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Is It Safe To Be Sexually Intimate With Someone With Herpes?

Cathy: Hi Reid. One of our listeners asked, is it safe to be involved with someone with herpes? Reid: I’m Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: I’m Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com Reid: Is it safe? Cathy: Well, it is true that our culture makes … Reid: That was a shout out to my friends who are really big geeks about […]

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If I Need Lube For Sex, Does That Mean I’m Not Turned On?

  Cathy: We had someone write to us about needing lube for sex. She had thought originally because she needed lube, her partner thought that that meant she wasn’t turned on. What do you think about that Reid? Reid: I have lots of thoughts about this. I’m Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com Cathy: I’m Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com Reid: Lube. […]

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I’m Afraid I’m Losing My Partner

  Cathy: We had someone write to us and say that he’s so in love with the woman he’s with and he feels like he’s losing her, and he wanted to know what to do. Do you have any suggestions? Reid: I do. I’m Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com Cathy: I’m Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: And here is our […]

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Being Attracted to Unavailable and Distant People

Cathy: Do you ever find that you’re getting attracted, you find yourself attracted to people that are distant or emotionally unavailable? That can be a pattern that some people can fond to. And if you can just hit them upside the head it would make you feel better. Reid: Yeah, just do that. Next video please. […]

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Cheated On In Relationship

Cathy: What do you do when your partner cheats on you? Reid: I get angry, that’s what I do. Cathy: Thank you, that was so helpful Reid Mihalko from http://www.Reidaboutsex.com. Reid: Awesome. You’re welcome Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: It can be really devastating to be cheated on. There’s a trust that’s been broken. Cheating and having open-relationships are […]

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Cheating

Cathy: Someone wrote in and asked, she said she’s interested in a married man and she doesn’t know what to do. Reid: Mmmhmmmm … Cathy: This is Reid Mihalko from … Reid: I’m going to assume that that man’s not married to her. Cathy: No, he’s not. Reid: Mmmhmmm … Cathy: This is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com Reid: This is Cathy Vartuli […]

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Digging Deeping in Your Relationships

Cathy: Have you found that your relationship might be a little stagnant? Or that you’re not growing as fast as you would like? Reid: What? I thought everything was fine. What are you telling me? Cathy: Actually, digging into some of the deeper stuff in your relationship, having the conversations that you don’t normally have, can help […]

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Does He Love Me

Cathy: Does he love me? How can I tell? Someone wrote in and asked us that question the other day. It’s a great question. And this is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and I’m Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and apparently, we’ve killed him, so I’ll just do this talk without him. Reid: Oh, let me count the […]

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Doing Things In Bed That You Don’t Want to Do

  Cathy: We had someone write in to us and say that their partner is wanting them to try things in bed that they don’t really know they want to try. They’re not really sure and … Reid: Like eating cookies in bed? Cathy: Yeah. I’m sure that was it. Reid: That’s crummy. Cathy: Oh my god. Reid: […]

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How Do I Know When She’s Come

Cathy: How do you know when she has an orgasm, so you know when to stop? Someone wrote in asking about that and I love that the person wants to know more. There is a lot of pressure I think in our society to know when the person had an orgasm or not. Reid: Our society is […]

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