Sex Geekery

I Have An Idea! Initiating Intimacy

Cathy: So we’re back. Reid is going to explain, “I have an idea.” Reid: We’re back from what? What if this is this person’s first video they’re ever watching? They don’t really know where we were. Cathy: That’s true. Reid: You should probably tell them. Cathy: We were just discussing … Reid: Who are you? Cathy: I’m Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com. […]

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How Can You Tell Who To Approach For A Three-Some?

Cathy: We had someone ask us- you’re such a goof-ball. We had someone ask us, “Who do I or who to approach for a threesome and how to talk to them about it?” I know someone who runs a class on that. I thought we’d ask you. Reid: Yeah, just approach me. Next question. Cathy: How do you […]

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Talking About Masturbation

  Cathy: Do you ever masturbate? Reid: No! Never. Cathy: You’re going to scare them. Reid: What are we talking about? Cathy: Masturbation. Reid: Oh, no! No, no! Cathy: A lot of us are brought … Reid: I’m Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: I’m Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: What are we talking about today? Cathy: Masturbation. In our society, a lot of people were taught that […]

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Approaching Your Partner About Anal Play

  Cathy: Hi.  Have you ever wondered how to approach your partner about anal play? Reid: Whoa.  Man, easy.  Take it easy there. Cathy: Did you know there were 8,000 nerve endings in the anus? Reid: Whoa.  No wonder.  There’s a cat walking around here. Cathy: Do you want to restart it? Reid: No.  That’s […]

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Doing Things In Bed That You Don’t Want to Do

  Cathy: We had someone write in to us and say that their partner is wanting them to try things in bed that they don’t really know they want to try. They’re not really sure and … Reid: Like eating cookies in bed? Cathy: Yeah. I’m sure that was it. Reid: That’s crummy. Cathy: Oh my god. Reid: […]

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Get Slutty with Dossie Easton in Dallas, Sept 29th!

Don’t Mess With Dossie! If you’d like to meet one of America’s most outspoken, shameless and delightful sex positive activists, join us for an intimate evening on Sunday, September 29th, 2013, at the Bridge Bistro in Dallas for an exclusive night with Dossie Easton and friends, MC’ed by moi and organized by The Intimacy Dojo!! […]

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Where Is Your Sweet Spot?

I love it when I’m in my sweet spot – in relationships, in work, in play, with my friends and family. When I’m in my sweet spot, everything seems more interesting and fun! AND EASIER. Not that being in your sweet spot isn’t work sometimes, or that you don’t hit a speed bump or get […]

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Sensual and Erotic

Go, Team Sensuality! In my last article, I suggested you try new things as a couple to create more sparks in your relationship by rediscovering each other. If you missed it, you can find it here: http://reidaboutsex.com/bringing-back-the-spark In this article, I’m going to also recommend that you guys create a team project around sexuality. Sensual and […]

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Wanna Be Immortalized On Reid’s Sex Geek Greeting Card for 2013? Here’s How…

Reid needs your sex geeky assistance! Help me make a commemorative Sex Geek greeting card to close out what’s been an extraordinary 2012 and to blast off into 2013! I have the vision of making a card who’s front consists of a collage of us all proudly displaying our Sex Geek, each in our own […]

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Join Reid’s SEX GEEK Village at FetFest and end the Summer with a blast!

Move over Band Camp… It’s time for Sex Camp! Remember in the movie American Pie when Alyson Hannigan’s character talks about “Band Camp?” Did you know there is a Sex Camp! It’s called FetFest, and this year, Reid’s gonna be there… And he’s building a village of Sex Geeks to rule them all! End your Summer […]

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