the intimate journey a healer accompanies their seekers on, a journey of releasing traumas,  nurturing the capacity to transform pain and receive pleasure, rediscovering one’s voice and sexual agency, and eventually awakening to one’s own divinity.
And this journey is not without it’s challenges for the initiate and pitfalls for the experienced practitioner.

Whether you are a daka or dakini who has leanred “the hard way,” someone who’s still struggling for better tools, or one of the “blessed” who’s career in healing the Wounded Feminine, so far, has had few upsets, this is 3-days with expert teachers David Cates, Betty Martin and Reid Mihalko you will not want to miss!]]></description>
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<div style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-family: Papyrus, 'Times New Roman';"><strong><span style="color: #ff0000;">The International School of Temple Arts Presents:</span></strong></span></div>
<div style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-family: Papyrus, 'Times New Roman';"><strong><span style="color: #ff0000;"><br />
<strong><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="color: #800000;">Healing the Wounded Feminine:</span></span></strong><span style="color: #800000;"><br />
</span><span style="font-size: large;"><em><span style="color: #800000;">An Advanced Intensive for Practitioners Working with Each Other and with Clients</span></em><br />
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<div style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-family: Papyrus, 'Times New Roman';"><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-weight: normal;">with </span></span></span></div>
<div style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-family: Papyrus, 'Times New Roman';"><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-weight: normal;"><a href="http://www.dakacoach.com" target="_blank">David Cates</a>, <a href="http://www.eroticeducation.org" target="_blank">Betty Martin </a></span></span></span></div>
<div style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-family: Papyrus, 'Times New Roman';"><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-weight: normal;">and <a href="http://www.ReidAboutSex.com" target="_blank">Reid Mihalko</a></span></span></span></div>
<p><a href="http://www.eroticeducation.org"></a><a href="http://www.dakacoach.com"><img class="aligncenter size-thumbnail wp-image-758" title="davidcates" src="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/07/davidcates-150x144.jpg" alt="davidcates" width="150" height="144" /></a><img class="aligncenter size-thumbnail wp-image-297" title="Erotic Educator Dr. Betty Martin" src="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/04/betty-martin-150x150.jpg" alt="Erotic Educator Dr. Betty Martin" width="150" height="150" /><a href="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/reid-to-co-sponsor-octobers-east-coast-dakadakini-tantra-conference-in-the-catskills/"><img class="aligncenter size-thumbnail wp-image-3" title="reid" src="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/06/mime-attachment-150x150.gif" alt="World Renowned Sex and Relationship Educator Reid Mihalko" width="150" height="150" /></a></p>
<div style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-family: Papyrus, 'Times New Roman';"><strong>3-Day <span style="color: #ff0000;">Post Conference </span>Advanced Intensive </strong></span></div>
<div style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-family: Papyrus, 'Times New Roman';"><strong>for Sacred Sexuality Practitioners</strong></span></div>
<div style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-family: Papyrus, 'Times New Roman';"><strong>October 5-7th, 2009</strong></span></div>
<div style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-family: Papyrus, 'Times New Roman';"><strong>Catskills, New York</strong></span></div>
<div>As sacred sexual practitioners, “healing the Wounded Feminine” is not just the grand calling of bringing the Divine Feminine and Divine Masculine <span style="color: #ff0000;">into full integration </span>on Earth. It is also the intimate journey a healer accompanies their seekers on, a journey of releasing traumas,  nurturing the capacity to transform pain and receive pleasure, rediscovering one’s voice and sexual agency, and eventually awakening to one’s own divinity.</div>
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<p>And this journey is not without its challenges for the initiate and pitfalls for the experienced practitioner.</p>
<p>As mid-wives of others’ transformation, we know all too well that most seekers will not know how delving into, stirring up, and beginning to confront their shadow sides will manifest. It is our responsibility as their teachers and guides, as best we can, to midwife our clients through their emotional and psychic upheavals with compassion and supportive grace. But even the best and most experienced among healers can experience unaccounted for difficulties and challenges.</p>
<p>Whether you are a daka or dakini who has leanred “the hard way,” someone who’s still struggling for better tools, or one of the “blessed” who’s career in healing the Wounded Feminine, so far, has had few upsets, this is 3-days that you will not want to miss!</p>
<h3 style="text-align: center;"><strong><span style="color: #800000;">Live, eat, train, and bond for 3-days in the Catskill Mountains with this dynamic and diverse teacher-triad and an intimate group of knowledge-hungry healers!</span></strong></h3>
<p>This Practitioners’ 3-day Advanced Intensive is being held October 5th, 6th and 7th, immediately following the <a title="Learn all about the 3-Day Conference for Tantra Teachers!" href="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/reid-to-co-sponsor-octobers-east-coast-dakadakini-tantra-conference-in-the-catskills/" target="_blank">Daka/Dakini Conference East</a>. Like the Conference, this Intensive is happening in at <a title="Learn all about the Inn and the Conference weekend!" href="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/reid-to-co-sponsor-octobers-east-coast-dakadakini-tantra-conference-in-the-catskills/" target="_self">Shandelee Lake Inn</a> located 2-hours outside of New York City.</p>
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<div style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #000080;"><em>&#8220;We&#8217;re one of the few communities willing to deal with this stuff<br />
and we&#8217;re so often not given the tools for difusing the dynamite so that<br />
we don&#8217;t get burned and our clients don&#8217;t get re-traumatized.&#8221;</em><br />
~David Cates</span></div>
<div style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #000080;"> </span></div>
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<h4 style="text-align: center;"><strong>Dive deep into the<br />
<span style="color: #ff0000;">dynamics, nuances, opportunities, and pitfalls</span><br />
existing inside the work of healing the Wounded Feminine with<br />
clients and with other practitioners.</strong></h4>
<p style="text-align: center;"><a title="Register for the conference AND the post-conference here!" href="http://www.sedonatemple.com/component/option,com_jevents/Itemid,95/day,05/evid,1055/month,10/task,icalrepeat.detail/uid,bc3f2127d6d442da8de065741e8a8cc3/year,2009/" target="_self"><img class="size-full wp-image-324 aligncenter" title="sign_me_up_button" src="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/05/sign_me_up.gif" alt="sign_me_up_button" width="141" height="28" /></a><span style="color: #000080; "> </span></p>
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<div style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #000080;"><em>&#8220;In Chiropractic school, they used to tell us &#8216;If all you have is a hammer,<br />
<span style="text-decoration: underline;"> everything looks like a nail</span></em><em>.&#8217; What you have is this&#8230; [holds up a hammer]</em></span></div>
<div style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #000080;"><em>What you need to help people in our line of work is <span style="text-decoration: underline;">this</span></em><em>&#8230; </em></span></div>
<div style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #000080;"><em>[holds up Leatherman tool, folded out to the pliers, scissors, knife, screwdriver and 20 other gadgets]&#8220;</em></span></div>
<div style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #000080;"> ~ Betty Martin</span></div>
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<p><strong>In this 3-day intensive, you will learn: </strong></p>
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<li>How to access and wield your Sacred Masculine in ways that protect and support the healing of another&#8217;s Sacred Feminine.</li>
<li>How to create a powerful container appropriate for deep work inside of the Wounded Feminine.</li>
<li>Practical tools, protocols and approaches to doing Wounded Feminine work that are applicable on all or most clients, as well as ways for mapping out the mid-wifeing of their journey back to wholeness.</li>
<li>Ways to create boundaries and agreements that will support your client while preventing you from over-extending and depleting your reserves.</li>
<li>What to watch out for and, especially, what not-to-do when working with seekers who have histories of abuse, and how you can best support them and yourself through such work.</li>
<li>How to account for our own learning curves when working with the Wounded Feminine, and do it in ways that strengthen our work, empower our clients and lessen mishaps.</li>
<li>Ways to take responsibility for “wrong calls” (when and if they happen) that will keep you grounded, strengthen your seeker’s trust rather than undermine it, and move the healing forward in ways that being defensive and attempting to “be perfect” cannot.</li>
</ul>
<h4 style="text-align: center;"><strong><span style="color: #800000;">Doing Wounded Feminine work with seekers inevitably touches upon their scars, sometimes reopening them. It also, at times, unexpectedly re-activates and reopens our own wounds.</span></strong></h4>
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<div><span style="color: #000080;"><em>&#8220;Staying current with our own “stuff” is THE foundation of our work.&#8221;</em><br />
~David Cates</span></div>
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<p><strong>During this intimate, intense journeying with David, Betty and Reid,</strong> <strong>you will experience: </strong></p>
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<li>The edges of your own woundedness in order that you may bridge your experience to that of your seekers.</li>
<li>Protocols that will allow you to “front-load” a seeker’s awareness and preemptively direct their stored-up rage and mistrust in constructive ways, ways that will empower their healing and lessen the load on you.</li>
<li>How keeping your composure and taking “full-responsibility” when you are the one who is being blamed creates an opening for quantum healing.</li>
<li>The support and witnessing of your peers in ways that will strengthen your practice and empower the community of sacred healers as a whole.</li>
</ul>
<h3 style="text-align: center;"><strong><span style="color: #800000;">Extend your conference experience in the Catskills with 72-additional, intimate hours of learning alongside these three amazing teachers!</span></strong></h3>
<p><strong><span style="color: #800000;"> </span></strong></p>
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<div style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #000080;"><span style="font-weight: normal;"><span style="color: #000080;">“When I need my time on the table, where do I go? Who do I see? I have learned</span></span></span></div>
<div style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #000080;"><span style="font-weight: normal;"><span style="color: #000080;">the hard way not to assume that a Daka or Dakini knows anything more than</span></span></span></div>
<div style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #000080;"><span style="font-weight: normal;"><span style="color: #000080;">an initiate. I don’t assume. When I work with a peer, I start with the basics</span></span></span></div>
<div style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #000080;"><span style="font-weight: normal;"><span style="color: #000080;">just like anyone else. We may move <span style="text-decoration: underline;">faster</span>, but <span style="text-decoration: underline;">always</span> start with the basics.</span></span></span></div>
<div style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #000080;"><span style="font-weight: normal;"><span style="color: #000080;">Never assume any thing just because you’re working with a peer.”</span></span></span></div>
<div style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #000080;"><span style="font-weight: normal;"><span style="color: #000080;"> ~Betty Martin</span></span></span></div>
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<p><span style="font-weight: normal;">Journey deep as David, Betty and Reid share their individual journeys, role model techniques for dealing with your own shadow-side during client sessions, and help you deepen the steadfastness and groundedness that is so vital to sacred sexual healing as a practitioner.</span></p>
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<div style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #000080;"><em><span style="font-weight: normal;">&#8220;We owe it to ourselves as a community of sacred sexual practitioners</span></em></span></div>
<div style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #000080;"><em><span style="font-weight: normal;">to be as &#8216;on top of our game&#8217; as possible, and to support our peers in being</span></em></span></div>
<div style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #000080;"><em><span style="font-weight: normal;">as capable and impeccable and as &#8216;on top of their games&#8217; as possible, too.</span></em></span></div>
<div style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #000080;"><em><span style="font-weight: normal;">I promise you that these 3-days will nourish your practice, your self,</span></em></span></div>
<div style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #000080;"><span style="color: #000080;"><em><span style="font-weight: normal;">and the community from which you can draw support. If not, I will </span></em></span><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span style="color: #000080;"><em><span style="font-weight: normal;">give you</span></em></span></span></span></div>
<div style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #000080;"><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span style="color: #000080;"><em><span style="font-weight: normal;">your money back for the course</span></em></span></span><span style="color: #000080;"><em><span style="font-weight: normal;">. Me. That&#8217;s how strongly I feel about this 3-Day Intensive. Join us!&#8221;</span></em></span></span><span style="color: #000080;"><span style="font-weight: normal;"><br />
</span> </span><span style="color: #000080;"><span style="font-weight: normal;"> ~Reid Mihalko</span></span></div>
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<h3 style="text-align: center;"><strong>Cost for this 3-Day Intensive:<br />
$495</strong><br />
(Rooms and Meal Plan not included)</h3>
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<h4 style="text-align: center;"><strong><span style="color: #800000;">Given the statistics, all of us, whether we know it or not, will at some point in our practices, work with a client or clients with abuse histories. </span></strong></h4>
<p><span style="font-weight: normal;">Join us and explore what precautions we can take that can prevent us from re-traumatizing our clients and free them from re-experiencing disempowering patterns. </span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: normal;">If you think learning the hard-won knowledge of experiencing the fury of a wounded woman or man as they heal themselves and reclaim their sexuality is important to your practice, then this is 3-days with three mentors you do not want to miss. If being able to masterfully create a container with your Divine Masculine so that the Divine Feminine can re-calibrate herself within your seekers, or if knowing how to role model steadfastness and reliability in times of concern and distress for your clients are skill sets that you think will take your clients deeper and your offerings to the next level, then register today. </span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: normal;">And, if it has been your own journey towards healing yourself that has given you an intimate experience of completing your own Wounded Feminine nature, and midwifing others through their own journey has become your calling, then this is definitely the place for you to peel back the next layer.</span></p>
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