Dating

Just Want To Be Friends? What Do You Say?

If someone’s dropping the “L” word too soon, or you realize you just want to be friends… What do you do? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: Someone wrote and said, “I recently parted with a female over the New Year’s holidays but now she’s obviously more into me that […]

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Should You Ever Put A Timeline On Sex?

Is it a good idea to promise to sleep with someone in 6 weeks, or any other timeline? Find out with Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: So Reid, you’re talking to someone about having sex in the future, should you ever give them a timeline? Reid: In future like 2069? […]

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What Are Some Cunnilingus Tips?

How do you do cunnilingus well? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and SexGeekSummerCamp.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: Cunnilingus tips?  Cathy: Yes.  Reid: All right.  Cathy: This is Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com.  Reid: This is Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com.  Cathy: Reid travels all around the country teaching a workshop at sex-toy stores and colleges […]

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Is Your Condom Too Long?

Does your condom slip forward so there’s a bunch of material at the end? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, “My partner and I often have a problem when the condom will slip off his dick or over stretch the tip so there’s this long […]

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How Do You Handle Risk More Easily

How can you walk toward the gun and handle risk better? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: Today, we’re talking about risk. How do you handle it and how can it be easier for you?  Reid: You mean the board game?  Cathy: Yes, of course.  Reid: I’m Reid Mihalko from […]

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Not Sure If You’re Non-monogamous or Have Intimacy Issues?

Are you a monogamous person with intimacy issues or poly? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: Do you ever feel like you’ll never fall in love, that you might be broken?  Cathy: That’s a really scary feeling.  Reid: We had a question, some of you awesome folks and you’re writing […]

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Want To Date But Are Scared Of Holding Hands?

Nervous about holding hands and finding that holding you back from dating or getting close? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: What do you do if you want to get close to people, you want to go dating, but you’re scared of holding hands?  Reid: This is Cathy Vartuli from […]

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What Can You Do If Someone Always Follows You Around And Gets Really Close?

What do you do if someone won’t leave you alone? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: We’re eating chewable vitamins, and we’re going to do this video while we make these faces.  Cathy: I’ve finished mine, hopefully.  Reid: What’s the question?  Cathy: This came from … We had a video […]

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Not Having A Lot Of Sex And Feeling Strange Because You’re A Sex Educator?

Shouldn’t all sex educators being getting laid? Not necessarily. Learn more with Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: I can’t take him anywhere.  Reid: That’s why we sit right here, in front of this camera. Cathy: Someone wrote in and said they’re a sex educator. Good job. They’re also going through […]

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What’s The Alternative To Relationships For Life?

If relationships aren’t necessarily “for life” how do you treat them? What do you look for? Learn more with Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, “Should we stop seeing relationships as made for life? What’s the alternative in terms of the conditions of relationships? How do […]

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