Sex Addiction

Sex and relationship expert Reid Mihalko in a blue, button up shirt, sitting on an auditorium stage with hand held mic and note cards, lecturing with a slide show on the projector screen behind himReid has a unique take on Sex Addiction…

“Until we have cultural models of healthy promiscuity we can only pathologize people who have lots of sex and sexual partners. Are you a sex addict or just a dishonest cheater who doesn’t have the chutzpah to tell the truth?” ~Reid Mihalko

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If the Condom Is Stuck Inside, What Should You Do?

  If the Condom Is Stuck Inside, What Should You Do?       Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, if the condom falls off inside of a woman or man can you feel it? And will it come out on its own? What do we do?   This is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com/   […]

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I Wonder What To Bring If I Attend to Play Parties

  I Wonder What To Bring If I Attend to Play Parties     Cathy: What should I bring when I go to a play Party? This is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com/   Reid: Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com/ What do you bring Cathy?   Cathy: Uhmmm….  I usually …   Reid; Wait a minute! Is […]

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The Ethical Slut 2nd Edition (Pt 2): An Interview with Dossie Easton

Part 2 in this 90-minute interview with the legendary Dossie Easton, therapist, and co-author of the book The Ethical Slut, now in its 2nd Edition! Full interview with audience Q&A available @ www.ReidAboutSex.com COMING SOON! Dossie: I had… at a time we doing it for very long time, I took non-monogamy vow in 1969, so […]

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Keep Falling In Love When You’re Sexual? Feel Like Its Easier To Avoid Sex All Together?

What do you do if you always fall in love when you have sex? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: What do you do if you’ve been struggling with being sexual? You’re a really sexual person, but every time you’re sexual you kind of fall in love, and it doesn’t […]

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Should You Ever Put A Timeline On Sex?

Is it a good idea to promise to sleep with someone in 6 weeks, or any other timeline? Find out with Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: So Reid, you’re talking to someone about having sex in the future, should you ever give them a timeline? Reid: In future like 2069? […]

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What Are Some Cunnilingus Tips

How do you do cunnilingus well? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and SexGeekSummerCamp.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: Cunnilingus tips? Cathy: Yes. Reid: All right. Cathy: This is Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: This is Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: Reid travels all around the country teaching a workshop at sex-toy stores and colleges […]

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How Do You Know When To Pull Out? Can You Feel it?

What do you watch for to know when to pull out? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and SexGeekSummerCamp.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: Focus! What are we working on? This is Cathy Vartuli, from TheIntimacyDojo.com . Cathy: This is Reid Mihalko, for ReidAboutSex.com . Reid: We have a question. Cathy: You actually started this as a […]

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Can A Man Feel If The Condom Tears?

How can he tell if the condom breaks? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: Can a man feel if a condom tears while he’s having intercourse? One of our readers, or watchers, wrote in and asked us. This is Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com with his coffee. Reid:    This is Cathy […]

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How Do You Become A Sex Educator?

How can a non-sex educator become a sex educator? And what types of sex educators are there? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, “How does a lay person become a sex educator? Reid:    You said lay. Sorry. This is Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com . Cathy: […]

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How Can You Handle Fluid Bonding in Poly and Open Relationships?

If you’re fluid bonded and one of your partners partners is not playing safe with others, what can you do? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com   Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, my husband and I are fluid bonded with another couple, but they’re more active in the scene and engage […]

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