Sex Addiction

Sex and relationship expert Reid Mihalko in a blue, button up shirt, sitting on an auditorium stage with hand held mic and note cards, lecturing with a slide show on the projector screen behind himReid has a unique take on Sex Addiction…

“Until we have cultural models of healthy promiscuity we can only pathologize people who have lots of sex and sexual partners. Are you a sex addict or just a dishonest cheater who doesn’t have the chutzpah to tell the truth?” ~Reid Mihalko

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Can A Man Feel If The Condom Tears?

How can he tell if the condom breaks? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: Can a man feel if a condom tears while he’s having intercourse? One of our readers, or watchers, wrote in and asked us. This is Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com with his coffee. Reid:    This is Cathy […]

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How Do You Become A Sex Educator?

How can a non-sex educator become a sex educator? And what types of sex educators are there? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, “How does a lay person become a sex educator? Reid:    You said lay. Sorry. This is Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com . Cathy: […]

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How Can You Handle Fluid Bonding in Poly and Open Relationships?

If you’re fluid bonded and one of your partners partners is not playing safe with others, what can you do? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com   Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, my husband and I are fluid bonded with another couple, but they’re more active in the scene and engage […]

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How Can I Attract A More Diverse And Inclusive People To My Group?

Running a Meetup group and wanting a more diverse and inclusive group? What can you do? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: Someone who runs a polyamory group wrote in and said, “I just started this group but it’s mostly Caucasian people with money, how do I attract people…” Reid:    […]

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Having Lots Of Sex, Then Moved In Together and It Ends

What do you do if you were having great sex and once you moved in together and it goes poof?! With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com Reid:    Your partner and you were having lots of sex. Cathy: Hot sex. Reid:    Hot, hot frequent sex and then you moved in together and […]

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How Do You Put On A Condom?

Tips and tricks for putting on a condom!! with Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com.     Cathy: How do you put on a condom? Reid:    Banana time. Condoms on bananas, yeah. Cathy: This is Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com. Reid:    This is Cathy Vartulli from the TheIntimacyDojo.com. Today is banana day. Hello, […]

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How NOT Homophobic Am I?

How NOT Homophobic Am I? America’s favorite sex geek, Reid Mihalko of ReidAboutSex.com, jumps out of a birthday cake and strips, reveals his stripper name from back in his college days (hint: It’s a famous comic book character), and shares the story of how he discovered just HOW not homophobic he is… Happy Birthday to […]

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They Claim They Didnt Know The Condom Broke…What do you do?

Did they tell the truth? What do you do? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: I’m Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com Cathy: I’m Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com (Laughs) Reid: Sing it! Cathy: Oh no, they’ll just hang up. Reid: All right. All right. I’ll let you off this time. Cathy: Oh […]

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What Do You Do When Your Child Questions Their Gender?

How do you support your son or daughter when they question their sexuality? How can you be a loving parent? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, and this was a really loving letter, they said that their child is in college, first year of college, […]

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How Can A 55 Year Old Woman Have A Great Sex Life?

What can you do to help build connection and have a blast no matter what your age? If you want a bunch of lovers? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid:    I’m going to start reading it and then start the video? Cathy: Yeah. You’re so helpful, thank you. Someone wrote […]

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