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		<title>Negotiating Successful Threesomes seduces Santa Cruz this Nov 16th&#8230;</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 27 Aug 2010 18:58:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[If the idea of &#8220;doubling your pleasure&#8221; gives your tummy the butterflies, have we got the workshop for you&#8230; The menage a trios is a popular fantasy with twice the pleasure potential, but navigating a three-way romance (if only for one night) can be tricky. Join world renowned sex and relationship educator Reid Mihalko of [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h1><em><a href="http://reidaboutsex.dreamhosters.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/04/squrrilethreesomes.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-3373" title="squrrilethreesomes" src="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/04/squrrilethreesomes-300x212.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="212" /></a>If the idea of &#8220;doubling your  pleasure&#8221; gives your tummy the butterflies, have we got the workshop for  you&#8230;</em></h1>
<p>The menage a trios is a popular fantasy with twice the pleasure  potential, but  navigating a three-way romance (if only for one night)  can be tricky.</p>
<p>Join world renowned sex and relationship educator Reid Mihalko of  www.ReidAboutSex.com for  this R-rated, fun-filled, two-hour workshop  (with live demonstrations!)&#8230;</p>
<blockquote><p><strong>DATE:</strong> Tues, Nov 16th, 2010<br />
<strong>TIME: </strong>7:30-9:30  p.m.<br />
<strong>Cost:</strong> <em>$20 Advance/$25 Walk-In</em><br />
<strong>WHERE: <a href="http://purepleasureshop.com" target="_blank"><em>Pure Pleasure</em></a></strong>, 204 Church Street, Santa Cruz CA 95060</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><strong><em>Due to  the   center&#8217;s limited space RSVP early!</em></strong></p>
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<p><strong>Not only will you get a chance to ask questions, but we&#8217;ll cover:</strong></p>
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<li>What are the best techniques to satisfy two lovers at once?</li>
<li>Ways to overcome fears and concerns &#8211; Yours AND your partner&#8217;s!</li>
<li>The most common threesome mistakes (and how to avoid them!)</li>
<li>How to negotiate boundaries and safer sex protocols to make your   next menage a trios tré bien!</li>
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<p>Interested in M-F-M threesomes, F-M-F threesomes,  F-F-F threesomes  or M-M-M threesomes?&#8230; Whether you’ve had more threesomes than Jim  Morrison or are just   beginning to consider three-in-a-bed might be  something you&#8217;d like to   explore, this workshop will give you plenty of  tools, tricks,   perspectives and laughs to enhance your love life and  strengthen your   relationships!</p>
<h3 style="text-align: center;"><em>Even  if you would NEVER be interested in a 3-way, this fun-filled  class   will give you lots of ways to talk to your loved ones about the  things   you DO WANT in the bedroom &#8211; no matter how tame or outrageous!</em></h3>
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<p>Bring your loved ones, bring your friends, and enjoy an educational   and entertaining evening on how to successfully navigate one of the most   common sexual fantasies: the threesome!</p>
<p><strong><a href="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/06/mime-attachment.gif"><img title="Sex and Relationship  Expert Reid Mihalko" src="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/06/mime-attachment-150x150.gif" alt="Sex and Relationship Expert Reid Mihalko" width="150" height="150" /></a>ABOUT   REID: </strong>Reid Mihalko of  www.ReidAboutSex.com helps   adults create more self-esteem,  self-confidence and greater health in   their relationships and sex  lives, no matter what their self-expression   of those happen to be.</p>
<p>From his rated-PG/PG-13 workshops (<a href="http://cuddleparty.com/" target="_blank">Cuddle Party</a>, <a href="http://speed-flirting.com/" target="_blank">Speed-Flirting</a>) to the rated-R (<a href="../workshops/workshops/" target="_self">Iron  Slut Sex   Educator Showdown</a>) to his explicit, NC-17 rated, <a href="../show-n-tell-sex-ed/" target="_self">Show-N-Tell  sex   education</a> workshops (where audiences get to watch, take notes,  and   ask questions), Reid has worked with thousands of individuals from    myriad walks of life, orientations, relationship styles, countries and    religions. Known for his charisma, wit and emphasis on integrity, Reid    travels the country teaching, coaching, consulting and collaborating  on   fulfilling his mission: Create more self-esteem, self-confidence  and   health adults in and out of the bedroom.</p>
<p>Reid has been a featured speaker at dozens of conferences on    relationships and sexuality and is a sought-after presenter and teacher    at colleges and sex positive stores across the country.</p>
<p>Reid has been a writer and producer on a number of films and    television projects about sex and relationships, and appears regularly    in the media. He has also appeared on the Emmy award-winning talk show <em>Montel,    Fox News</em>, VH1’s <em>Scott Baio is 45 and Single,</em> Showtime’s <em>Penn    &amp; Teller’s Bulls**t!</em>, Canada’s <em>The Sex Files </em>and<em> SexTV</em>, and the short-lived <em>Life &amp; Style</em>, on NPR,  Sirius’   <em>Maxim Radio</em> and <em>Cosmo Radio</em>, and in <em>Marie  Claire,  GQ,  Details, People, Newsweek</em> and <em>The National Enquirer</em>,  as   well as media across the globe in thirteen countries and at least   seven  languages.</p>
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		<title>Time Square, New York City&#8217;s 2nd Annual, Great N.E. Sacred Sexuality Round-Up, Sept. 23-26th</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 09 Aug 2010 07:41:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[4 Jam-Packed Days of Events, Learning, Networking, and Community Building with the World&#8217;s leading Tantra Teachers and Sacred Sexuality Educators! Curious about Sacred Sexuality or have that general feeling that the intimacy in your life is “missing something” or isn’t “deep enough?” Had ecstatic experiences in the bedroom that border on spiritual or transcendent, but [...]]]></description>
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<div style="text-align: center;"><strong>4 Jam-Packed Days of Events, Learning, Networking, and Community Building with the World&#8217;s leading Tantra Teachers and Sacred Sexuality Educators!</strong></div>
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<li>Curious about Sacred Sexuality or have that general feeling that the intimacy in your life is “missing something” or isn’t “deep enough?”</li>
<li>Had ecstatic experiences in the bedroom that border on spiritual or transcendent, but they’re so far and few between that you’re beginning to doubt if they were real at all?</li>
<li>Frustrated with your current sex life and really want to “take it to the next level,” but have no idea what the “next level” means, looks like, or how to get there?</li>
<li>Want to take a workshop on Tantra or Taoist Sexual Practices, but don’t know where to look or how to find a teacher you would connect with?</li>
<li>Perhaps you know exactly what you want to study, but can’t seem to get your partner or friends to stop calling what you’re into “New Age” and “Woo-Woo Mumbo Jumbo?”</li>
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<h3 style="text-align: center;"><strong>September  23-26th, 2010<br />
Reflections Yoga, 250 West 49th Street, 2nd Floor<br />
Times Square, New York City</strong></h3>
<p>If you answered yes to any of the questions above, or if you or your friends think that shame-free, deeply moving sex and mind expanding orgasms are only for people like Sting, then check out <strong>The Great N.E. Sacred Sexuality Round-Up! </strong>and see what is possible for YOU…</p>
<p>If you’re feeling shy about working on your love life in a conscious, intentional way, then why not attend one of the <strong>most fun and informative, least threatening, unpretentious (and deeply inspirational!)</strong> events on conscious loving happening in the country!</p>
<p>If you love the idea of using sex as a healing path towards greater self-esteem and connection with whatever you label as “the Divine” but can’t understand all the “woo-woo” lingo about Chakras and Divine Masculine that gets tossed around, then join us for one of the <strong>most accessible and understandable </strong>4-days on sacred sexuality ever put together.</p>
<h4 style="text-align: center;"><strong><span style="color: #800000;">What if we told you mind blowing sex on a regular basis was not only possible, but<span style="color: #800000;"> </span></span><em><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span style="color: #800000;">learnable?</span></span></em></strong></h4>
<p>Last year&#8217;s Round-Up was so spectacular that we had to bring it back! And this year&#8217;s<strong> 2nd Annual Great N.E. Sacred Sexuality Round Up</strong> promised to be the “gate way drug” for anyone questing to explore sexuality as a pathway to <span style="color: #ff0000;">accelerated</span><span style="font-weight: normal;"> healing and  spirituality, or continue to deepen their understanding of sex and love, period. </span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: normal;">If you’ve been trying to get your friends to understand what is possible in the realm of expanded relationships and sacred sexual yoga, but to no avail, then get them to New York City this </span><span style="font-weight: normal;"><strong>September</strong></span><span style="font-weight: normal;"><strong> 23rd thru the 26th</strong></span><span style="font-weight: normal;"> for what promises </span><span style="font-weight: normal;"><strong><span style="color: #ff0000;"><span style="text-decoration: underline;">NOT to be Sex And the City 2!</span></span></strong></span></p>
<h3 style="text-align: center;"><strong><span style="color: #800000;">Carrie, Miranda, Charlotte, and Samantha<br />
might have been more successful (and less flustered) if they’d attended <em>The 2nd Annual, Great N.E. Sacred Sexuality Round Up!</em></span></strong></h3>
<p><strong><strong><span style="color: #800000;"><em><span style="color: #800000;"> </span></em></span></strong></strong></p>
<h4 style="text-align: center;"><strong><strong><span style="color: #800000;"> </span></strong></strong></h4>
<p style="text-align: center;"><strong><a title="Go to the official site!" href="http://sacredsexualityroundup.com" target="_blank"><img class="size-full wp-image-324 aligncenter" title="sign_me_up_button" src="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/05/sign_me_up.gif" alt="sign_me_up_button" width="141" height="28" /></a></strong></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><strong><strong>Four amazing days filled with the world’s </strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>top</strong></span><strong> sacred sexuality educators, teachers, writers, and workshop facilitators.</strong></strong></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><strong><strong>Visit the website for Events, Info, Presenter Bios, Tickets, VIP Passes and more!<br />
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<p style="text-align: center;"><strong><strong><span style="color: #ff0000;">Register Online for the Weekend Events and Save!</span></strong></strong></p>
<p><strong>Whether you are a beginner, a skeptic, or have been involved in the conscious, spiritual sexuality movement for years, this is your chance to learn from and <strong><a href="http://www.sedonatemple.com/presenters-2009-fall-great-north-east-sacred-sexual-round-up-new-york.php" target="_blank">meet the Who&#8217;s Who in Sacred Sexuality</a></strong> in one fell swoop. Gathered together in one place, witness these articulate and dynamic men and women “doing their thing” while also meeting and interacting with like-minded adults <span style="text-decoration: underline;">just like you</span>!</strong></p>
<h4 style="text-align: center;"><strong><strong><span style="color: #800000;">What if screaming “Oh, God!” in bed was a way of praying?</span></strong></strong></h4>
<p><strong><strong><span style="color: #800000;"><span style="color: #000000; font-weight: normal;">Connect to a Higher Power (even if, to you, that means staying connected to yourself during sex) by joining <strong>the world’s leading experts and teachers </strong>in the realms of Tantra, Sacred Sexuality, Conscious Relationships, Pleasure Positive Activism, and Sexual Healing for four days in New York City!</span></span></strong></strong></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><strong><strong>Come for the day or for the entire weekend! Expand your social network, deepen your insight, and transform your sense of what is possible in love, sex, and life!</strong></strong></p>
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<h3 style="text-align: center;"><strong><strong><em><span style="color: #800000;">Ticket Prices and <span style="text-decoration: underline;">Online Savings</span> for the Round-Up!</span></em></strong></strong></h3>
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		<title>Friday the 13th is End a Bad Relationship Day: Get the Download!</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 08 Aug 2010 00:41:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Start the relationship of your dreams by ending the one that isn't working today!

If you feel stuck in your relationship, why not make Friday the 13th the excuse for your soon-to-be ex's "bad luck" and empower yourself by cutting them loose?]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h1><em><a rel="attachment wp-att-1814" href="http://reidaboutsex.com/nov-13th-is-national-end-a-bad-relationship-day/nationalendbadrelationshipday-2/"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-1814" title="National End a Bad Relationship Day" src="http://reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/11/nationalendbadrelationshipday-300x231.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="231" /></a>Start the relationship of your dreams by ending the nightmare you&#8217;re stuck in!</em></h1>
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<p>If you feel stuck in your relationship, why not make Friday the 13th the excuse for cutting them loose?</p>
<p>Really! What are you waiting for?</p>
<h3 style="text-align: center;"><strong>Downloadable Recording with Full  Money-Back Guarantee!</strong></h3>
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<p>Join world renowned sex and relationship educator Reid Mihalko as he declares Friday the 13th “National End a Bad Relationship Day!”</p>
<p>If you’ve ever had a bad relationship or are currently stuck in one, this hilariously frank and practical, 90-minute teleclass recording will teach you how to end your bad relationships with panaché…</p>
<p>On this downloadable recording, you will learn:</p>
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<li>3 Ways to end a bad relationship powerfully</li>
<li>How to be sure you’re in a bad relationship in the first place</li>
<li>Tactics for building up your courage so you can break it off</li>
<li>Ways to turn your break into a self-esteem builder for you and your soon-to-be-ex!</li>
<li>Practical (and humorous) tips and tricks to lessen post-break up grief, sadness and depression</li>
<li>Advice for transitioning a bad relationship into a good relationship (if that’s in the cards!)</li>
</ul>
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<p>If the closest you&#8217;ve been able to get to making the final break is listening to Paul Simon&#8217;s <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b5--Sje98jI" target="_blank">50 Ways To Leave Your Lover</a>, then get on this call and learn one of the most essential relationships skills for creating the relationship of your dreams: <em>How to get out of the bad one you&#8217;re already in!</em></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><strong> </strong></p>
<h3 style="text-align: center;">SAVE $20  when you Register NOW<br />
Yes!  Get the Download for Just $9.95!</h3>
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<p>Download this valuable podcast now and listen in as Reid answers people&#8217;s real-life questions, too!</p>
<p>If you&#8217;ve got a friend who&#8217;s stuck in a bad relationship, register today and send them the MP3 of the call! If it&#8217;s you who can&#8217;t seem to make a clean break of things, this is your chance&#8230;</p>
<p>Breaking up doesn&#8217;t have to be hard to do. This Friday the 13th, join Reid in <strong><em>National End a Bad Relationship Day</em></strong> and put an end to it!</p>
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<p style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b5--Sje98jI">50 Ways to Leave Your Lover by Paul Simon</a></p>
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		<title>Reid Appearing At Seattle&#039;s First Poly Living Conference This October 22-24th, 2010</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 01 Aug 2010 12:00:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Polyamory, Seattle, and Reid: A weekend of Learning, Networking and Fun! This October 22nd-24th, for the first time, Loving More® will be holding a major polyamory relationship conference in Seattle, Washington! And sex and relationship expert Reid Mihalko of ReidAboutSex.com is going to be there! The Poly Living Conference features a range of informative workshops [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h1><a href="http://reidaboutsex.dreamhosters.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/Dossie-Reid-RobynPolyLiving2010.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-4438" title="Dossie-Reid-RobynPolyLiving2010" src="http://reidaboutsex.dreamhosters.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/Dossie-Reid-RobynPolyLiving2010.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="258" /></a>Polyamory, Seattle, and Reid: A weekend of Learning, Networking and Fun!</h1>
<p>This October 22nd-24th, for the first time, <a href="http://www.lovemore.com/conferences/polyliving/plwindex.php" target="_blank">Loving More</a>® will be holding a major polyamory relationship conference in Seattle, Washington!</p>
<p>And sex and relationship expert Reid Mihalko of ReidAboutSex.com is going to be there!</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://www.lovemore.com/xcart/SeattlePolyLiving.html" target="_blank"><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-4433" title="PolyLivin2010banner" src="http://reidaboutsex.dreamhosters.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/PolyLivin2010banner.gif" alt="" width="886" height="195" /></a></p>
<p>The Poly Living Conference features a range of informative workshops from basic to advanced and from intellectual to experiential, covering topics both fun and serious.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://reidaboutsex.dreamhosters.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/seattle-skyline.png"><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-4432" title="seattle skyline" src="http://reidaboutsex.dreamhosters.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/seattle-skyline.png" alt="" width="261" height="171" /></a><a href="http://www.lovemore.com/xcart/SeattlePolyLiving.html"></a></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://www.lovemore.com/xcart/SeattlePolyLiving.html"><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-324" title="register_with_reid_button" src="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/05/sign_me_up.gif" alt="" width="141" height="28" /></a></p>
<dl id="attachment_3621" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 485px"><dt><a href="http://reidaboutsex.dreamhosters.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/04/IMG_0362.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-3621" title="PolyLivingKeynote" src="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/06/IMG_0362-225x300.jpg" alt="" width="225" height="300" /></a></dt><dd class="wp-caption-text">A candid snapshot of Reid keynoting Philladelphia&#39;s Poly Living Conference in early 2010.</dd></dl>
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		<title>Queer, Poly, And Under 30! A Discussion Panel Moderated By Reid Mihalko</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 30 Jul 2010 03:47:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[What&#8217;s it like to be queer, polyamorous and under 30 in today&#8217;s world? 2011 marks the 50th anniversary of the publishing of Stranger In A Strange Land, one of the first popular, American novel containing a consensual non-monogamous subplot. Forty-one years ago the Stonewall Uprising ignited the gay liberation movement. And 29 years ago, IBM [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h1><em><a href="http://reidaboutsex.dreamhosters.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/QueerPoly30.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-4372" title="QueerPoly30" src="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/QueerPoly30-300x168.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="168" /></a>What&#8217;s it like to be queer, polyamorous and under 30 in today&#8217;s world? </em></h1>
<p style="text-align: left;">2011 marks the 50th anniversary of the publishing of<em> Stranger In A Strange Land</em>, one of the first popular, American novel containing a consensual non-monogamous subplot. Forty-one years ago the Stonewall Uprising ignited the gay liberation movement. And 29 years ago, IBM would release the world&#8217;s first PC&#8230;</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">So what&#8217;s today&#8217;s world like for queer, poly folk born in and after 1981?</p>
<p>Join sex and relationship expert Reid Mihalko of ReidAboutSex.com as he moderates and interviews a discussion panel filled with just that: The queer, the poly, and the under 30!</p>
<blockquote><p><strong>Date: </strong>Thursday, August, 19th, 2010<br />
<strong>Time: </strong>7-9pm Pacific<br />
<strong>Where: </strong>San Francisco&#8217;s <a href="http://www.sexandculture.org/" target="_blank">Center for Sex and Culture</a>, 1519 Mission Street @ 11th and S. Van Ness<br />
San Francisco CA 94103 • <a href="http://maps.google.com/maps?f=q&amp;q=1519+Mission+Street+@+11th+and+S.+Van+Ness,+San+Francisco,+CA+94103&amp;ie=UTF8&amp;om=1" target="_blank">MAP HERE<br />
</a> <strong>Cost: </strong>$10 suggested donation. No one turned away for lack of funds!</p>
<h3 style="text-align: center;"><em>All ages, orientations and relationship self-expressions welcome!</em></h3>
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<h1><em>Our Panelists&#8230;</em></h1>
<p><strong><a rel="attachment wp-att-4454" href="http://reidaboutsex.com/queer-poly-and-under-30-a-discussion-panel-moderated-by-reid-mihalko/jiz_lee-headshot/"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-4454" title="Jiz_Lee headshot" src="http://reidaboutsex.dreamhosters.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/Jiz_Lee-headshot-199x300.jpg" alt="" width="199" height="300" /></a>ABOUT JIZ: </strong>Poly in porn &#8212; with lovers on-screen and off &#8212; Jiz Lee is a celebrated genderqueer porn star who openly identifies as poly and has navigated sexual performances with partners and friends.</p>
<p>Jiz often writes about being poly on their blog at<a href="http://jizlee.com" target="_blank"> jizlee.com</a>, framing the identity within a sex-positive queer culture.</p>
<p>Follow Jiz on <a href="http://twitter.com/jizlee" target="_blank">Twitter</a>.</p>
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<p><strong><a rel="attachment wp-att-4449" href="http://reidaboutsex.com/queer-poly-and-under-30-a-discussion-panel-moderated-by-reid-mihalko/saravibes/"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-4449" title="SaraVibes" src="http://reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/SaraVibes-188x300.jpg" alt="" width="188" height="300" /></a>ABOUT SARA:</strong> Sara Vibes was born and raised in New York City. She is a black, polyamorous, queer, kinky, Bi-dyke and an adopted daughter of a sex therapist who had specialized in sex and disability and was disabled herself.  Sara knew she was poly when she remembered that her Ken doll dated all the Barbies!  Sara is an active member in BDSM, LGBT, and Kink communities in New York City.</p>
<p>She is a founding member of Nina Hartley’s SexWise.me, a sex-positive online community.  She currently works as a curator and contributor of <em>SexWise Magazine</em> and a moderator of the online forums.  Sara has been interviewed by Nerve magazine and will soon be writing for <em>Zora and Alice</em>, an online magazine for young women of color.</p>
<p>Follow Sara on <a href="http://twitter.com/Sara_Vibes" target="_blank">Twitter</a>.</p>
<p><strong><a href="http://reidaboutsex.dreamhosters.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/AllisonMoonHeadshot.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-4381" title="AllisonMoonHeadshot" src="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/AllisonMoonHeadshot-200x300.jpg" alt="" width="200" height="300" /></a>ABOUT ALLIE: </strong> Sapphic savant and former &#8220;mayor&#8221; of <a href="http://CampBeaverton.org" target="_blank">Camp Beaverton for Wayward Girls</a>, Burning Man&#8217;s home for queer women, Allie has been doling out sex tips for years.</p>
<p>Certified by the Ohio Board of Health in STD and HIV prevention, Allie also works for the LA Gay &amp; Lesbian Center, and writes sex advice for a number of publications as well as throwing the occasional Girl-Sex 101 workshop. A dynamic and down-to-Earth speaker, she&#8217;s a pro at helping novices earn their stripes.</p>
<p>Allie is finishing her first novel (one in a series) about a pack of college-age, lesbian werewolves. You can follow Allie&#8217;s literary exploits and musings on neo-gender feminism and furry, paranormal things at <a href="www.talesofthepack.com" target="_blank">www.talesofthepack.com</a>.</p>
<p>Follow Allie on <a href="http://twitter.com/talesofthePack/" target="_blank">Twitter</a>.</p>
<p><strong><a href="http://reidaboutsex.dreamhosters.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/Katie-Diamond-selfport.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-4414" title="Katie Diamond selfport" src="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/Katie-Diamond-selfport-140x300.jpg" alt="" width="140" height="300" /></a>ABOUT KATIE: </strong><a href="http://www.katiediamond.com" target="_blank">Katie &#8220;Megaphone&#8221; Diamond</a>, originator of the queer, feminist sex magazine <a href="http://www.salaciousmagazine.com" target="_blank">SALACIOUS</a>, is a radical queer comic artist and graphic designer living in Portland, Maine. She strongly believes in the direct cross-over of art and politics, and uses this dogma in her every-day art practice. She&#8217;s done many illustrations and cartoons about gender, sexuality, and sex education. She&#8217;s also designed many pamphlets, flyers, and posters for various local organizations.</p>
<p>Throughout Greater Portland, Diamond is organizing and implementing exciting local events. She&#8217;s the organizing force behind the Portland <a href="http://www.drsketchysmaine.com" target="_blank">Dr. Sketchy&#8217;s Anti-Art School</a>, and has been a co-producer of the Portland Femme Show for the past two years.</p>
<p>Diamond graduated from the Maine College of Art with a Bachelor of Fine Arts in Illustration. At MECA, she obtained the nickname of &#8220;Megaphone&#8221; because of her intense involvement in the communities of the school, and Greater Portland. Using illustration as her springboard, Diamond has organized a Voting Education and Registration Drive; put into action a huge Sex Education collaborative project; taught art classes to disadvantaged youth; painted a mural with elementary and high school students at their school; and designed posters and pamphlets for local non-profits.</p>
<p>Stylistically, she has been heavily influenced by cartoonist Alison Bechdel; comic artist Adrian Tomine; cartoonist Roberta Gregory; comic art historian Trina Robbins; and the late printmaker Kathe Kollwitz. Politically, Diamond looks to Kathe Kollwitz, as well as groups such as the Guerilla Girls and subRosa for inspiration as an artist-activist-advocate.</p>
<p>Keep an eye on the bookshelves in August, when Diamond will be published in the up-and-coming &#8220;Gender Outlaws: The Next Generation.&#8221; In a creative collaboration with queer vaudevillian cohort Johnny Blazes, Diamond&#8217;s comics move to the story-telling level to aid in telling Blazes&#8217; story of genderqueeritude and self-discovery.</p>
<p><strong><a rel="attachment wp-att-4448" href="http://reidaboutsex.com/queer-poly-and-under-30-a-discussion-panel-moderated-by-reid-mihalko/ashleyyoung/"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-4448" title="AshleyYoung" src="http://reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/AshleyYoung-300x225.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="225" /></a>ABOUT ASHLEY:</strong> Ashley Young is a teacher, writer and artist living in New York City. She identifies as a Fem Queer Dyke and is new to polymory as well as the BDSM scene. Ashley is a huge advocate for people&#8217;s fully sexually expressed selves and aspires to be a sex educator along with her partner in the near future.  She sums up her poly lifestyle by saying, &#8220;I can&#8217;t tell the difference between a lesbian and a serial killer, so being poly with my partner has kept me level headed, drama free and allowed me to explore my sexuality with both women and men&#8221;</p>
<p>Follow Ashley on <a href="http://twitter.com/indig09" target="_blank">Twitter</a>.</p>
<p><strong><a href="http://reidaboutsex.dreamhosters.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/maymayHeadshot2010.png"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-4400" title="maymayHeadshot2010" src="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/maymayHeadshot2010-300x225.png" alt="" width="300" height="225" /></a>ABOUT MAYMAY:</strong> Meitar Maymay Moscovitz has been an active member of alternative sexuality communities since 2002. <a href="http://kinkontap.com/?author=2" target="_blank">An outspoken, sex-positive feminist blogger</a>, he authors several blogs on sexuality issues including the explicit photography blog <a href="http://malesubmissionart.com/" target="_blank">MaleSubmissionArt.com</a> that explores submissive masculinity and his personal &#8220;sex blog&#8221; at maybemaimed.com. He also co-hosts the weekly KinkOnTap.com Internet talk show discussing the interconnectedness of sexuality through politics, medical science, news and more. In 2009, he co-founded the all-ages educational KinkForAll series of sexuality unconferences in New York City that has since spread to 5 cities including Washington, DC and San Francisco. An open source programmer by day and a sexual freedom activist by night, Maymay&#8217;s passion lies in analyzing the intersection of technology and human sociosexual behavior.c</p>
<p><strong><a rel="attachment wp-att-4446" href="http://reidaboutsex.com/queer-poly-and-under-30-a-discussion-panel-moderated-by-reid-mihalko/lyndoncudlitz/"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-4446" title="Lyndon Cudlitz" src="http://reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/LyndonCudlitz-248x300.jpg" alt="" width="248" height="300" /></a>ABOUT LYDON: </strong>Lyndon Cudlitz is a poly, kinky, feminist, Jewish, disabled, working class, trans-genderqueer-femme-boy from Maine. This fishnet-wearing firefighter has an appetite for&#8230;well, everything. As a social justice activist and educator, performance artist, and sexuality educator, Lyndon brings many perspectives to his work. Check out Lyndon&#8217;s art at <a href="http://IncitingDefiance.ArtFire.com" target="_blank">IncitingDefiance.ArtFire.com</a>.</p>
<p><strong><a rel="attachment wp-att-4472" href="http://reidaboutsex.com/queer-poly-and-under-30-a-discussion-panel-moderated-by-reid-mihalko/mickeymodheadshot/"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-4472" title="MickeyModHeadshot" src="http://reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/MickeyModHeadshot-300x200.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="200" /></a>About Mickey: </strong>Mickey Mod is&#8230;</p>
<p>Queer, Poly, Adult Film Star and emerging filmmaker&#8230; A member of the BDSM community and avid bowler&#8230; An advocate for honest living through open communication, sexually exploration and art.</p>
<p>Follow Mickey Mod on<a href="http://twitter.com/theMickeyMod" target="_blank"> Twitter</a>.</p>
<h1><em> </em><em>Our Moderator&#8230; </em></h1>
<p><strong><a href="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/06/mime-attachment.gif"><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-3" title="Sex and Relationship Expert Reid Mihalko" src="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/06/mime-attachment.gif" alt="" width="286" height="192" /></a>ABOUT   REID: </strong>Reid Mihalko of  www.ReidAboutSex.com helps   adults create more self-esteem,  self-confidence and greater health in   their relationships and sex  lives, no matter what their self-expression   of those happen to be.</p>
<p>From his rated-PG/PG-13 workshops (<a href="http://cuddleparty.com/" target="_blank">Cuddle Party</a>, <a href="http://speed-flirting.com/" target="_blank">Speed-Flirting</a>) to the rated-R (<a href="../workshops/workshops/" target="_self">Iron  Slut Sex   Educator Showdown</a>) to his explicit, NC-17 rated, <a href="../show-n-tell-sex-ed/" target="_self">Show-N-Tell  sex   education</a> workshops (where audiences get to watch, take notes,  and   ask questions), Reid has worked with thousands of individuals from    myriad walks of life, orientations, relationship styles, countries and    religions. Known for his charisma, wit and emphasis on integrity, Reid    travels the country teaching, coaching, consulting and collaborating  on   fulfilling his mission: Create more self-esteem, self-confidence  and   health adults in and out of the bedroom.</p>
<p>Reid has been a featured speaker at dozens of conferences on    relationships and sexuality and is a sought-after presenter and teacher    at colleges and sex positive stores across the country.</p>
<p>Reid has been a writer and producer on a number of films and    television projects about sex and relationships, and appears regularly    in the media. He has also appeared on the Emmy award-winning talk show <em>Montel,    Fox News</em>, VH1’s <em>Scott Baio is 45 and Single,</em> Showtime’s <em>Penn    &amp; Teller’s Bulls**t!</em>, Canada’s <em>The Sex Files </em>and<em> SexTV</em>, and the short-lived <em>Life &amp; Style</em>, on NPR,  Sirius’   <em>Maxim Radio</em> and <em>Cosmo Radio</em>, and in <em>Marie  Claire,  GQ,  Details, People, Newsweek</em> and <em>The National Enquirer</em>,  as   well as media across the globe in thirteen countries and at least   seven  languages.</p>
<p>Follow Reid on <a href="http://twitter.com/ReidAboutSex" target="_blank">Twitter</a>.</p>
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		<title>Post FemmeCon Iron Slut Sex Educator Showdown! Dylan Ryan vs Reid Mihalko, Aug 22nd!</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Watch and Learn as Real Sex Educators Go Head To Head and Reveal Their Best Bedroom Moves&#8230; What better way to learn about practical sex education that you can actually use than to watch two sex educators literally go head to head? Gone to the Femme Collective Conference and not ready to go home yet? [...]]]></description>
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<h1><strong><em><a href="http://reidaboutsex.dreamhosters.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/DylanRyanBannerCropped.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-4330" title="DylanRyanBannerCropped" src="http://reidaboutsex.dreamhosters.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/DylanRyanBannerCropped.jpg" alt="" width="495" height="307" /></a>Watch  and Learn as Real Sex  Educators Go Head To Head and Reveal Their Best  Bedroom Moves&#8230;</em></strong></h1>
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<p style="text-align: left;">What better way to learn about practical sex education that you can   actually use than to watch two sex educators literally go head to head? Gone to the <a href="http://www.femmecollective.com/" target="_blank">Femme Collective Conference </a>and not ready to go home yet?</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">Come to Fruitopia to see Show-N-Tell Sex Education at it&#8217;s best!</p>
<h3 style="text-align: center;"><strong>Tonight&#8217;s   Iron Slut Sex Educators:<br />
Reid Mihalko<br />
VS.<br />
Queer Feminist Porn Star and Sex Educator&#8230;<br />
</strong> <strong>Dylan Ryan!</strong></h3>
<p>Let&#8217;s face it, sex is one of the few things we&#8217;re not allowed to learn    by watching others. You go to a fancy dinner. You don&#8217;t know which   spoon  to use. You watch to see what spoon everyone else uses&#8230; But   don&#8217;t  know what to do how in the bedroom, or want to add a few tricks   to your  repertoire? No such luck!</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><a href="../wp-content/uploads/2010/01/iron-slut-logo.jpg"><img class="aligncenter" title="Iron Slut Sex  Educator Showdown" src="../wp-content/uploads/2010/01/iron-slut-logo-300x170.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="170" /></a></p>
<p style="text-align: left;">Join world renowned sex and relationship educator Reid Mihalko and celebrated, queer porn star Dylan Ryan, and watch as they go hand-to-hand sharing their  personal stories and bed room  secrets!</p>
<blockquote><p><strong>DATE: Sunday, August 22nd, 2010<br />
TIME: 7-9:30pm<br />
LOCATION: Fruitopia event space</strong><br />
1080 23rd Ave. Ste. 110, Oakland CA 94606<br />
<em><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><small><a href="http://maps.google.com/maps?f=d&amp;source=embed&amp;saddr=1001+Broadway,+Oakland,+California+94607&amp;daddr=1080+23rd+Ave.,+Ste.110,+Oakland,+CA+94606&amp;hl=en&amp;geocode=Fd7QQAIdf0O2-CmfDOK3toCPgDEwdxCKJnM5XA%3BFVV9QAIdQtG2-CmFQJoA5oaPgDHRjSFuBEt5cQ&amp;mra=ls&amp;dirflg=r&amp;ttype=dep&amp;date=07%2F27%2F10&amp;time=1:30am&amp;noexp=0&amp;noal=0&amp;sort=&amp;sll=37.78876,-122.25565&amp;sspn=0.052229,0.09656&amp;ie=UTF8&amp;start=0&amp;ll=37.791541,-122.254915&amp;spn=0.032557,0.054932&amp;z=14">View Map from FemmeCon To Fruitopia</a></small></span></em><br />
<strong><span style="color: #ff0000;">SPECIAL PACK-EM IN PRICE:</span> $20 day-of at the door; $15 advanced, on-line tickets, $12.50 EACH for Twosomes, and $10 EACH for Threesomes and Moresomes! (No one turned away for lack of funds)<br />
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<div>In this entertaining, informational, guaranteed-to-be-funny and   friendly &#8220;competitive&#8221; throwdown, we&#8217;ll let the audience watch, take   notes, ask questions, and, when the dust finally settles, meet these   extraordinary educators and mingle with like-minded people.</div>
<p><em> </em><strong>Show up to this fun-filled, 2-and-a half hour workshop and   learn:</strong></p>
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<li>What sex educators do under the covers and how</li>
<li>Their best tips and tricks (and probably not the kind you read about   in Cosmo)</li>
<li>Their favorite, black belt sexy-sexy time moves!</li>
<li>And much, much more&#8230;</li>
</ul>
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<p>We can&#8217;t  promise you badly dubbed voice-overs or high-jinx dramma  like  television&#8217;s Iron Chef, but we can promise you some down-to-earth,   applicable sex and relationship education. The only theme ingredient  is  education!</p>
<h2 style="text-align: center;">Iron   Slut is a wealth of sex geekery and informative experience that you   don&#8217;t want to miss.</h2>
<div>If you were a big fan of &#8220;I&#8217;ll show you mine, if you show me yours&#8221;   as a kid, or you always wished there was a reality show called   &#8220;Shagging With the Stars,&#8221; then this workshop might be for you. Tell   your friends. Bring a date. Bring a note book, too, while you&#8217;re at it!</div>
<p style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #800000;"><strong>Because  of Sex Educator Showdown&#8217;s sometimes explicit and frank nature and live  demonstrations,  no one under 18 admitted. Please try to arrive on time.  And, as with all  of Reid&#8217;s workshops, you can always leave early.</strong></span></p>
<p><strong><a href="http://reidaboutsex.dreamhosters.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/DylanRyanLaughing.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-4336" title="DylanRyanLaughing" src="http://reidaboutsex.dreamhosters.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/DylanRyanLaughing.jpg" alt="" width="223" height="333" /></a>Dylan Ryan: </strong>Dylan Ryan of <a href="http://www.dylanryanx.com/" target="_blank">DylanRyanX.com</a> is a porn star and grad student currently living in Toronto, Canada.</p>
<p>A proud member of the queer porn revolution, Dylan is finishing up her Masters in Social Work where she wrote her thesis as an autoethnographic response to feminist critiques of porn. An avid supporter of sex workers, Dylan believes that sex work can be a safe, viable and empowering option for femmes.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/06/reidovershoulder.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-24" title="Reid Mihalko (over shoulder shot)" src="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/06/reidovershoulder-278x300.jpg" alt="" width="278" height="300" /></a><strong>Reid Mihalko: </strong>Reid Mihalko of  www.ReidAboutSex.com helps  adults create more self-esteem,  self-confidence and greater health in  their relationships and sex  lives, no matter what their self-expression  of those happen to be.</p>
<p>From his rated-PG/PG-13 workshops (<a href="http://cuddleparty.com/" target="_blank">Cuddle Party</a>, <a href="http://speed-flirting.com/" target="_blank">Speed-Flirting</a>) to the rated-R (<a href="../workshops/workshops/" target="_self">Iron  Slut Sex  Educator Showdown</a>) to his explicit, NC-17 rated, <a href="../show-n-tell-sex-ed/" target="_self">Show-N-Tell  sex  education</a> workshops (where audiences get to watch, take notes,  and  ask questions), Reid has worked with thousands of individuals from   myriad walks of life, orientations, relationship styles, countries and   religions. Known for his charisma, wit and emphasis on integrity, Reid   travels the country teaching, coaching, consulting and collaborating on   fulfilling his mission: Create more self-esteem, self-confidence and   health adults in and out of the bedroom.</p>
<p>Reid has been a featured speaker at dozens of conferences on   relationships and sexuality and is a sought-after presenter and teacher   at colleges and sex positive stores across the country.</p>
<p>Reid has been a writer and producer on a number of films and   television projects about sex and relationships, and appears regularly   in the media. He has also appeared on the Emmy award-winning talk show <em>Montel,   Fox News</em>, VH1’s <em>Scott Baio is 45 and Single,</em> Showtime’s <em>Penn   &amp; Teller’s Bulls**t!</em>, Canada’s <em>The Sex Files </em>and<em> SexTV</em>, and the short-lived <em>Life &amp; Style</em>, on NPR,  Sirius’  <em>Maxim Radio</em> and <em>Cosmo Radio</em>, and in <em>Marie  Claire, GQ,  Details, People, Newsweek</em> and <em>The National Enquirer</em>,  as  well as media across the globe in thirteen countries and at least  seven  languages.</p>
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		<title>Boundaries and Agreements 101: From Bottom Lines To Bliss In Love and Romance (Seattle)</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Let Reid Mihalko help you figure out &#8220;how to figure out&#8221; (and how to communicate) what you need to make your relationships work best! No matter whether your single, dating, married, monogamous or polyamorous, if you don&#8217;t know what works for you and how to communicate it, you&#8217;re in for trouble&#8230;. If you haven&#8217;t a [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h1><em><a href="http://reidaboutsex.dreamhosters.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/line_in_the_sand.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-4295" title="line_in_the_sand" src="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/line_in_the_sand-300x204.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="204" /></a>Let Reid Mihalko help you figure out &#8220;how to figure out&#8221; (and how to communicate) what you need to make your relationships work best!</em></h1>
<p>No matter whether your single, dating, married, monogamous or polyamorous, if you don&#8217;t know what works for you and how to communicate it, you&#8217;re in for trouble&#8230;.</p>
<p>If you haven&#8217;t a clue what your boundaries are, if you &#8220;kinda know &#8216;em&#8221; but could use some more clarity, or if you know them but don&#8217;t know how to put them into words, <span style="text-decoration: underline;">this 2-hours is for you</span>!</p>
<p>Join sex and relationship expert Reid Mihalko of ReidAboutSex.com for a humorous and pragmatic, PG-13 rated, 2-hours of relationship negotiation made simple. Learn black belt relationship skills in how to figure out what your needs are in love and romance, the needs of your partners, and how to put it all into words!</p>
<blockquote><p><strong>Date: </strong>Friday,  13th, 2010<br />
<strong>Time: </strong>7-9pm<br />
<strong>Location:<a href="http://www.smsconline.com" target="_blank"> </a><a href="http://www.sharmacenter.org/main/" target="_blank">The Sharma Center</a></strong><br />
<strong>Cost:</strong> $15 pre-register, $20 at the door<br />
<span style="color: #ff0000;">Due to the   center&#8217;s limited space (40 people tops!), the address is  only given out   after you RSVP • Please RSVP for all Sharma Center  Events at  rsvp@sharmacenter.org • Please call on the day of the event   206-898-5876 for availability if you haven&#8217;t RSVP&#8217;d.</span></p></blockquote>
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<p><strong><a href="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/06/reidovershoulder.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-24" title="Reid Mihalko (over shoulder shot)" src="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/06/reidovershoulder-278x300.jpg" alt="" width="278" height="300" /></a>ABOUT  REID: </strong>Reid Mihalko of www.ReidAboutSex.com helps people create more  self-esteem and greater health in their relationship and sex lives, no  matter what their self-expression of those happen to be.</p>
<p>Reid has worked with thousands of individuals from myriad walks of  life, orientations, relationship styles, countries and religions. Known  for his charisma, wit and emphasis on integrity, Reid travels the  country teaching, coaching, consulting and collaborating. He has been a  writer and producer on a number of films and television projects about  sex and relationships, and appears regularly in the media.</p>
<p>Reid has been a featured speaker at dozens of conferences on  relationships and sexuality. He has also appeared on the Emmy  award-winning talk show Montel, Fox News, VH1’s Scott Baio is 45 and  Single, Showtime’s Penn &amp; Teller’s Bulls**t!, Canada’s The Sex Files  and SexTV, and the short-lived Life &amp; Style, on NPR, Sirius’ Maxim  Radio and Cosmo Radio, and in Marie Claire, GQ, Details, People,  Newsweek and The National Enquirer, as well as media across the globe in  thirteen countries and at least seven languages.</p>
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		<title>Energetic Sex Workshop Electrifies Seattle, Aug 14-15th 2010</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 20 Jul 2010 00:22:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[An Expansive and Experiential Weekend Exploring Kundalini, the &#8220;Tantric Twitchies&#8221; and Vibrational Luvin&#8217; with Live Demonstrations! Lots of people are curious about Tantra and ecstatic sex, but don’t find the New Age approach appealing. If you&#8217;ve got a low tolerance for words like “chakras’ and “yoni,” you can still discover how to experience and play [...]]]></description>
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<dt><em> </em> <strong><em><strong><em><a href="http://reidaboutsex.dreamhosters.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/Electric-Sex-Yab-Yum-couple.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-4356" title="Electric Sex Yab Yum couple" src="http://reidaboutsex.dreamhosters.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/Electric-Sex-Yab-Yum-couple.jpg" alt="" width="200" height="300" /></a>An Expansive and Experiential  Weekend Exploring Kundalini,  the &#8220;Tantric Twitchies&#8221; and Vibrational  Luvin&#8217; with Live  Demonstrations!</em></strong></em></strong></dt>
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<p>Lots of people are curious about Tantra and ecstatic sex, but don’t find the <em>New Age</em> approach appealing. If you&#8217;ve got a low tolerance for words like “chakras’ and “yoni,” you can still discover how to experience and play with sexual energy!</p>
<p>Sex and relationship expert (with a sense of humor) Reid Mihalko of ReidAboutSex.com will not only explain how sexual energy works but <span style="text-decoration: underline;">show you</span>!</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><a href="../wp-content/uploads/2010/01/energeticsexoakland.jpg"><img class="aligncenter" title="Hands-On Energetic  Sex with Reid Mihalko " src="../wp-content/uploads/2010/01/energeticsexoakland-300x225.jpg" alt="Reid demonstrates the what he calls &quot;Tantric Twitchies&quot;    (Kryias) for the audience with the generous help of Amber Seitz at a    workshop in Oakland" width="300" height="225" /></a></p>
<h4 style="text-align: center;"><em>2-Days devoted to developing your awareness and mastery of sexual energy&#8230; </em></h4>
<h4 style="text-align: center;"><em><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Come to 1 or both days</span>!<br />
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<p>Cultivate your awareness of sexual energy and give yourself the tools for engaging and expanding your energetic experiences (solo or with a partner)&#8230; And witness <span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>live demonstrations</strong></span> of what &#8220;Energetic Sex&#8221; can look like! Plus, tips for unlocking and activating pressure points on your partner’s body to enhance sexual energy, and lots, lots more&#8230; (And of course, if you do like the “woo,” Reid has plenty to offer you, too, in this unique 1-day or 2-day experience!)</p>
<h3 style="text-align: center;"><strong><em>Day-1  will be Rated-R. Day-2 will be more explicit. Read below&#8230; </em></strong></h3>
<p><strong><em>This  2-day workshop Intensive is designed for curious  beginners,  intermediate seekers and advanced practitioners. </em></strong></p>
<p><strong><em> </em></strong>Perhaps you’ve heard of Tantra and remember reading  somewhere (last month’s <em>Cosmo</em>?) something about “expanded  orgasms,” but think that kind of stuff is only for people like Sting,  yoga instructors or Jedi.</p>
<p>Maybe you or a lover has had ecstatic experiences in the bedroom  involving post-orgasmic spasms that seem to have a mind of their own,  but these spasms come and go infrequently enough that you can&#8217;t tell if  they&#8217;re real or not.</p>
<p>Maybe you or your lover get these spasms all the time and you&#8217;ve  since named them &#8220;the twitchys,&#8221; and when you told your friend the  Kundalini yoga instructor about &#8216;em, they lit up and told you those  spasms have a Sandskrit name called <a title="What the heck is a  Kriya?!?" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kriya" target="_blank">Kriyas</a> (which you promptly forgot &#8217;cause you don&#8217;t speak Sandskrit).</p>
<p>Whatever your level of experience with sex that seems to be &#8220;more  than just sex,&#8221; join world renowned sex and relationship educator Reid  Mihalko for 2-days of humorous and informative instruction, sex  education, and live demonstrations on this esoteric (and yet more common  than you think) realm of sex: Energetic Sex.</p>
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<dl id="attachment_2392" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 485px"><dt><a href="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/energetic-sex-series.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-2392" title="hands-on-energetic-sex-series-with-reid-mihalko" src="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/energetic-sex-series-300x72.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="72" /></a></dt><dd class="wp-caption-text">Reid demonstrates an energetic orgasm and what he calls &quot;Tantric Twitchies&quot; (Kriyas) for the audience with the generous help of Amber Seitz at a workshop in Oakland</dd></dl>
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<h3 style="text-align: center;"><strong><em>Day-1 will  be Rated-R with a Show-N-Tell, Watch and Ask  Questions format. All  Day-1  demonstrations will be fully clothed.  Day-2 is Rated NC-17, with  more explicit demonstrations. Participants  on Day-2 will be practicing  fully-clothed exercises. No one under 18  admitted to either day, and no  participant nudity.</em></strong></h3>
<h2 style="text-align: center;"><em> </em><em>Register  ASAP.</em></h2>
<h3 style="text-align: center;"><em>Day-2  Limited to <span style="text-decoration: underline;">ONLY 20 Adults</span>, with Day-1 attendance a  pre-requisite. </em></h3>
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<p style="text-align: left;"><strong>Date: </strong>Saturday  and Sunday, 14th adn 15th, 2010<br />
<strong>Time: </strong>1-5pm both days<br />
<strong>Location:<a href="http://www.smsconline.com" target="_blank"> </a><a href="http://www.sharmacenter.org/main/" target="_blank">The Sharma Center</a></strong><br />
406 Dexter Street<br />
Seattle WA 98109<br />
<strong>Cost:</strong> Day-1 only: $97<br />
Both Days: $197<br />
Day-2: Attendance at Day-1 is a prerequisite to participate in Day-2.</p>
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<dt style="text-align: center;"><em><strong>Day-1  only</strong></em></dt>
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<dt style="text-align: center;"><em><strong>Both  Day-1 and Day-2</strong></em></dt>
<h2><em><strong>Day-1: You&#8217;ll watch while Reid demonstrates. </strong></em></h2>
<h2><em><strong>You will be introduced to:</strong></em></h2>
<ul>
<li>Reid&#8217;s particular views on how sexual energy &#8220;behaves&#8221; and how it  “works,” as well as ways you can begin accessing more energetic  awareness in the bedroom</li>
<li>What Kriyas (&#8220;the twitchys&#8221;) can look like and what to do when you  or a lover experiences them</li>
<li>Three possible approaches for engaging sexual energy and expanding  it when exploring energetic sex with a partner or solo with yourself</li>
<li>What playing a singing saw has to do with energetic sex and  expanding your lovemaking</li>
<li>Simple breathing and &#8220;presence&#8221; techniques to build up energetic  awareness</li>
<li>How to use &#8220;pressure play&#8221; and where so you can help unlock and  activate points on your lover&#8217;s body to augment energetic experiences  during love making</li>
<li>A few advance tips and tricks that will make you smile and your  partner moan regardless of whether &#8220;the twitchys&#8221; happen or not!</li>
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<h2><em><strong>Day-2: Sunday limited to <span style="text-decoration: underline;">20 participants only</span>! </strong></em></h2>
<p><em><strong>The group will watch explicit demonstrations from Reid and his  models to review and enhance techniques covered on Day-1. Reid will  introduce <span style="text-decoration: underline;">fully-clothed, voluntary</span> exercises for class  participants, </strong></em><em><strong>along with personal and group coaching and  guidance,</strong></em><em><strong> to begin exploring, embodying and anchoring the  content. </strong></em></p>
<h2><em><strong>Some of Day-2&#8242;s content:</strong></em></h2>
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<li>How nudity changes sexual energy</li>
<li>Techniques to enhance energetic lovemaking on female and male  gendered bodies that are naked as opposed to clothed</li>
<li>Techniques to keep erotic energy &#8220;in check&#8221; when and if you happen  to be easily excitable and your partner becomes <span style="text-decoration: underline;">VERY</span> excited&#8230;</li>
<li>Fully-clothed exercises you and a partner can use to practice  energetic sex (and time during Day-2 to try them out, if you&#8217;re a yes!)</li>
<li>A variety of sexual positions that can help unlock and  activate and  energize you and your lover&#8217;s bodies  during love making</li>
<li>Live demonstrations of advance tips and tricks that will make you  smile and your  partner moan regardless of whether &#8220;the twitchys&#8221; happen  or not!</li>
<li>How to prevent energetic &#8220;burn out&#8221; or -as Reid likes to say- &#8220;How  not  to fry you and your partners&#8217; brains!&#8221; <img src='http://reidaboutsex.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </li>
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<h3 style="text-align: center;"><em><strong>Come  see for yourself just</strong><strong> <span style="text-decoration: underline;">how energetic</span> sex can be! And begin  embodying it, too!</strong></em></h3>
<p><em><strong> </strong></em>Whether you&#8217;d like to believe that energetic sex is  possible but have never felt it, have a lover that experiences &#8220;the  twitchys,&#8221; or it&#8217;s YOU who&#8217;s the one flopping around in bed wanting to  learn how to harness these sexual energies, Reid&#8217;s <strong>Hands-On  Energetic Sex Intensive</strong> is for you.</p>
<p>Please remember that this workshop spans <strong>Reid&#8217;s R-Rated </strong>and<strong> Rated NC-17</strong> <a href="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/workshops/workshops/" target="_self">workshop offerings</a>, which means no one under 18 will  be admitted. Why the age cutoff? Because Day-2 of this workshop includes  explicit (and, at times, quite humorous) sexual content and adult sex  education. Day-1 is just as funny and frank, but it will be more  R-rated. If you are not okay with frank demonstrations, sexual language,  and nudity, then please refrain from attending Day-2 of this workshop  and consider attending only Day-1 or one of Reid&#8217;s other Rated-R or  Rated-PG13 workshops. Thanks!</p>
<h3 style="text-align: center;">This is  not a partner workshop. You may attend solo, but we encourage you to  bring your friends, so spread the word!</h3>
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<dt style="text-align: center;"><em><strong>Both  Day-1 and Day-2</strong></em></dt>
<dt style="text-align: center;"><em><strong><br />
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<p><em><strong> </strong></em><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Workshop participants will not have to participate</span>.  Day-1 of this workshop is designed for participants to watch, take  notes, ask questions, and to learn. Day-2 is designed with voluntary,  fully-clothed exercises for participants to begin exploring, embodying  and anchoring the information, techniques and teachings. <span style="text-decoration: underline;">No  participants will be getting naked during these two days</span>.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><strong>Not  sure what Energetic Sex is? Download Reid&#8217;s FREE PODCAST BELOW&#8230;</strong></p>
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		<title>Tallulah Sulis Soaks Reid Mihalko, Aug 5th, in Oakland&#039;s Hottest Iron Slut Sex Educator Showdown!</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 14 Jul 2010 21:26:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Watch and Learn as Real Sex Educators Go Head To Head and Reveal Their Best Bedroom Moves&#8230; What better way to learn about practical sex education that you can actually use than to watch two sex educators literally go head to head? Let&#8217;s face it, sex is one of the few things we&#8217;re not allowed [...]]]></description>
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<h1><strong><em><a href="http://reidaboutsex.dreamhosters.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/Tallula-Sulis-Headshot.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-4216" title="Tallula  Sulis Headshot" src="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/Tallula-Sulis-Headshot-232x300.jpg" alt="" width="232" height="300" /></a>Watch  and Learn as Real Sex  Educators Go Head To Head and Reveal Their Best  Bedroom Moves&#8230;</em></strong></h1>
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<p style="text-align: left;">What better way to learn about practical sex education that you can   actually use than to watch two sex educators literally go head to head?</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">Let&#8217;s face it, sex is one of the few things we&#8217;re not allowed to learn   by watching others. You go to a fancy dinner. You don&#8217;t know which  spoon  to use. You watch to see what spoon everyone else uses&#8230; But  don&#8217;t  know what to do how in the bedroom, or want to add a few tricks  to your  repertoire? No such luck!</p>
<div style="text-align: left;"><em>Until now&#8230;</em></div>
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<h2 style="text-align: center;"><strong>Tonight&#8217;s   Iron Slut Sex Educators:<br />
Reid Mihalko<br />
VS.<br />
Certified Somatic Sexologist,<br />
Sex Ed Film Producer,<br />
and &#8220;Pro-Squirter&#8221;&#8230;<br />
Tallulah Sulis!</strong></h2>
<p style="text-align: center;"><a href="../wp-content/uploads/2010/01/iron-slut-logo.jpg"><img class="aligncenter" title="Iron Slut Sex  Educator Showdown" src="../wp-content/uploads/2010/01/iron-slut-logo-300x170.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="170" /></a></p>
<p style="text-align: left;">Join world renowned sex and relationship educator Reid Mihalko and celebrate sex ed film producer and &#8220;<a href="http://www.CircleSquirtShop.Com" target="_blank">pro-squirter</a>,&#8221; Tallulah Sulis, and watch as they go hand-to-hand sharing their  personal stories and bed room  secrets!</p>
<blockquote><p><strong>DATE: Thursday, August 5th, 2010<br />
TIME: 7-9:30pm<br />
LOCATION: Fruitopia event space</strong><br />
1080 23rd Ave. Ste. 110, Oakland CA 94606<br />
<strong>COST: $30 day-of at the door; $25 advanced, on-line tickets and $20 for Threesomes and Moresomes!</strong></p></blockquote>
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<div>In this entertaining, informational, guaranteed-to-be-funny and   friendly &#8220;competitive&#8221; throwdown, we&#8217;ll let the audience watch, take   notes, ask questions, and, when the dust finally settles, meet these   extraordinary educators and mingle with like-minded people.</div>
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<h4 style="text-align: center;"><em>Show up to this Rated-R and NC-17 workshop designed to empower adults   around their sex lives and get folks smiling!</em></h4>
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<p><em> </em><strong>Show up to this fun-filled, 2-and-a half hour workshop and   learn:</strong></p>
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<li>What sex educators do under the covers and how</li>
<li>Their best tips and tricks (and probably not the kind you read about   in Cosmo)</li>
<li>Their favorite, black belt sexy-sexy time moves!</li>
<li>And much, much more&#8230;</li>
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<p>We can&#8217;t  promise you badly dubbed voice-overs or high-jinx dramma  like  television&#8217;s Iron Chef, but we can promise you some down-to-earth,   applicable sex and relationship education. The only theme ingredient  is  education!</p>
<h2 style="text-align: center;">Iron   Slut is a wealth of sex geekery and informative experience that you   don&#8217;t want to miss.</h2>
<div style="text-align: left;">If you were a big fan of &#8220;I&#8217;ll show you mine, if you show me yours&#8221;   as a kid, or you always wished there was a reality show called   &#8220;Shagging With the Stars,&#8221; then this workshop might be for you. Tell   your friends. Bring a date. Bring a note book, too, while you&#8217;re at it!</div>
<h4 style="text-align: center;"><strong>Because  of Sex Educator Showdown&#8217;s sometimes explicit and frank nature and live  demonstrations,  no one under 18 admitted. Please try to arrive on time.  And, as with all  of Reid&#8217;s workshops, you can always leave early.</strong></h4>
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<p><em><strong><a href="http://reidaboutsex.dreamhosters.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/Tallula-Sulis-Headshot.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-4216" title="Tallula  Sulis Headshot" src="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/Tallula-Sulis-Headshot-232x300.jpg" alt="" width="232" height="300" /></a></strong></em><strong>ABOUT TALLULAH: </strong>Tallulah Sulis is a certified Somatic Sexologist, sex educator and director and producer of the film, <em>Divine Nectar: A Guide to Female Ejaculation</em>.</p>
<p>Performance artist, sex and relationship counselor and coach, Tallulah teaches workshops around the country for over 6 years.  She has information products about female ejaculation and the G-Spot available online for men and women.</p>
<p>You can visit Tallulah at:<br />
<a href="http://www.CircleSquirtShop.Com" target="_blank">www.CircleSquirtShop.Com</a><br />
<a href="HTTP://www.tallulahsulis.com" target="_blank">www.TallulahSulis.com</a><br />
<a href="http://www.SquirtYourHeartOut.com " target="_blank"><br />
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<p><strong><a href="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/06/reidovershoulder.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-24" title="Reid Mihalko (over shoulder shot)" src="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/06/reidovershoulder-278x300.jpg" alt="" width="278" height="300" /></a>Reid Mihalko: </strong>Reid Mihalko of  www.ReidAboutSex.com helps  adults create more self-esteem,  self-confidence and greater health in  their relationships and sex  lives, no matter what their self-expression  of those happen to be.</p>
<p>From his rated-PG/PG-13 workshops (<a href="http://cuddleparty.com/" target="_blank">Cuddle Party</a>, <a href="http://speed-flirting.com/" target="_blank">Speed-Flirting</a>) to the rated-R (<a href="../workshops/workshops/" target="_self">Iron  Slut Sex  Educator Showdown</a>) to his explicit, NC-17 rated, <a href="../show-n-tell-sex-ed/" target="_self">Show-N-Tell  sex  education</a> workshops (where audiences get to watch, take notes,  and  ask questions), Reid has worked with thousands of individuals from   myriad walks of life, orientations, relationship styles, countries and   religions. Known for his charisma, wit and emphasis on integrity, Reid   travels the country teaching, coaching, consulting and collaborating on   fulfilling his mission: Create more self-esteem, self-confidence and   health adults in and out of the bedroom.</p>
<p>Reid has been a featured speaker at dozens of conferences on   relationships and sexuality and is a sought-after presenter and teacher   at colleges and sex positive stores across the country.</p>
<p>Reid has been a writer and producer on a number of films and   television projects about sex and relationships, and appears regularly   in the media. He has also appeared on the Emmy award-winning talk show <em>Montel,   Fox News</em>, VH1’s <em>Scott Baio is 45 and Single,</em> Showtime’s <em>Penn   &amp; Teller’s Bulls**t!</em>, Canada’s <em>The Sex Files </em>and<em> SexTV</em>, and the short-lived <em>Life &amp; Style</em>, on NPR,  Sirius’  <em>Maxim Radio</em> and <em>Cosmo Radio</em>, and in <em>Marie  Claire, GQ,  Details, People, Newsweek</em> and <em>The National Enquirer</em>,  as  well as media across the globe in thirteen countries and at least  seven  languages.</p>
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		<title>Polyamory In The 21st Century! An Intimate Interview with Deborah Taj Anapol</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 14 Jul 2010 20:02:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[From Before Anyone Called It &#8220;Polyamory,&#8221; To Now, And Into Tomorrow&#8230; Polyamory, literally meaning &#8220;many loves,&#8221; is the practice of simultaneous, close, emotional, and possibly sexual, relationships with two or more other individuals with the knowledge and consent of all partners concerned. The growing practice of polyamory in the U.S. indicates a significant shift in [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h1 style="text-align: left;"><em><a href="http://reidaboutsex.dreamhosters.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/Poly21stCenturyTak.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-4185" title="Poly21stCenturyTajAnapolTalk" src="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/Poly21stCenturyTak-300x205.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="205" /></a>From Before Anyone Called It &#8220;Polyamory,&#8221; To Now, And Into Tomorrow&#8230;<br />
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<p style="text-align: left;">Polyamory, literally meaning &#8220;many loves,&#8221; is the practice of simultaneous, close, emotional, and possibly sexual, relationships with two or more other individuals with the knowledge and consent of all partners concerned. The growing practice of polyamory in the U.S. indicates a significant shift in the way marriage and intimate relationships have evolved over the last few decades.</p>
<h3 style="text-align: center;">Join Reid Mihalko for an intimate conversation</h3>
<h3 style="text-align: center;">with Dr.  Deborah Taj  Anapol, one of</h3>
<h3 style="text-align: center;">the first authors to write about</h3>
<h3 style="text-align: center;">polyamory, to see where her current book</h3>
<h3 style="text-align: center;">on poly has ended her up!</h3>
<p style="text-align: left;">Join Reid Mihalko for an intimate conversation with Dr. Deborah Taj Anapol, author of one of the first books on poly (<a href="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/free-reid-stuff/reid-recommended-stuff/" target="_blank"><em>Love Without Limits</em></a>, 1992), about her latest book, <a href="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/free-reid-stuff/reid-recommended-stuff/" target="_blank"><em>Polyamory In The 21st Century</em></a>,  and where she see&#8217;s consensual non-monogamy, as well as monogamous relationships, heading into the future.</p>
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<p style="text-align: left;">Whether you&#8217;re poly, poly-curious, or just a relationship geek, join Reid at San Fran&#8217;s Center for Sex and Culture for what is going to be an amazing dialogue and interview!</p>
<p style="padding-left: 90px; text-align: left;"><strong>Date: Friday, July 16, 2010<br />
Time: 7:30-9:30pm Pacific (Doors open at 7pm.)<br />
Where: San Francisco&#8217;s <a href="http://sexandculture.org/" target="_blank">Center for Sex and Culture</a></strong><br />
<strong>1519 Mission Street @ 11th and S. Van Ness, SF, CA 94103<br />
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<p style="text-align: left;">Eavesdrop in on this intimate, one-on-one conversation. Participate in the Q&amp;A period, and ask Taj your questions. Meet Taj and Reid, and mingle with like-minded, sex-positive men and women. Come experience one of the great pioneers and herstorians of polyamory!</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><strong>$10 suggested donation.<br />
No one turned away for lack of funds. </strong></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #ff0000;"><strong>This event will be filmed and begins promptly at 7:30pm.<br />
Please arrive early to get a seat. This event will fill up!</strong></span></p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><strong><a href="http://lovewithoutlimits.com"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-385" title="Deborah Taj Anapol" src="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/05/taj_in_white-300x225.jpg" alt="Deborah Taj Anapol" width="300" height="225" /></a>ABOUT TAJ:</strong> Deborah Taj Anapol, Ph.D., (<a href="http://www.lovewithoutlimits.com/" target="_blank">www.LoveWithoutLimits.com</a>) attended Barnard College, graduated Phi Beta Kappa from the University of California at Berkeley in 1975 and received her Ph.D. in Clinical Psychology from the University of Washington in 1981. She is a leading edge healer, writer, and teacher. In 1984, she founded the Sacred Space Institute (formerly IntiNet Resource Center and The Abundant Love Institute), a national organization dedicated to reintegrating sexuality into spirituality and health care and expanding the boundaries of the family.</p>
<p class="mainLeftIndent" style="text-align: left;">She is the author of several books. Her latests are <em><a href="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/free-reid-stuff/reid-recommended-stuff/" target="_self">Polyamory In The 21st Century</a> (2010),</em> and <em><a href="http://astore.amazon.com/wwwreidmihalk-20" target="_blank">The Seven Natural Laws of Love</a></em> (2005) and she is currently at work on a book about harmonizing feminine and masculine energies. Dr. Anapol also authored <em><a href="http://astore.amazon.com/wwwreidmihalk-20" target="_blank">Polyamory: The New Love Without Limit</a></em><a href="http://astore.amazon.com/wwwreidmihalk-20" target="_blank">s</a> (1997), and co-founded <em>Loving More Magazine </em> as well as produced the video, <em>Pelvic Heart Integration</em>.</p>
<p class="mainLeftIndent" style="text-align: left;">Dr. Anapol has worked with groups, partners, and individuals who are exploring conscious relationships and sexual healing for over two decades, leads workshops nationwide, and is an inspiring and illuminating speaker. She is available for individual coaching, phone counseling, seminars, and public speaking engagements.</p>
<p class="mainLeftIndent" style="text-align: left;">Deborah can be reached at 415.507.1739 or visit her at <a href="http://www.LoveWithoutLimits.com" target="_blank">www.LoveWithoutLimits.com</a></p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><strong><a href="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/06/mime-attachment.gif"><img class="size-full wp-image-3 alignnone" title="Sex and Relationship Expert Reid Mihalko" src="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/06/mime-attachment.gif" alt="Sex and Relationship Expert Reid Mihalko" width="286" height="192" /></a>ABOUT REID: </strong>Reid Mihalko of www.ReidAboutSex.com helps people create more self-esteem and greater health in their relationship and sex lives, no matter what their self-expression of those happen to be.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">Reid has worked with thousands of individuals from myriad walks of life, orientations, relationship styles, countries and religions. Known for his charisma, wit and emphasis on integrity, Reid travels the country teaching, coaching, consulting and collaborating. He has been a writer and producer on a number of films and television projects about sex and relationships, and appears regularly in the media.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">Reid has been a featured speaker at dozens of conferences on relationships and sexuality. He has also appeared on the Emmy award-winning talk show Montel, Fox News, VH1’s Scott Baio is 45 and Single, Showtime’s Penn &amp; Teller’s Bulls**t!, Canada’s The Sex Files and SexTV, and the short-lived Life &amp; Style, on NPR, Sirius’ Maxim Radio and Cosmo Radio, and in Marie Claire, GQ, Details, People, Newsweek and The National Enquirer, as well as media across the globe in thirteen countries and at least seven languages.</p>
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