Relationships

Sharing With Your partner That You Dont Want To Have Sex

Example of telling your partner that you don’t want to have sex tonight in a loving way… with Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: Welcome back. Or if this is the first video that you are watching. Welcome for the first time. Cathy: We are talking about how you can talk […]

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Not In The Mood? What Can You Do?

How can you tell your partner you’re not in the mood. How can you do that gently? Find out.. with Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy:   How do you tell your partner in a way that’s loving and caring that you’re just not in the mood? Reid:     This is Cathy Vartuli […]

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How Do You Negotiate With Your Partner Around Their Overnight Dates?…

Dealing with new relationships in your relationship can be challenging… Listen to Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com disagree on what’s reasonable and draw your own conclusion! Leave comments below. Cathy:   Hi Reid and Cathy. I really need some advice and someone to tell me if the rule I have in my […]

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Do You Stay Silent When You’re Disappointed? What Can You Do?

Feel like your voice goes away when you’re disappointed? How can you learn to speak up? Find out… with Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy:   Someone wrote in and said, thanks for doing this video, it’s about handling disappointment. Then she said, I usually stay silent when I’m disappointed. I’m finding that […]

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How Do You Transition Your Poly Relationships?

A lot of poly relationships don’t so much end they transition… how do you do that well? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: In poly relationships, you don’t so much break up always as transition. Reid:    Those relationships never end, do they? Cathy: Some of them don’t. Reid:    They’re like […]

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How Do You Deal With Your Partners Stuff When You Have Your Own?

How do you encourage your partner to source their own support? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid:    A writer, a commenter, wrote in, don’t do that.  I’m Reid Mihalko nfrom ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: I’m Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid:    We had somebody who wrote a really sweet question about, in response […]

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How Can You End Co-Dependency In A Relationship Without Ending The Relationship?

Struggling with co-dependency but not wanting to end the relationship? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: How can you end co-dependency in a relationship without ending the relationship? Reid:    This is Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: This is Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com. Reid:    Our answer is… Cathy: Some of it […]

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Sharing Vulnerably and Feeling Judged?

Told you’re insecure when you open up and share vulnerably? What do you do? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com.

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How Do You Become A Sex Educator?

How can a non-sex educator become a sex educator? And what types of sex educators are there? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, “How does a lay person become a sex educator? Reid:    You said lay. Sorry. This is Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com . Cathy: […]

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How Can You Handle Fluid Bonding in Poly and Open Relationships?

If you’re fluid bonded and one of your partners partners is not playing safe with others, what can you do? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com   Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, my husband and I are fluid bonded with another couple, but they’re more active in the scene and engage […]

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