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Sex Geek Summer Camp’s 2014 Sex Toy Review Video Contest!

The 1st Annual Sex Geek Summer Camp Sex Toy Review Video Contest is Underway! Which lucky camper will win?! We have all the videos submitted, and I’m eagerly watching every moment I get to choose a winner! (I’m traveling and teaching almost non-stop right now, so I have to watch in between lectures!) Contest Is […]

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No Mind Reading Required… Conscious Romance 101

In my last article, I talked about Kissing in the rain isn’t romance! – What is Romance and Why Does It Matter? In case you haven’t read the article, I shared that despite what media and culture tell us, if you cut through the BS and the music swelling/tear-jerking movie hype, romance just means leaving people feeling appreciated, significant, […]

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Kissing In The Rain Isn’t Romance! – What is Romance and Why Does It Matter?

A quick announcement… and then on to Why kissing in the rain isn’t necessarily romance! The Art of Love Relationship Series officially kicked off today with a HUGE TURNOUT, and I hope you will register because THIS Sunday, April 6th, I’m going to share with you what I know about Embracing Your Fantasies: How To Bring Erotic Play Into Your Love Life, in a panel […]

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Confidence and Instinct In The Bedroom [Article]

Am I Good In Bed… Yes, I am! Or Am I? It’s an ironic truth that being confident often makes people appear much sexier… And yet, in most people’s minds there is the question, “Am I good in bed?” Confidence in bed can be very attractive… it can spark interest, ignite passion, and explode into […]

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A Warm Connection, Part II: Training Your Hamsters

In the last article, we talked about one way to create warm connection quickly: Presence. Have you been practicing being present with people? Noticing when your brain goes off on it’s own, and bringing it back to the conversation? Noticing your toes, and the color of their eyes? Even a little bit of practice can […]

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A Warm Connection: Part I of III

Step 1: Presence… Want to learn how to build a warm connection quickly with people? Having a warmth between you and another person can make friendship, romance, and business easier and A LOT more fun. Can you imagine what your life would be like if you could create a warm easy relationship with the people […]

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Mindful Touch and Presence For More Intimacy

Reid: Touching with mindfulness and what was it? Cathy: I don’t remember what I said. Reid: It was good though. Cathy: Yes. Reid: So touching mindfully is the topic for this video and Cathy Vartuli, why is it important to touch people mindfully? Cathy: A lot of us when we’re first dating someone and touching […]

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Bringing Back The Spark!

How YOU can bring back the spark! Why Security Doesn’t Excite Excitement and Why Excitement Doesn’t Make Security Feel Secure! What makes us feel secure rarely turns us on. Security is a relief. It’s sure. Security soothes your nervous system. Excitement feels dangerous. It’s stimulating. Excitement pumps the adrenaline. Adventure and intimacy are opposites, but both […]

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Sensual and Erotic

Go, Team Sensuality! In my last article, I suggested you try new things as a couple to create more sparks in your relationship by rediscovering each other. If you missed it, you can find it here: http://reidaboutsex.com/bringing-back-the-spark In this article, I’m going to also recommend that you guys create a team project around sexuality. Sensual and […]

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Wanna Be Immortalized On Reid’s Sex Geek Greeting Card for 2013? Here’s How…

Reid needs your sex geeky assistance! Help me make a commemorative Sex Geek greeting card to close out what’s been an extraordinary 2012 and to blast off into 2013! I have the vision of making a card who’s front consists of a collage of us all proudly displaying our Sex Geek, each in our own […]

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