Dating

What Do You Do After You Ditch The Rules Around Dating and Sex

If you dump the old paradigms around sex and dating, what do you do? Find out with Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: We have a video on playing games around sex and releasing old paradigms in our relationships, where a woman’s not supposed to initiate sex, not supposed to have […]

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Sharing With Your partner That You Dont Want To Have Sex

Example of telling your partner that you don’t want to have sex tonight in a loving way… with Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: Welcome back. Or if this is the first video that you are watching. Welcome for the first time. Cathy: We are talking about how you can talk […]

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Role Modeling… Asking For What You Want In Bed

It can be hard to ask for what you want in bed. Tips, and role modeling with Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com Reid: This is awesome. We’re going to get so meta. We’re talking about how you can give your partners upgrades about certain things… Cathy: In bed. Reid: In bed. […]

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Is Polyamory Only For The Affluent And Privilege?

Does poly belong only to the wealthy and well educated? Find out… with Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy:   In regards to the interview you did with Diane Adams, which was really good- Reid:     Thank you. Cathy:   About polyamory, someone said, “Would these academic people think differently if they lost their […]

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How Do You Negotiate With Your Partner Around Their Overnight Dates?…

Dealing with new relationships in your relationship can be challenging… Listen to Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com disagree on what’s reasonable and draw your own conclusion! Leave comments below. Cathy:   Hi Reid and Cathy. I really need some advice and someone to tell me if the rule I have in my […]

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How Do You Have Sex With Bigger People?

Is there anything you need to know if you want to sleep with a bigger person? Find out… with Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy:   So, what if you have never slept with a bigger person? And, you want to? How do you talk to them about what’s going on and […]

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Consecutive and Concurrent Relationships

What is the difference between consecutive and concurrent relationships? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid:    Hello everybody, it’s Reid Mihalko from Reidaboutsex.com. Cathy: And Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid:    And we have an answer. We figured out from this other video that we’re shooting about concurrent and congruent relationships, and […]

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How Do You Transition Your Poly Relationships?

A lot of poly relationships don’t so much end they transition… how do you do that well? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: In poly relationships, you don’t so much break up always as transition. Reid:    Those relationships never end, do they? Cathy: Some of them don’t. Reid:    They’re like […]

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How Can You End Co-Dependency In A Relationship Without Ending The Relationship?

Struggling with co-dependency but not wanting to end the relationship? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: How can you end co-dependency in a relationship without ending the relationship? Reid:    This is Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: This is Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com. Reid:    Our answer is… Cathy: Some of it […]

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Sharing Vulnerably and Feeling Judged?

Told you’re insecure when you open up and share vulnerably? What do you do? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com.

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